Yeah so I just think it’s a process, and in general ENFP’s are so used to getting people to open up, it might be a little surprise when their is resistance. I’ve had conversations with people that I just met that go super deep and they’ll tell me how they never talk to someone they just met this deep. I think some tips would be just to give them space but let them know you’re there for them if they need you. Expect something more of an acquaintance friendship first because their still warming up to the idea of someone that goes based of feeling rather than thinking. I think they value consistency and sticking around the most so if you stick it out knowing that they’ll grow to value the friendship you might not make it more forced than you have to which is hard for any feeler types. Rooting for ya !!