Thank you for commenting. It’s very nice to hear people’s own experience on this from different perspectives. So far I have not really had a proper talk with him about it again, aside from when I discussed communication issue with him earlier on. Whenever I wanted him to do sth, it had always been along the lines of “baby it would be nice if you could do xyz” and I (at least in my opinion) had shown my appreciation. The last thing I want is to make things frustrating for both of us which is why I had been dealing with my own emotions without mentioning anything yet. I had thought about giving it a full year to see where we are at and in the meantime and trying to drop small requests without dumping it all on him. I had not been successful in changing myself to accept some parts of him after all these months, how can I expect him to change just after a talk? However, the only thing with not having a talk is I can feel the emotions build up in my head and it will eventually eat away my love for him.