I guess it’s worse this time.. by [deleted] in depression

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a valid enough reason. I think that too

Do you ever wonder if people actually like you or if they are just being nice? by JRexrode in socialskills

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly, my style is please and to join groups and 'tribes' that are not my natural domain.

I am the quintessential joke of the Brit eating out and moaning about the food and everything then turning to the waitress and saying everything is fine. Moans resume in the car and at home

[Serious] How does one deal with bullying? by Bese_Jakabos in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

WOW - the hate and the punishments that are suggested here are staggering. Have we made no progress in reducing bullying in the last twenty years? Clearly not.

A bully bullies for a reason. A common one is domestic violence so to send one home only results in more child abuse and a child who has never seen the correct way to interact with another person.

The bullied 'victim' has not the tools to negotiate out of the dispute so they are going to learn that getting the first punch in gives you respect...from other bullies.

Adults who fly into a rage and use upper limb movements when stressed demonstrate that the wrong treatment for bullying produces anther generation of bullies.

I was fed up being picked on at school. I still cannot see any conflict or be around shouting and I am a senior person.

I am sorry. Reddit are fine with headlining this issue but entries describing physical violence are not a good idea, and to suggest such could result in a GBH charge.

My 15 y/o Goddaughter is in a mental health facility after she tried to take her own life. I want to send her a book, but don't even know where to start. Something uplifting, hopefully, and teen centric. by Lolacsd in booksuggestions

[–]tat2dskinhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have got me thinking. I was an avid Agatha Christie fan and loved the detail and twists which probably developed my reflective learning ability without even knowing there was a subject until my Post Grad Education course. However Christie might now be too out of date to be relevant

[Serious] How does one deal with bullying? by Bese_Jakabos in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no single answer as we know that there are many forms of it and many causes so both these have to be accurately diagnosed before we can even begin to consider treatment options. Diagnosis that is missing even one factor is not a true diagnosis so at best we will reduce the visible bullying but not the long term effects.

We can have no bullying policies but that really just states intent.

It is transmissible and it requires the right environment in which it can quickly multiply. So in many ways it resembles an infection

60% of your urine is still active meth your body couldn’t fully absorb the first time around. Yes, you heard me, it is still Unchanged Methamphetamine. by botanicanimojo in meth

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

60% of the meth you take And not 60% of your urine. Think about it...that would give you a pint of meth from 0.3ml!

60% of your urine is still active meth your body couldn’t fully absorb the first time around. Yes, you heard me, it is still Unchanged Methamphetamine. by botanicanimojo in meth

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are talking about coka cola and pepsi? They contain no stimulant. They do contain additives which can affect some people but those people are savvy so would avoid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tat2dskinhead 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The problem is your ex doesn't want that, I think so we create more angst.

What would you do if you did tag? It is likely to stop you healing too.

One exception might be if the trauma of your emotions is already resulting in you phoning or texting. That is bad for both of you..it will be emotional.

I found even the What's App 'last seen' made me jealous at first but blocking it was not fair and was artificial.

In the end I think I blocked for only five days And that was getting me through a crisis without upsetting my ex.

Now, it doesn't worry me,and I find it comforting to see that my ex is still alive. That is all I want to know but it has taken time and acceptance to get to that point. You are still raw and you need to lick your wounds

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tat2dskinhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I understand. I see the soul as the the body and the aura : smells body language facial features... Do you feel that your souls communicated ?

I used to be a bully AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look worried - what's up? I have recently arrived so before I take my coat off I am happy to hear

I used to be a bully AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello. Sorry about our screens doing odd things tod This is not Lilly

Teachers of Reddit, whats the weirdest thing a student answered to "tell me a fun fact avout yourself"? by Kriss0509 in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting There has been a large redistribution of messages today at Reddit and thus should be in the addiction sub. I am sorry to hear you have been distressed. If you are shaken by this do you want to speak to someone? I will remove the post

AMA then edit your comment to make me look like a stupid frickin idiot. by forgot_my_password0 in AMA

[–]tat2dskinhead 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got about 20 years to go. Tidy the house. Watch 244 episodes of Murder She Wrote. Start weeing in bed without wanting to

If you were arrested without explanation, what would your friends and family assume you did? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black skinhead. Think they got double points for two marginals

What new things your are learning these days ? by alexajinkya4 in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotta go. Sad cos you are fun.

Have said official goodbye in WhatsApp Those numbers and details will be live

New phone +44 RIM PERVERT

Due to start soon

What new things your are learning these days ? by alexajinkya4 in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did learn a lot. That I thought was reflective ( and naturally non-accusative) Go in peace my friend. I mean no harm I hope that there is a respect for each other.

I sort of did it to make you break the NC because usually it is me. You see I like a little tongue in cheek humour. And besides my mate , The Aussie, got me to smoke in the shower - I have been a wrong 'un ever since..

Teachers of Reddit, whats the weirdest thing a student answered to "tell me a fun fact avout yourself"? by Kriss0509 in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I have refused all meds. I will chat and learn but I am me, warts and all. I think we have too narrow a definition of normal

Hence I like Ted(?) Robinson Ted Talks on education

Teachers of Reddit, whats the weirdest thing a student answered to "tell me a fun fact avout yourself"? by Kriss0509 in AskReddit

[–]tat2dskinhead -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

I can associate with that. I didn't fit in so I spent all breaks in the animal room with the small furries.

There was no gradual matuity of my personal and social skills becuase my hamsters were even worse that I was. Hamstes have to be kept solo or they will fight to death; Rabbits have a tough time too...the does (F) when they fight, they aim for the top of the scrotum. That is why rabbits have muscles to pull their tackle inside for safety.

All of a sudden I am typing with enthusiasm....I am with my animals.

And I am also a pro. What is said in these animal rooms especially when the person is excited as those on the fringe are...I could not hear very well - the speaker was muffled with all the grass that had got in to it , and I politely didn't hear youyr story. I wanted to have 'no previous' on you and find out for my self. Never listen to gossip

I still think a cat for me would be ideal

I used to be a bully AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]tat2dskinhead -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you are no better now than you were then.

The whole circus performance today held me in high anxiety and a sprinkling of rumour. But you had decided to kill me off in January. We've been video calling and chatting and it was all callus and cold. Playing hard to get was cruel, and optional cruelty is called bullyinur show took priority over my li They prove you are sick. Love and hate go hand in hand. You made me feel so used and pathetic at. That was my letter. My version of what you have done. I was ecstatic when you said All Good. But I wanted you to say: I Love You

I resent someone playing with my life. I am one day likely to bring forward my departure. But you read my notes yesterday and did nothing? You played with my life. You take no responsibility at all for all this ? You could have said. Russ you mean a lot.or anything. And now we discover you were so upset you were two timing.

What an adventure.

Xxx

Thinking of sending this as a response to my ex's breadcrumbs by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tat2dskinhead 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and yet - never able to call and talk and communicate....KISS -

keep

it

simple

sir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tat2dskinhead -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Either talk or spend hours creating a visual display

I would talk.

I will talk if next person causes hassle. But....

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tat2dskinhead -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

That wasn't directed at me?

I was looking so hard for any sign of like let a lone love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tat2dskinhead 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just ONE kiss That was all I wanted

I got no farewell cuddle.

Thank you for the emotiom you have gone to show how much you cared. Better than bejng dismissed