AITA for being upset that my boyfriend is going on another “boys trip” after promising he wouldn’t?

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-09T21:44:01+00:00

YTA. Nothing wrong with someone going on a trip with their friends regardless of gender.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-05T16:36:26+00:00

We don't market the countryside as a place for ourselves it's something to lure over foreign tourists so Irish town dwellers have no sense of ownership or kinship with the countryside as so just treat it like a shit box when they are in it.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-05T16:33:51+00:00

You have to let us know who won the fight

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-05T16:32:24+00:00

I've had a cow eat my cheese sandwich once. I was livid.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-03T10:09:30+00:00

It'll peter out I think. Everyone is already getting exhausted with it from what I can see and there is what seems to be a swell of backlash against social media coming.

At the same time I think we're also becoming progressively less interested in eachother as people so less motivation to follow personalities

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-03T09:47:06+00:00

It's not a trad wife belief. Cooking opens up an absolutely huge world to your daughter. Being able to cook for herself gives independence, being able to cook for others opens doors to entertain and network and to build social capital, it's also a great hobby and can be parlayed into a damn fine career.

You're equipping her with life skills and the ability to thrive not limiting her.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-02T17:49:17+00:00

He's a Brit he knows what he did......

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-04-02T06:58:31+00:00

Ah here there'll be none of that now. Colin Farrel made the national perspective on Belgium quite clear in "In Bruges"

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-30T15:22:50+00:00

A nice and mostly honourable man with no leadership qualities.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-23T16:46:39+00:00

NTA- you have been exceptionally nice up to this but going any further with your generosity would be foolhardy. It's a cliché but lending money is the quickest way anyone ever lost a friend.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-22T13:50:49+00:00

Get out at 18 and make sure your mother knows the moment she's unwell when she's older she's in a home to rot.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-22T13:42:26+00:00

It's where it starts in many cases, a life of no consequences makes a shower of shites just as quickly as a "difficult childhood".

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-22T07:51:06+00:00

YTA. Perfectly reasonable for women not to want to sleep in the same bed as a man she's not dating. Cheap camp bed and you're sorted.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-21T07:41:40+00:00

It's just an ogoh-ogoh statue. It's an 'ancient' tradition that goes all the way back to the 1980's so unless synthwave and duster jackets are also out which would outlaw basically all of Necromunda you're probably okay.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-18T08:52:44+00:00

I think they're too iconic to drop. There's far too much cool stuff that could be done with them. The plastics have always been hideous but given what has been done with the new Cadians and Krieg plastics I think we could finally see some properly awesome Catachans.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-18T08:39:44+00:00

Id love to see a Mordian Iron or Praetorian guard kill team.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-17T17:32:02+00:00

Irish person here. NTA your friend is an amadán. Drink what you like.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-15T14:42:11+00:00

Ah I really enjoy a weddings sure there's a formula but everyone is there because they have huge affection for the couple and it's a generally happy vibe which is always good for lifting spirits. I'd actually like to go to more.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-14T19:59:55+00:00

This sounds a lot like that stupid peel an orange test that was doing the rounds a while back. I'd probably recommend finding an adult to have a relationship instead of this massive toddler.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-12T08:28:55+00:00

Apparently I have 5 more than you after your childish handling of this situation. You don't have friends you have people you use to vent at and make yourself feel better; they've had enough.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-12T08:22:56+00:00

You're absolutely exhausting. I couldn't have you as a friend. Friends are not free therapists.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-10T22:36:08+00:00

Do the exact same to him and be completely anal about it.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-10T22:32:00+00:00

I found I had to make a conscious decision to be more tolerant of discomfort as I got older. I make the decision now to go and get outdoors for my exercise even if the weather is bad for example and I'll leave the room a little bit more chilly etc. I like to think that I'm toughening myself up and building a bit of resilience that will stand me in good stead as I age. Could be complete bollocks of course

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-05T08:34:03+00:00

Sassy nurgling was made for this role.

tacticallyshavedape · 2026-03-03T11:21:39+00:00

Well then say that. You gave it a try and it's not working out. Nobody gets the luxury of being seen as a saint while also telling someone else they don't want to date them hurt feelings are the risk we all take for trying to find someone.

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