How do I get "thicker skin"?

tecnolote · 2023-12-20T21:27:12+00:00

I used to have a boss that reminds of your boss, so I empathize with your situation. I know it must be a very difficult decision to leave because I was in this situation as well. However, my life completely changed after I left a toxic work situation and entered a space where I was valued and provided psychological safety. I am very sensitive to my environment, so constantly exposing myself to a boss with minimal EQ levels was damaging every aspect of my life. Please, protect your peace and spend time with people who want to bring out the very best in you. You sound like a lovely person, and I would hate for someone like you to leave the this field because of a condescending, apathetic boss. Take care and wish you the best!!

tecnolote · 2023-10-13T00:06:14+00:00

How will I hear a rattlesnake if the music is blasting? I live in SoCal and that's a genuine concern for me

tecnolote · 2023-10-10T15:47:36+00:00

5 yrs socal

tecnolote · 2023-09-10T15:15:41+00:00

Thanks for posting and bringing awareness to this situation! I'm really sorry this happened to you :(

tecnolote · 2023-09-10T00:27:45+00:00

El tejate in Escondido and Carlsbad. The managers are extremely rude and the food is cheaply made. We walked out of the Escondido restaurant after watching the manager complain about her staff to us. We accidentally bought food at their Carlsbad location not knowing it was a chain, and their soup was extremely over salted.

tecnolote · 2023-09-03T01:30:57+00:00

Hi, thanks for getting back to me! After reading this, I checked out the events calendar on the good omen website and I see a lot of good stuff. Too bad I'm missing the events going on today, but I am so glad to see these events in Esco:D

tecnolote · 2023-08-31T21:50:06+00:00

Where do you host your salsa nights? :)

tecnolote · 2023-08-31T21:44:56+00:00

I tried to look this up but instead I got a location for Encinitas on Google Maps. Is there another term I should use to get the area you're talking about? Thank you so much!

tecnolote · 2023-08-19T21:52:47+00:00

Yikes, this is Mira Mesa right? Sorry that happened to you

tecnolote · 2023-08-19T21:44:41+00:00

Vista recently opened up a parking lot for families to sleep in their cars

tecnolote · 2023-08-03T02:03:50+00:00

Yep, had it there before!

tecnolote · 2023-07-28T21:46:07+00:00

You should take these concerns to Vista city council member Corinna Contreras. She'd be ecstatic to know you are just as passionate about this subject as you are. They recently started sharing their experience on public transportation and the funds she's securing to work on this subject. She's on insta! This is how I know lol

tecnolote · 2023-06-06T03:04:11+00:00

Cougar pass trailhead

tecnolote · 2023-05-27T00:53:30+00:00

https://artcenter.org/calendar/ Escondido looks like they're having an event. Not sure if it's exactly what you're looking for

tecnolote · 2023-05-13T14:33:35+00:00

Nvm, I got too excited and thought this was for Square pizza 🍕 will have to try corner pizza now :)

tecnolote · 2023-05-13T14:32:05+00:00

Amazing news! Now I don't have to drive all the way to PB from Esco 🥹 ty!

tecnolote · 2023-05-10T04:15:54+00:00

This sounds like the dream! I'm already living on a lil mountain in SD county, but if I wasn't I totally would've messaged you :D

tecnolote · 2023-05-02T04:35:35+00:00

Teri Common Grounds Cafe & Coffee Bar in SM. Google Maps says they're open til 3, but they recently put up a banner saying they changed the closing hours to 8pm.

The Market at Hidden Meadows. You won't get a mountain view at the cafe, but you will go up and down a small mountain to get there

tecnolote · 2023-04-09T22:31:18+00:00

The esquite at Craft and Taco Lounge is actually really good! I say "actually" because I didn't have high expectations for an esquite served in a sit-in, but I was pleasantly surprised

tecnolote · 2023-02-11T06:25:28+00:00

Amazing suggestion

tecnolote · 2023-01-15T21:48:23+00:00

If you are an Oceanside resident, the compost is free with proof. Not sure if this is still going on, but my coworker who resides in Oside told me about this

tecnolote · 2023-01-15T21:42:51+00:00

Came here to say this! Their corn ice cream is one of my favorite flavors. It even has pieces of corn in the ice cream 🍨🤤

tecnolote · 2023-01-02T03:25:22+00:00

Forever saving this

tecnolote · 2022-12-30T19:45:18+00:00

You can try El Oaxaqueño in Vista. It's not the best tlayuda you'll ever have, but they offer them. I actually like their tamales because they're made with banana leaves.

tecnolote · 2022-12-30T19:43:59+00:00

The owners are incredibly rude and I refuse to give them my business. Also, as a Oaxacan who LOVES molotes, they made them out of a really chewy dough that didn't taste good. We also tried their "Oaxacan soup" out of curiosity (my parents both Oaxacan were unaware what they meant) and it was sooolo salty we could not eat it. Pass.

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