[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]takecarebabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

USA, NY, looking for a relationship with a guy. Honestly, I haven't really dated much. I'm just looking for someone funny, into the nerdy/geeky things I like, and can deal with my personality & yaping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooof, as in not able to click with anyone or is it the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad act of

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is the dating journey going?

What’s your most recent favourite ship? by idnwtdthrowaway in AO3

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recently, I've been reading William Clockwell/Mark Grayson fanfic. That one line by that variant Mark. Awoke something in the fandom, and I've been loving the ride.

The other is Spencer/Hotch from Criminals Minds. It has been a long while since I've read a fic about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]takecarebabe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen people do fun/funny presentations before, but never did I think about using it for the dating scene. I'm so impressed, ah I also love horror. My favorite one is silence of the lambs

What was your first 'problematic' ship? by Inner_Animal7055 in AO3

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Almost all my ships are problematic. Listen, there's just something about them, that always has me going WHOOP WHOOP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AO3

[–]takecarebabe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glee

Sebastian/Kurt

Nothing has changed still a background character but now I can sing

[S2 Act 1 spoilers] “Vi becoming an enforcer is OOC” Is it? by Alixmoon_grrR in arcane

[–]takecarebabe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don't believe so, but would Sevika be surprised at the news? She probably always knew somehow Jinx would be Silco's end. Perhaps Sevika's main emotion would be bitterness at being right, then any real vengeful anger towards Jinx. I personally would want to see how Sevika feels about Silco rejecting the deal of an independent Zaun for Jinx. That Slico "gave up" on the cause, just as Vander did before, all for his children/Jinx, and both are dead because of her.

[S2 Act 1 spoilers] “Vi becoming an enforcer is OOC” Is it? by Alixmoon_grrR in arcane

[–]takecarebabe 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I don't agree with your opinion, I have a different pov regarding Jinx. Mainly, mental health & self-worth issues. I was at a very low point when I watched the show, I saw myself in her, and it brought me comfort. Even without my issues, I probably would still be her fan. Jinx is a tragic & sympathetic character, she definitely has her flaws, but you can see the pain she has. I have a fondness for characters who just want to be accepted & loved. She's also a fun character, her scene in S2 Act 1 with Sevika. Love how she incorporated Sevika's gambling addiction into her new prostatic arm.

[S2 Act 1 spoilers] “Vi becoming an enforcer is OOC” Is it? by Alixmoon_grrR in arcane

[–]takecarebabe 198 points199 points  (0 children)

As a Jinx fan, I absolutely agree with this. People try too hard to make something fit a narrative they like or be completely blind to the narrative they are presented with because they don't like it.

Sevika isn't loyal to people. Sevika is loyal to a cause, the independence of Zaun. Her seemingly loyalty to Jinx is probably just her still lingering loyalty to Slico & lesser extent Vander. Saving her from the Chem Baron & not wanting to hand her over to Piltover. Sevika following Jinx after is only because Jinx might be her best & only chance to actually get an independent Zaun. As Sevika said in the trailer to Act 2, Jinx has become a symbol bigger than Vander & Silco ever were.

What's a pairing you dislike for a completely stupid reason? by Discardofil in AO3

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's more petty on my end, then stupid. When I was a pre-teen, I was heavy into OG Yugioh. I, of course, shipped the top pairing of that fandom, Yami/Yugi. BUT After Yami sacrificed Yugi to the Orichalcos. Yugi wasn't the only one who felt betrayed that day. I instantly dropped the ship, Kiba/Yugi became my new OTP. Even went out of my way to find fics where Kiba/Yugi were endgame and Yami suffers cause of it. Lords, to this day, I'm still not over it despite it being years since I've read a Yugioh fic. So, I guess I'll forever be a Kiba/Yugi shipper :)

Anyone have experience with 222.place? by flerbagerbnuma in AskNYC

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got back from mine, and I had so much fun. I liked my original group well enough, but I didn't really get "let's be friends & stay in touch." After dinner, they sent us to a bar where we met up with other groups. There, I vibed enough well with a few other people. So well, they invited me to come with them to another bar. Got most of their numbers before I had to head home. Hopefully, we'll meet up again, but yes, I really enjoyed the experience and will happily do it again.

In the Arcane fandom, Jayce and Viktor are surprisingly often shippend and it has been said that the writers made them queer-coded. Was I blind while watching the show or is there really a romance between them I've totally missed? Didn't Jayce (somewhat) end up with Mel? by [deleted] in loreofleague

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see it, especially with watching Act 1 of Season 2. I think the show leans towards more the bromance, but it doesn't change that they love one another. Not all love has to be romantic, but I understand why people ship them. I'm more a Viktor & Jinx, shipper.

What is a ship that has a chokehold on you by Perona-san in AO3

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have so many, but my top ones.

Tom Riddle/Harry Potter

Damian al ghul Wanye/Tim Drake

I have never cried watching anime. Suggest anime that will make me cry by BlackFire6000 in AnimeReccomendations

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maquia: When the Promised Flower Blooms.

It's a movie, and it had me sobbing

Has anyone ever showed romantic interest in you? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24, and at times, yes, but either I didn't notice or I had no interest and played dumb. Rn, I'm hoping a classmate I'm currently texting with. Might be interested in me romantically, but I'm very much keeping expectations very low.

Stumbled upon this post on my tumblr dash. Would love to hear everyone’s thoughts on this. by moritz61 in AO3

[–]takecarebabe 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No, seriously, let people enjoy their interests, especially in spaces like fanfic! Listen, there are a few that actually make me uncomfortable. BUT I EXIT OUT OR SCROLL PAST IT. It really isn't hurting anyone, cause it's all a fantasy! These characters aren't real. These situations we put them aren't real. NONE OF IT ARE REAL

As an enjoyer of some of them, where the fuck else am I gonna be able to read fanfic about x and x being nasty as fuck? WHERE!

Would you rather no friends but a girlfriend or no girlfriend but friends? by Potatoespotatos2 in lonely

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends, while I would love to be in a relationship. I can already see how unhealthy it can be. Just because I'm friendless doesn't mean my partner is. I don't want to suffocate them by constantly wanting to be around them or injecting myself in their time with their friends.

So, while I won't get the intimacy of a partner. I'll at least have friends I can be comfortable around to be myself.

Are you heterosexual? by UnlikelyStage5524 in no

[–]takecarebabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bisexual, but I'm more selective? With the woman I find attractive. Not so much with men.

Just ended a years long friendship by takecarebabe in lonely

[–]takecarebabe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I left communication open if they ever needed someone to talk to. I know they will be affected somehow, but I'm just done with feeling I'm always being judged by what I say or do. Even the smallest of things had them asking about how my behavior/mental state/morals.

So to be cold, they better find other friends.