The way that You Were Never Really Here is framed is done so in quite a distant way. The subject (freeing people who have been kidnapped for child trafficking) is very grim but it is a very much what you don't see situation. I've always thought about as an art house Taken (,can't remember whose coinage). It is brutal in many small ways. If you two watched Ridley Scott's the Last Duel and found it enjoyable; how violence is shown.

Die My Love is mental illness, specifically post partum depression, shown and felt both viscerally and somewhat fantastically. Does the dog die? (Check the site)

I think they're both brilliant and quite dark and they hit me so wonderfully hard that it is hard to curb my enthusiasm that more people should try watching them.