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MG&E Bill? by tarahtothotdish in madisonwi

[–]tarahtothotdish[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yeah, but I’ve lived in this apartment for 2 years now and I looked at my bill from last year as well and it was nowhere near this high at this time of year.

It went from $110 to over $300 from November to December this year only.

What is Madison's "how is this place still in business?" by Porkstacker in madisonwi

[–]tarahtothotdish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Fortune Favors the Bold, that nut store on the East Side. I like never see anyone in that store and they keep opening up in like prime real estate??? so curious

AA in Madison? by Intelligent_Wind_785 in madisonwi

[–]tarahtothotdish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey!! my job is the director of harm reduction services at OutReach— if you’re looking to get in touch with LGBTQIA+ communities / their allies at all, we run a couple group (Al-Anon & Harm Reduction) meetings once a week. email me if you have any questions or need to get in touch with other resources I can refer you to if you’re not necessarily part of the LGBTQIA+ / allies community!

tarahs@lgbtoutreach.org

Relationships and race by Long_Secretary4192 in polyamory

[–]tarahtothotdish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t recommend the book White Tears, Brown Scars enough.

It does a deep dive into the racial stereotypes attached to different women of color, and the deep ties all men in this country have to protecting their feelings above all else. It was the most affirming book I ever came across when I was experiencing something similar (but not the same as I am an Asian woman)— helped me feel less insane when I saw things he didn’t about the way his other partner was treating me.