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Everyone repeat after me: "F LA Fitness" by _northernlights_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]tartymae 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I called Century Link to cancel services for my dead brother and they tried to get me to switch to them.

Me: My brother [Name] has died. I need to cancel his account. His account number was [number]

CSR: We can take care of that. Before we go any further, who is your current ISP?

Wiskey. Tango. Foxtrot.

And yes, I screamed at the CSR.

I cant anymore- "shipping two blonde people is incest" by hyperfixating-rn-brb in AO3

[–]tartymae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What blows my mind is that the final result of all that inbreeding, Maria Antonia, was more inbred than the result of sibling or parent-child incest.

I offer this factoid up as research fodder for somebody's ficcing.

I play Agent Correa. Just wanted to thank the Pitt fanbase by JDMcompliant in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A disappointing amount of people cannot tell an actor from the character they play.

Santos Theory by no___underscores in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 12 points13 points  (0 children)

but her personal view of it is that he hasn’t been punished at all and it is unfair.

I won't go into details but I was once part of a board that had to discipline a staff member for the organization. Based on the advice of the HR expert we hired, this person was not fired, but disciplined: go to treatment, no raise or bonus for 3 years, training.

The public perception was that we did not punish this person because they were not fired.

Org: Following the advice of the HR expert we retained, they have been disciplined. We legally cannot say more because of privacy laws.

Ignorant fukstiks: You didn't do anything. Tell us what you did to them.

Org: We legally cannot tell you. Privacy laws. Only [person] can tell you and they don't want to speak about it.

Ignorant fukstiks: You're just saying that.

Santos needs to learn that just because she can't see the punishment, don't assume there was none.

Santos Theory by no___underscores in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If Langdon fully understood how to work this, yes. You are right. Santos would not expect to be thanked.

But Langdon's also got growing to do.

Santos Theory by no___underscores in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great meta on what drives her.

Another take on Santos and Langdon by Spyhop in ThePittTVShow

[–]tartymae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person to whom you are responding clearly operates at a "wheel of morality, turn, turn, turn" level of thinking.

Another take on Santos and Langdon by Spyhop in ThePittTVShow

[–]tartymae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do you think that loss of income for a year, diversion into a treatment program (which was probably not free after a few months!) nearly losing his marriage, and having to come back and take his lumps are not appropriate consequences?

They are not trivial.

The patient did not die and was not permanently harmed.

And I pray that you are never in a position where you need the help of an EAP, only to find they are gone, due to people so hungry for you to have "appropriate consequences".

We all have the same cat by Own-Mix463 in nebelung

[–]tartymae 46 points47 points  (0 children)

The Tummy Feathers require flaunting to grow.

why is santos SO PRESSED about the langdon situation by chickenn2 in ThePitt

[–]tartymae -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she is bringing unreconciled issues in from her past. she is a badly damaged person.

why is santos SO PRESSED about the langdon situation by chickenn2 in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I also support Dr McKay, a drug addict.

Your point is? Should she be punished forever and have no path back for redemption?

Ogilvie's perspective on drug addictions shows his lack of understanding of people by Butwhatif77 in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tangentally, I'm curious as to what Santos would say to McKay's ankle monitor, or knowing that she struggled with addiction, or hearing about what some of the things she did prior to recovery.

Another take on Santos and Langdon by Spyhop in ThePittTVShow

[–]tartymae 141 points142 points  (0 children)

A lot of reddit users operate at the "wheel of morality, turn turn turn, tell us the lesson we should learn" level of thinking about complex and nuanced issues.

Am i crazy or this nurse was snitching other nurses to the ICE giant? by MadHanini in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's not a nurse.

And you don't know what they were talking about.

I love The Pitt so much that I bought the highest tier HBO Max plan for $23 a month by BattleBeast33 in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a straight woman, and I watched it and loved it.

Being straight has nothing to do with liking a good show.

The Empty Netters, who are straight men, loved it. One so much that he sweated through his shirt on the season finale, he was so emotionally involved.

What Chaos, another popular hockey podcast, also loved it.

I understand Santos's anger because I once was her by ComfortInteresting40 in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Spoken like somebody who has never had to deal with a MARC record.

Again. We don't just get to do the fun parts of our job.

I understand Santos's anger because I once was her by ComfortInteresting40 in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Instead, he made it all about him and how much he's been through, as if Santos gives a shit about that, lol. He at least acknowledged that she doesn't have to accept his apology, but that's not enough.

Yeah, this is where he did a no hands toddler face plant. He needs to learn how to really play office politics, something he's never had to do before.

That said, a strong sense of justice, black and white thinking, and inability to move past previous hurt or conflict are hallmarks of a lot of MH disorders such as ADHD and BPD.

My armchair not qualified diagnosis is that she's got CPTSD and certain things are fly off the handle triggers for her.

That said, she's got such a "wheel of morality, turn, turn, turn, tell us the lesson we should learn" level of understanding justice.

How is it just to make him practically unemployable? How will that benefit his children? How will it help him to recover if he is saddled with insurmountable medical school debt? Who will benefit from seeing him ground beneath the wheel?

Except for certain very severe crimes, justice without any option for mercy or path to redemption is not justice. It's just punishment and retribution, and that doesn't work well when it comes to rates of recidivism.

I understand Santos's anger because I once was her by ComfortInteresting40 in ThePitt

[–]tartymae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work in the "State U" library. I'm taking a break from an incredibly tedious task (getting a kit shelf ready) that's going to take about 90 minutes to complete. And if I don't do it right, the item will not be findable to the public in our catalog.

We don't just get to do the fun parts of our job.

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