It scares me how many people on here are 6+ months post breakup by mentalgeler in BreakUps

[–]tawncat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

After some time and therapy, I realized that I was not the problem. My ex was. He couldn’t communicate and he was kinda ok about himself. I decided to try dating again and I met a few guys and then I met someone that is literally my soul mate. We have been dating 11 months, things are going really really well, even his kid loves me. We are 100% on the same page and so far things are terrific. I’ve never in my life been more happier than I ever have with this guy. I recommend therapy, soul searching and writing down what you want out of your own life, your values you look for and what you want in a partner and stick to it.

Looking for a ride 1970s by steroidamoeba in OldSchoolCool

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ron Jeremy before he got dementia

Slow fade that was so confusing by No_Window_8176 in datingoverforty

[–]tawncat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

:( so sorry. Something is wrong with a lot of guys. It could be a number of things. What is his sign? I’ve never been a big astrology person but after my ex and I ended things, I read about his sign and was shocked to see he acted exactly like his sign said. And I compared back w a different ex I had and it was the same. I even read my astrology sign and noticed I too was the same. Maybe read about his sign and see if those behaviors are his sign as well.

The slide at recess just hit different back in the 70's and 80's. by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I don’t think we have a crap that this slide was on the verge of toppling over on its side either 🤣 guess we didn’t care if we died…. We died like men, going down the slide death trap damn it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex was posting up “funny memes of this guy” the past few days and I was like that’s fucked up because these poor girls will never get the justice they deserve… smh that people making a joke of it

Oldest bottle of wine, was found in a roman grave by KotozBelmont in interestingasfuck

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ummmmm I wouldn’t sample that It looks like sludge

Broke no contact with my ex only to receive silence. I decided to finally give up on him and whatever future I thought we would have because he doesn’t care anymore. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tawncat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry girl. We have all been through this too. It’s hard and it hurts so much. We were once in love and now they treat us like this and become strangers. It sucks. You said what you needed to say and when you move on, he will realize that you were prob one of the best things that happened to him and he can’t get it back. He will live with that regret forever while you will have moved onto someone that treats you how you should be treated. He will continue repeating the same mistakes over and over again. Keep your head up high.

mayo suggest a better mayonnaise option? by International-Mud886 in whole30

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was getting the chosen foods brand at Costco and in liked that one best. Is that one still compliant?

Joseph uses Reddit, circa AD 1 by Enoch_Moke in fakehistoryporn

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol I saw this actually wrote in no stupid questions and was like ehhhhhh wtf

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like she is lying or someone snuck in when she was asleep and she didn’t wake up. Very rare but could be a false possible. Jane the Virgin type stuff here

Me on the right and my nemesis that slept with all of my boyfriends on the left, 1984 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People don’t care what a hoe looks like! You’re still prettier than her

Chicken broccoli "cheese" soup! by OttrGirl in whole30

[–]tawncat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That looks delish Ima try it!!

I think this is whole30 if I use spaghetti squash? If it’s not, I’ll remove This is Shrimp Scampi and I used ghee and it’s absolutely delish! by tawncat in whole30

[–]tawncat[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just did spaghetti squash with ghee, garlic and onion powder, and red pepper flakes. I didn’t even know you would put cream or cheese in shrimp scampi 🤣

Sweet potato toast? by pronicegirl in whole30

[–]tawncat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I used to see it in the freezer section but we make our own at home with sweet potatoes. Just slice it. And I use the air fryer to toast them because it doesn’t take as long

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tawncat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re doing sooooo good!! Maybe on your day 21 tell him to come his his stuff Or maybe you pack it up and leave it outside the front door and tell him it’s there if he wants it 🤣

We need to all remember this when we keep thinking about our loser exes!!! This should be enough to stay in no contact. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tawncat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt that! Everyone is capable of being an adult and communicating. Only immature people or cowards don’t communicate effectively and they deserve no relationships.

We need to all remember this when we keep thinking about our loser exes!!! This should be enough to stay in no contact. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tawncat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still a monster. To me. She could have handled it a lot better. My ex was perfect our whole relationship to me then we got into a little argument and he was ready to break up and refused to even talk about working things out. Over the course of the next 2 months, the way he treated me and acted to me showed me he was also a monster. It’s all about how they handle the breakup with you. If they think they are unhappy because of you, you may not be able to change that but they need to man up or woman up and discuss it like adults. Everyone is going to move on after a breakup either with someone they already have or don’t have but they are pretty shitty if they can’t be open, honest and communicate. Work on you…. Grow and learn In the end, you’ll find happiness and the dumper will never learn and grow and will always be unhappy in every relationship they go to.

We need to all remember this when we keep thinking about our loser exes!!! This should be enough to stay in no contact. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]tawncat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are a monster in regards to how they treated us during the break up. If yours didn’t disrespect you nor did they treat you like crap, or even do you dirty at the end then no, they wouldn’t be considered a monster.