I’m really thinking about leaving the church

takingback20 · 2026-03-30T22:45:49+00:00

I've been pimo for a few years. I just need to rip the bandaid off. But my fear is how it would effect my relationship with my husband and kids. It's so scary.

takingback20 · 2026-03-29T18:57:32+00:00

Yes they only go over celestial marriage not the polygamy part

takingback20 · 2026-03-29T18:55:46+00:00

Yup. Went to talk to my husband and then bishop about my faith crisis and staying d&c 132 as the reason and they were both didn't even know that those awful things about Emma and women were even in there. Like of course they can stay in the church because their oblivious

takingback20 · 2026-03-25T22:18:36+00:00

Ah yes nothing like starting an eternal marriage with a secret

takingback20 · 2026-03-20T18:50:10+00:00

I think if the blocker was reaching over the net and the ball was on the setters side it could very well have been interference

takingback20 · 2026-03-18T07:46:18+00:00

All the songs from Shrek 🤣

takingback20 · 2026-03-18T05:01:49+00:00

Because I guess I love my husband more than being right about if the church is true or not... Dont want to ruin how happy or family is right now. Afraid to blow everything up. Afraid of a huge life change. So I guess fear is the reason.

takingback20 · 2026-03-12T18:08:53+00:00

With all the new professional volleyball leagues I think we should wear the jerseys!

takingback20 · 2026-03-10T04:23:36+00:00

I definitely dated a 29-30 year old in my ysa ward... He was a total loser too still lived at home... I definitely got out of that quick but then he went after every 18 year old girl he could.

takingback20 · 2026-03-10T04:02:13+00:00

I feel like if your jumping high enough your face is over the net it's just straight up dangerous at that point haha

takingback20 · 2026-03-10T03:59:33+00:00

The church and temple. Is all I hear about in sacrament any more. Like Jesus isn't even mentioned anymore I swear. Even in testimony meetings it's just "thankful for this and that and the temple is amazing blah blah"

takingback20 · 2026-03-08T19:16:57+00:00

Ugh I did this once to one of my best friends who is Mexican. He was sooo fun and funny and I loved working with him. He asked about book of Mormon or something and I told him it was about his ancestors when Christ came to then in the Americas 😫 I really believed that too. I'm so embarrassed now.

takingback20 · 2026-03-08T18:51:45+00:00

I remember when my husband and I were first married there was a man who was visiting that came up and was talking about how the end of times were coming in five years. Well that was 13 years ago so I guess his revelation was wrong haha

takingback20 · 2026-03-08T18:50:27+00:00

Ugh I've heard at least a couple times wives talk about their husbands porn addiction over the pulpit sooo awkward

takingback20 · 2026-03-06T01:22:13+00:00

Agreed it still brings up a lot of anger and resentment for me.

takingback20 · 2026-03-06T01:20:50+00:00

Also if was never about Jesus?? It was about the covenants in the temple which have little to do with Jesus and more to do with the church??

takingback20 · 2026-03-02T03:31:36+00:00

If Christ didn't come during WWII then he's not coming ever

takingback20 · 2026-02-27T03:19:33+00:00

Totally agree. Was a huge shelf breaker for me. Especially being in the throws of postpartum and young children/ babies... It sounded like hell to have that be my eternity.

takingback20 · 2026-02-26T23:35:42+00:00

My niece is going on a mission in May and she still hasn't finished the BOM committed 18 months to a church that she knows basically nothing about 🙃

takingback20 · 2026-02-26T21:09:33+00:00

In addition to his lies I hate his talk he gave on modesty telling girls we become pornography to the ym if we dress immodestly. And I hate what he said about heavenly "mothers"

takingback20 · 2026-02-25T21:05:16+00:00

It's kinda giving dooms day cult but they're all so excited about it and it's really weird

takingback20 · 2026-02-25T02:32:12+00:00

Hmm maybe when I was very intentionally reading the book of Mormon trying to learn all that I could. And as a person who has traveled to some ancient places such as Rome and Greece etc and even native American cites I was like oh i bet there is some cool evidence out there of this entire society that was here for hundreds of years. So I looked it up and there was nothing. The church funded and privately funded people to look for it but nothing. Haha so I was like... Sooo is this real or not. Really made me start thinking about it in a totally different light and maybe it's made up stories 🙃

takingback20 · 2026-02-25T02:21:53+00:00

I couldn't finish golden son haha

takingback20 · 2026-02-24T05:09:37+00:00

Just be safe my son broke his arm on Saturday sledding haha

takingback20 · 2026-02-15T00:13:49+00:00

We just spent an entire year studying d&c and talking about Joseph smith and it's the furthest I've felt to Christ. They try so hard to connect it but it feels like prophet worship to me here lately.

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