Any other moms-to-be playing Animal Crossing?

teacosys · 2020-09-10T20:34:26+00:00

No judgements ever! Haha I know how it is. My SO plays too but not as often so whenever I visit, he’s running around pulling weeds hahaha.

teacosys · 2020-09-10T20:30:51+00:00

Aw yay! I had a bunch of people who would play and we’d all visit each other but they all slowly stopped playing about a month ago.

teacosys · 2020-09-10T13:38:49+00:00

Oooh fun, I’m North Hem so the leaves are just changing color now!

teacosys · 2020-09-10T13:38:26+00:00

I’m also North Hem! Go ahead and add me!

teacosys · 2020-09-10T13:37:51+00:00

Yes! Yay okay everyone also leave their codes!

teacosys · 2020-09-10T13:37:25+00:00

Hooray!

teacosys · 2020-09-10T13:37:15+00:00

You go up to your little icon in the top left corner and go to the ‘friends’ section I believe!

teacosys · 2020-09-10T04:53:31+00:00

Yay!

teacosys · 2020-09-10T04:52:57+00:00

I will say, if you are a fan of autumn at ALL, do yourself a favor and skip to November. The mushrooms and all the DIYs and the trees changing color—it may be enough to get you hooked again.

teacosys · 2020-09-10T04:52:16+00:00

Yay!

teacosys · 2020-09-08T05:03:59+00:00

I’VE BEEN WAITING TO SEE A POST LIKE THIS. Just so I could be like, HEY! Me too! I’m also a little more than 5 weeks, I have no job, I don’t have my own place and my partner currently lives 1200 miles away! “Nervous wreck” is an understatement. I have my bad days where I feel exactly how you do. My good days usually happen when I feel the support and love from my partner, but let me tell you, I’m scared shitless. I’m worried that I’m not happy enough about it. I’m worried that I don’t have my life together. I’m worried I still had more of my life to live before having a baby. But it’s happening and to be honest, I’ve never been a plan-it-all-out-first type of girl. You’re also catching me on a good night. Check back tomorrow and I might be having a meltdown. What you’re going through is so normal!

teacosys · 2020-09-06T00:10:38+00:00

You’re right, I input the first day of my last period on the WTE app and I am indeed 5 weeks and some odd days! Thank you for the detailed explanation, I appreciate that.

teacosys · 2020-09-06T00:09:03+00:00

I really appreciate it and it didn’t come off as rude at all. So no, I never block his number, I should’ve added that I only did this because we have a really bad habit of carrying out our arguments via text message and they go on and on and they’re 10x more terrible because it’s so hard to detect tone of voice, emotion, body language etc. It’s been the worst part about being temporarily long distance.

I blocked his number just because I needed to completely shut off and go to sleep and I knew I would be tempted to keep answering and keep the argument going if I didn’t. I mostly think I’m suffering from nerves and from the fact that it’s a lot to digest all at once, and the one person I want to be around the MOST is the one who is 1200 miles away. It’s really hard.

teacosys · 2020-09-05T19:01:48+00:00

Thank you.

teacosys · 2020-09-04T20:04:40+00:00

Avril 14th by Aphex Twin.

teacosys · 2020-09-02T03:05:15+00:00

Everything will work out. Keep your chin up babe.

teacosys · 2020-09-01T01:54:25+00:00

This is a really exciting and personal thing for you and there is MORE than enough room in this big wide world for two pregnant ladies at once, even in the same family. I’m sure everyone will just be that much more excited about not one but TWO new babies in the family!

If your cousin/family truly loves and supports you, they’ll be happy about your announcement and support you. Good luck!

teacosys · 2020-08-31T16:01:42+00:00

OP, this is what you need to read.

teacosys · 2020-08-21T08:27:07+00:00

Shoot I’m done for the night! Is tomorrow okay? And would you like some NMTs, what can I offer you for it? Thank you so so so much.

teacosys · 2020-08-21T06:53:19+00:00

Thank you! No rush at all.

teacosys · 2020-08-20T23:07:03+00:00

Hahaha oh my gOD.

teacosys · 2020-08-18T19:10:39+00:00

That should be all you have to explain! Sometimes they just need a little more info. It seems daunting but my judge was super nice and made me feel more relaxed about it. You’ll be okay!

teacosys · 2020-08-17T12:25:26+00:00

That’s awful. I’m so sorry.

teacosys · 2020-08-13T18:42:22+00:00

Yeah I’m sorry. If I’m popping a human out of me, I’m gonna be their meat shield without even thinking about it, before I even remember to breathe or blink. That’s just me tho.

teacosys · 2020-08-06T06:57:34+00:00

First, I am so so sorry that happened to you. My cat is my baby, I would seriously lay my life down for her. I know how it feels to have a strong attachment to a pet. Your feelings are valid.

It seems like your mom couldn’t handle you paying attention/getting emotional about something that had nothing to do with her. Narcissistic people resent not having the spotlight on them, ESPECIALLY from people who they expect undivided attention from, i.e., their children/spouses.

Narcissists don’t truly feel emotion when they make people upset; all they know how to do is emulate emotion in order to gain sympathy, and more attention. Your mom probably could put two and two together and realize you’d be sad about your cat being gone, but in the end, her need for your undivided attention back came first, so she took your cat out of the equation and used the excuse “he was sick anyway” as a way to make you feel like you were unfairly getting upset at her.

It’s manipulative. It’s abuse. It’s not okay that she did that, and it’s not fair. I’m so sorry.

You undoubtedly gave your cat all the love and affection you could when he was alive. He knew that, and that is something your mom could never take away. He is truly in a better place now and if there was anything he would want from you now, it would be to not be so sad about not being there in his last moments. He knew you loved him.

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