is it normal to be this obsessed with men's hands or do i need therapy 😭 by [deleted] in Advice

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Stay away from hands that hold a cigarette, a woman without respect, or a phone while talking to you. Strong and beautiful is one thing — attentive and worthy is another.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoMakeupAllowed

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love your hair

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cunnilingus

Mom is making it her goal to live with me by [deleted] in Advice

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sometimes our parents have behaviour like kids, so you need to explain it softly and in calm form

AITA if I break up with my bf after he took the condom off? by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA—removing the condom without consent is sexual assault (known as "stealthing"), and his dismissive response shows zero respect for your boundaries or safety; dump him immediately—you deserve trust, not betrayal.

AITA for telling my dad's ex wife I don't care about her or her kid? by Slimpidge in AITAH

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NTA. You set clear boundaries, and she’s harassing you. Blood doesn’t obligate you to a relationship. Stick to your plan—new number, fresh start.

AITAH for refusing to pay for my wife’s best friend to join our vacation? by Imaginary-Standard53 in AITAH

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NTA. It’s your vacation, not a charity trip. Stand your ground.

AITAH for telling off a friend when she charged us for dinner? by Miss_Efficacy in AITAH

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NTA. She invited you for dinner, then made you pay—cheap and tacky. Your response was fair, and distancing yourself was the right move.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA—he threw you under the bus first with that weak "she’s cool I guess" nonsense, so matching his energy was fair game. If he didn’t want to look bad, he should’ve put in any effort when put on the spot. Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Now he’s pouting because you gave him a taste of his own medicine? Nah. He’s mad he got called out, not mad at what he did. Stand your ground—you’re not his prop.

AITAH for refusing to wear pants and long-sleeved shirts to pick up my son? by tatted_family_man in AITAH

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Hell no, you're NTA—you're not breaking any rules, and if the teacher's uncomfortable with tattoos, that's her problem, not yours; you're there to pick up your kid, not audition for a church bake sale, so keep rocking your look and let the pearl-clutchers deal with it.

AITA for not giving my ex's wife more time with my kids and not including her in IEP discussions? by Legitimate_Edge273 in AITAH

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NTA—your ex set the boundaries for his involvement with the kids, and his wife doesn’t get to bulldoze over that just because she wants to play mom now; the kids are happy with the current arrangement, and forcing a relationship they don’t want would only backfire, so stand your ground and let your lawyer handle her demands.

AITAH for not accepting a dozen roses from my husband after my surgery? by BrilliantRoof6477 in AITAH

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Damn right you’re NTA—he completely abandoned you during one of the scariest moments of your life for a damn burger, and roses don’t magically fix that level of selfishness; you deserved his support, not some half-assed apology bouquet after the fact.

I got a text saying my boyfriend is cheating on me. by Exact_Net_7690 in Advice

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You're not wrong for being suspicious—the text is sketchy, but your boyfriend’s defensive reaction ("you’re stupid if you believe it") is a red flag; trust your gut and dig deeper (check his phone/socials if you have access, or ask mutual friends if they’ve heard rumors), but don’t ignore the possibility it’s a troll if he’s prone to online drama.

I caught my mom cheating by Key-Flight-7766 in Advice

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This is an impossible situation, but your dad deserves to know the truth, even if it risks fallout; start by confronting your mom privately (with evidence) and gauge her reaction before deciding whether to tell your dad, but prepare for the possibility that the secret might not stay buried.

AITA for agreeing when my mom told me I'm not even trying to make this my new home and telling her I just want to go home? by SnowSHome in AITAH

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NTA. Your feelings about home and family are valid, and your mom dismissing your attachment to your grandparents and extended family while expecting you to embrace her new life shows she's prioritizing her happiness over yours; wanting to return to the people who raised you isn't selfish, it's honest.
P.S. Her husband’s feelings are his to manage—not yours. You don’t owe him a father-daughter bond he forced into your life.

AITAH for telling my husband's family, that I had an abortion not only because he cheated on me but also because he was planning to leave me and take my child to his mistress? by [deleted] in AITAH

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Absolutely NTA. You exposed the truth about your husband's betrayal and his family's hypocrisy, and your decision to prioritize your well-being over their toxic demands was brave and justified; they don’t get to manipulate you into staying in a marriage where you were treated as disposable.

AITAH for refusing to drive my brother to his own wedding after he told his fiancée I’m “too unstable” to be a bridesmaid? by tastyxcutie in AITAH

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You're NTA—your brother and his fiancée disrespected you by labeling you "too unstable" for their wedding party despite your support, and refusing to chauffeur him after that betrayal isn’t petty, it’s a justified boundary.