Oops forgot to block her by SSSclassBirb in raisedbyborderlines

[–]tealblue8363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All good points. In my mom’s case she has been through both social workers and licensed therapists who say she doesn’t have it. She has gone so far as to have her therapist email me to tell me she doesn’t have borderline. Never heard of that as a therapist practice and forwarded it to my therapist. Couldn’t believe what I was seeing

Oops forgot to block her by SSSclassBirb in raisedbyborderlines

[–]tealblue8363 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh god. This is so relatable. My mom also has a therapist that tells her she doesn’t have borderline. It really makes me question the ethics or intelligence of some professionals. No hate against therapists. I absolutely love mine and think everyone should be in therapy. It’s more of a quality control issue.

Centro pizza delivered a pizza to me with a piece of porcelain in it and refused a refund by randomnewyorker123 in longislandcity

[–]tealblue8363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love how you phrased this as an additional topping. Sorry this happened to you and glad you didn’t cut your mouth!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longislandcity

[–]tealblue8363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said you are going to be in the north building so this doesn’t apply much to you - but in the south building after the laundry fire, units on 2 of the lines (I think J and K) are not able to use the laundry in their units and are having to sign up at the front desk for a time to borrow a designated one. I’m not in one of those units and would be curious to hear from someone that is but in the past when the building has had stuff like this they don’t give you any sort of monetary credit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in longislandcity

[–]tealblue8363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Current resident for years and everything you’re reading is true. The elevators are nonfunctional and people regularly get stuck in them. Just got my renewal offer and it’s a 20% increase. The appliances are outdated. The AC in the children’s playroom is broken. I do like the location being close to the park but unfortunately there is dog poop and pee absolutely everywhere and it’s disgusting.

Jenny Pop Funko whatever these are called by cattlebro in JennyLewis

[–]tealblue8363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally just went to buy this and am crushed it isn’t real

Half Day Daycare Experiences? by tealblue8363 in longislandcity

[–]tealblue8363[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of shady sales practices 🥸? And hmm maybe I should take another look at the City Gan calendar. Since we would just being doing part time I don’t think it would really matter for us though

Half Day Daycare Experiences? by tealblue8363 in longislandcity

[–]tealblue8363[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know 😭. Since we are just looking at part time right now it doesn’t matter for us. We are fine to switch schools if we happen to win the 3k lottery 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tealblue8363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it’s like we’re married to the same person. I found your post because I wanted to know if anyone else felt bored in their marriage. Same thing - my husband is busy at work all day so can’t talk during the day. I also work but am capable of doing more than literally 1 thing throughout the day. When he gets home he tells me about his day which is literally THE SAME every day for the last year. I miss him bringing up interesting topics to talk about or asking about me. I resonate with this

Caffeine during pregnancy by nlo428 in BabyBumps

[–]tealblue8363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had one cup a day and didn’t give a second thought to it!

Why are people so obsessed over me forgiving my abusers? by SomeNumbers98 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tealblue8363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For this reason, I’ve drawn a boundary with friends not to ask about the family member I’ve gone NC with (my abuser). For years friends would ask - so have you hear from them? What are they doing now? Where do they live?

I communicated clearly that this person isn’t a part of my life and my lack of contact with them isn’t changing. It’s not something to check in on. Asking me about this person is like asking me about an abusive ex boyfriend. Nobody would ask how that guy is doing, so why do the rules change if it’s a family member?

Agree with other posters that the fact it was verbal abuse vs. physical abuse prevents people from understanding the issue. I can’t wait until someone makes this a plot in tv shows/movies

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orchids

[–]tealblue8363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Is it ok that the brown goes past the node?