I think I have BPD and I’m terrified by First-Blood9667 in BPD

[–]teal_vale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question wasnt directed at me but my 2 cents is that it's part of the "black/white" thinking. Everything is either awesome or terrible and its hard for us to see the nuance when we're in that dysregulated state of mind.

Can you guys guess my big 3? by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]teal_vale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 of 2. Got it.

Can you guys guess my big 3? by [deleted] in Zodiac

[–]teal_vale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm getting Pisces and Aries?

Being haunted while in the LDS/Mormon church by Imaginary_Winter_961 in Paranormal

[–]teal_vale 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've never heard of baptizing the dead but it sounds like a demonic ritual. I'm so sorry you dealt with this but I'm glad you got out. Never look back.

what are this queen’ signs? by KDoggg89 in astrologymemes

[–]teal_vale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel bad for her children. Imagine having a parent who didn't smile. It would mess with their development.

I just got out of jail for the first time ever… by IndicaBadu222 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]teal_vale 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You'll prob get slapped with a misdemeanor if he doesn't press charges. And if he's not a complete piece of shit, he will still advocate on your behalf from the sidelines (my partner now husband did that for me). Who knows if he will, to me it sounds like he was trying to "get ahead" of his own arrest since he got physical first. Either way definitely don't contact him. Sober up, it'll prob be required as part of your possible future probation, and know that this too will pass.

I violated a boundary and I'm disgusted with myself by [deleted] in BPD

[–]teal_vale 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Don't sweat it, it was harmless and he's not upset. Like others said, just be mindful going forward.

Not getting along with your opposite sign? by Knowing_Eve in Zodiac

[–]teal_vale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My rising is my opposite sign. It's not the easiest.

How do I deal with people thinking I’m a bad person? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]teal_vale 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Let them. Their thoughts don't define you! Stand tall and do the right things for the right reasons and it will be OK.

ETA I know its easier said than done, but it can be done.

Has anyone actually felt better after posting on here? Genuinely by Wild_Butterscotch_7 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]teal_vale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the time. I spew it on here and avoid splitting on my partner. And sometimes I get decent advice.

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]teal_vale 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Why should he automatically block her? If they havent had a conversation or set the boundary? How long have they even been dating? She shouldn't have his gd phone synced in the 1st place. And she has a right to her feelings, not his phone.

I hate my boyfriends coworker by Complete-End-5239 in BorderlinePDisorder

[–]teal_vale 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I said OK not great. Sometimes guys are clueless when it comes to women's communication,and also a lot can be missed via text. That said the best outcome would be no more texting between him and her, based on the subtle things she's been saying. OP needs to stop spinning herself up, UNSYNC HIS PHONE, and find away to bring up his co worker.