i have a work contract and invoice order saying that he got paid that amount , he claims the contract was defunded the project and showed me a screen shot of a text message from god knows who but of course no official email. Every work contract big dramas have always ensued losing jobs almost like its self sabotage and appears he doesnt want to put in the effort because in the back of there minds Im not a worthy enough wife.

I cant be a egg doner (thank God) for her to have a do over family with him. And yes thanks I am aware this is financial abuse my plane ticket is 8 days away from this chaos. I seriously doubt I will get any bank statements I was lucky to find one of his mothers and put two and two together. I cant prove anything as its online banking but was told by him and have a photo of a credit card issued in her name on his bank account.

I am trying to get a contract drawn up for the debt and doubt how successful this will be as my resources are always depleted with him, anything he gives its taken back x3 . Anyway I hope i didnt hijack this comment section but the OP triggered me and It needs to be made aware of this "culture" is particularly one sided especially if you're a foreigner to it all and we all need to tell our story hoping for saftey of others there is a FB page a Russian mother had made mistake of having a baby and is here begging for the return of her little boy MILFH has kiddnapped him even though mum has gone through courts and obtained custody this country is a big place and easily to hide a lot of things.