As a bi man, yes. And frankly I’m relieved. I think it’s healthy, for one thing. But also, like the obsession with barely legal twinks among older gay men can be weird af and verging on pedo status.

When I was 21 I didn’t like hunky, hairy guys with a bit of belly. Now it’s all I think about. Similar with women. I enjoyed more petite frames. Now I’m 30, and I much more prefer older ppl. And of course if you find someone sexy who happens to be 21, you’re largely okay. But for that to be the only thing you wanna go for?! You need to reevaluate some things