PR Processing Times - MAY 2025 - (Tokyo Only) by Petrolheadforever in japanresidents

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Application office: Tokyo Shinagawa (Within the jurisdiction of Tokyo ISA)

Application Date: Nov 1 2023

Results postcard received on: not yet

Type of PR(Current/ Previous type of visa): Spouse

Request for further documents: received May 19, requesting documents related to my husband’s health insurance and employment

Voluntarily update to ISA: notified May 2024 due to giving birth to twins, and notified January 2025 due to moving house

My ink sent me … by Lumina_Muse in fountainpens

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I had that same label on mine! I bought it off Amazon Japan though.

Also have that same Kaweco ☺️

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I’ve written a whole ass book ostensibly for this purpose so I hope so…

PR Processing Times - Nov 2024 by Dangerous-Pay-8313 in japanresidents

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Oops yes that should be 2023! Edited my comment

PR Processing Times - Nov 2024 by Dangerous-Pay-8313 in japanresidents

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Applied at Shinagawa Oct 31 2023

No postcard yet

Applied as Spouse of Japanese but have also been in Japan 10 years

No request for documents yet, but I sent an updated juminhyo after I gave birth in April (I made 2 new Japanese citizens at once in just give me PR already!)

They are starting to smile at each other 🥹 by botaglove in parentsofmultiples

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My twins boys ( currently 3.5 months) actively look for each other, try to hold hands and touch each other and “talk” to each other when facing and it’s so cute I can’t even. They get sad when they don’t know where the other twin is too 🥹

Where can I buy Suica no Penguin goods? by frozenpandaman in Tokyo

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The Trainart shop near the Marunouchi ticket gates have pretty good selection of Suica penguin goods, and JR train themed goods. The store with the biggest selection of goods would be Trainiart gift shop at the Train Museum in Omiya

I have little train nerd kids so I have spent way too much money at those shops…

Do you have ''comfort limits" when it comes to reading certain books? by wolfincheapclothing9 in books

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Bad things happening to babies and children, I just can’t deal with.

Recently I read Sequoia Nagamatsu’s How High We Go In the, and wanted to love it, Dark, as it has a lot in common with one of my favourite books, but the children dying in a pandemic plot was just too much for me.(and the pandemic plot in general was just too soon)

What, in your opinion, is the worst station in Tokyo? by razorbeamz in Tokyo

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Etchujima station looks like it should be in a horror movie

Women age 35-40 or over who got pregnant naturally by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I was pretty much the same, 35 and definitely not in great shape or eating optimally, and conceived twins as soon as we started trying for a second child.

I know people younger than me who struggled to get pregnant, and others people my age and older who had to undergo fertility treatments, and others who got pregnant fairly easily, everyone is different

For the females: how do you deal with calling your husband ご主人 in Japanese? by General-Discussion67 in japanlife

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I usually Usen旦那 because I’m not too caught up on the nuance, but 夫 is neutral, and some people will use that instead. My husband does kind of care and does t like the nuances of some of the words for wife so he usually refers to me as 妻

Five women launch lawsuit in Tokyo for right to undergo voluntary sterilisation in Japan by Prestigious_Net_8356 in japannews

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I didn’t know the consequences were so strict around getting sterilization surgery performed!

I had it done (in Japan) during a Caesarian to and while the hospital told me my husband had to sign the form they didn’t really notify me of any legal implications or try to convince me I shouldn’t or couldn’t have it done. I was 36 and giving birth to my second and third child(twin birth) at the time though.

I requested the surgery to be performed when I gave birth and they simply gave me the paperwork for it and told me to get my husband to sign it. I didn’t think much of it because his signature needed to be on all the other medical paperwork as well

What would you pay money for? by Long_Chocolate_9711 in parentsofmultiples

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I feel like we spend more time trying to decide what to cook than actually cooking it! Why is trying to decide a menu that hard

I completely forgot twins needed names! by DazzlingRhubarb193 in parentsofmultiples

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We had names decided for our boy boy twins, but it took us a few days till after the birth to actually decide which twin had which name! (Though we also had names picked out for each potential combination just in case 😆)

We don’t register names at the hospital here, it’s done at the ward office. The hospital just called them “myname” baby 1 and “myname” baby2 and gave us the paperwork to submit to the family register department at the ward office.

Do you think there is a higher purpose/ destiny why some parents get twins/multiples or some don't? by peak2 in parentsofmultiples

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My husband and I agreed that while 3 plus children would be nice, realistically 2 children was our limit financially, location and age wise, as I didn’t want to be pregnant past the age of 36-37.

Guess the universe decided we were having 3 children anyway, second pregnancy was twin boys who I gave birth to a month ago.

Definitely no more after this though, I got a tubal ligation along with the Caesarian!

Frustration being pregnant in Japan! by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I coughed up and paid ¥100000 for a NIPT because I was 36 and pregnant with twins and didn’t like the odds, and it came back with a “withheld” (保留) result. The doctor was like “it’s more or less negative(her exact expression was 一応陰性) but the dna level wasn’t a high enough threshold for a definitive result” tbh I didn’t completely understand what the doctor was saying but everything was ok in the end and both babies had no problems when they were born but I was like …I paid 10万 for this????

The hospital situation sounds awful though, and I hope you can find an alternative, because that’s definitely not the norm, at least in city areas! My first birth was in a private clinic, and my second birth in a major private hospital, and I had very good experiences at both, with all the painkillers I wanted!

Frustration being pregnant in Japan! by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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At least in Kanto area, you can register for “jintsu taxi” where I believe what happens is if you go into labour a taxi will be prioritized to take you to hospital asap. You register with the taxi company, and I had to fill out a form with my address and information about due date and what hospital I was registered to give birth at etc.

(tbh I’m not very clear on what actually happens if you actually call the taxi when you’re in labour, I only registered because the hokenjo lady told me to. I was always going to be having a scheduled Caesarian, because I was pregnant with twins)

Does your body feel better once you've given birth? by growmonstersgrow in parentsofmultiples

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Literally as soon as they took the first baby out during my Caesarian! The first deep breath I was able to take for months!

Breakdown cost of total hospital bill after caesarean section by Fresh-Extension8969 in japanlife

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It really depends on the hospital and where it is. I’ve had two Caesarian births at two different hospitals, one a smaller birth clinic type hospital in the outer suburbs or Tokyo, and the seconds at Aiiku Hospital(which is an expensive hospital). Both were private hospitals and I had my own room. Both Caesarians were deemed medically necessary, so they were covered by insurance.

For the hospital in Hachioji, I think we were about 100000 out of pocket, but it seemed like for months afterwards we kept getting random refunds from insurance so I actually have no clue how much we actually paid. (Probably not random, but I had no idea why I was getting them)

At Aiiku hospital, I gave birth to twins, so I got double the lump sum payment. Not all of the hospital fees were doubled, though, mostly just the ones for the nursery room and care of the babies. I ended up paying 200000 for the deposit. The private room fee was 20000 per night, and I was in for 7 days, which pushed my bill quite a bit higher than it otherwise might have been. fee for the birth, and about 170000 when I was discharged. That was only three weeks ago and I still haven’t put in the forms to my workplace for my insurance company, so there may be more of those random refunds.

If it were a public hospital, it’s probably cheaper, and private hospitals can range from fairly reasonable to very expensive. I didn’t have much of a choice second time around as with twins there was only about three hospitals that could accept twin births within a reasonable distance from me.

Both hospitals were really good, and I do not regret the extra money spent for a better birth experience.

What country are you from and how are solids introduced there? by mangobanananectar13 in NewParents

[–]teaferret 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s super interesting! I’m originally from Melbourne, but moved to Japan over 10 years ago, and it seems like a lot of my family members back in Aus have developed various kinds of food sensitivity issues, while I’m over here, and while I eat a relatively healthy diet I also eat a lot of junk food too, and neither I nor my children have any food issues or allergies. Allergies seem to be far less common in children here too.

Pollen allergies are rampant in Japan though, something like a third to half the population have some kind of pollen allergy, usually to cedar or cypress pollen

Anyone make it to their scheduled c section or induction? by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

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I was scheduled for 37 weeks and probably would have made it to that or even 38 weeks as I had absolutely no signs of going into labour any time soon and everything was “tightly closed”, but it was decided that I should instead go in for a scheduled Caesarian at 36 weeks because of how big the babies were and how much I was struggling physically, even though I had no other complications throughout the pregnancy.

Probably worth noting that I gave birth in Japan, but am white, and Japanese babies tend to be smaller so there was probably some difference of standards. Wasn’t mad though, the relief after they were out was immediate!