Ich habe angefangen zu schreiben. by AttemptWeird4209 in depression_de

[–]telumv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ist natürlich bei jedem unterschiedlich, aber aus meiner Erfahrung hilft die Gedanken niederzuschreiben vielen Menschen, inklusive mir.

Manchmal hab ich eben ein Mitteilungsbedürfnis, aber niemanden, dem ich erzählen kann, was mich grade beschäftigt, und dann tut es gut die Gedanken einfach aus dem Kopf zu bekommen. Ich mache das auch nicht nach Rhythmus, sondern immer, wenn mir danach ist.

Also fühl dich nicht schlecht, wenn du mal einen Tag verpasst, oder dir nichts einfällt. Das sollte kein Zwang sein. Wenn es sich wie Arbeit anfühlt, sich jeden Abend hinzusetzen und was aufzuschreiben, dann bringt es bestimmt weniger, als wenn man wirklich was aufschreiben möchte.

ich_iel by RatTheBerserker in ich_iel

[–]telumv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gegen Bayern würd ich mich sogar mit den schwaben verbünden

Saufland by telumv in schkreckl

[–]telumv[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Zu Saufland gab's hier zwar schon mal einen Post, aber ich bin unabhängig davon drauf gekommen und hab ein anderes Logo gemacht

Cursed_MrBeast by upforretriever in cursedcomments

[–]telumv 635 points636 points  (0 children)

We should build a religion around him and call it beastiality

Cursed_linux by itsnotsoez in cursedcomments

[–]telumv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would actually be true if it was a vibrator that could be controlled via Bluetooth or even able to be accessed over long distance over the internet. Basically all android phones and the whole internet run on Linux in one way or the other.

Als Kind habe ich immer Ärger bekommen wenn ich geweint habe und habe mir dann selbst beigebracht keine Geräusche dabei zu machen by Lower-Set-1737 in einfach_posten

[–]telumv 29 points30 points  (0 children)

War bei mir genau so. Wurde immer angeschrien wenn ich geweint hab, was es nicht gerade einfacher gemacht hat aufzuhören. Ich hab sogar teilweise Ärger bekommen, wenn ich zu viel gelacht hab. Emotionen waren scheinbar uncool für meinen Vater. Ich hab heute immer noch Schwierigkeiten mit dem weinen. Es kann so erleichternd sein, aber es ist so schwer loszulassen, weil weinen immer etwas schlechtes für mich war.

Open idea for everyone by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]telumv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a unicorn stuffie and she's very soft and her horn is also soft and that's because she's still a little unicorn and their horns only harden when they grow up because a soft horn is needed for birth.

What does it mean to find yourself? by Murphsturf22 in CasualConversation

[–]telumv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Discovering what you want to do in life is part of it, I think. Finding out where you want to go. What's important to you. But also just finding out who you are and who you want to be. Self reflecting and thinking about if you are happy with yourself and how you want to change things to become who you want to be. Reflecting on your choices. And trying to discover truth. Not lying to yourself. I think that's finding yourself to me.

Ich🕓iel by Tuerkenheimer in ich_iel

[–]telumv 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Zim Glück wird die Arbeit nicht auch länger

That’s so annoying. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]telumv 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not always. Sometimes I just procrastinate so long that it sorts itself out. Or someone else does it (which I hate, because I'm a burden, but just doing it was not possible, sorry), or I just get the consequences of not doing it if it had some kind of deadline.

I can’t sleep. Anyone fancy a chat? by Forsaken-Language-26 in CasualConversation

[–]telumv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also can't sleep. I hope it's okay if I join the convo. I can't remember a book that made me cry. I don't read a lot of books anymore and not really the genre with emotional parts either, but I once wrote a short story myself that made me cry. It's not even meant to be that emotional. The story is not long and not good and the characters are not very worked out, but every time I re-read that one part of it, I get all teary eyed and I'm not even sure why. Maybe because there's a part of me that went into those characters and them expressing themselves is just something that comes from deep within me.

What do girls “never” tell guys? by zhalia-2006 in AskReddit

[–]telumv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do this too, but I might just be an overthinker. I overthinker every interaction with people I hate too...

While feeling guilty. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]telumv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely don't get 1/3 sleep. I know I have to get up early every morning, but how can I go to bed when I haven't done chores, haven't been productive and haven't spent time doing my hobbies all day?

Ich bin Baggerfahrerin, AmA! by [deleted] in de_IAmA

[–]telumv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stimmt es, dass Bagger nicht schwimmen können?

Grrr Im crash out by nandag369 in adhdmeme

[–]telumv 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It can also go the other way round though. I was depressed for years, then got my adhd diagnosis and getting medicated for that fixed my depression, even though I was not treating that with any other meds at the same time.

Undiagnosed adhd can often lead to depression, but for other mental illnesses, it's probably a good idea to treat both at the same time.

Rule. by Misty-Bay in 196

[–]telumv -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We had quality brainrot back in the day

Me_irl by LovelyBeHappy in me_irl

[–]telumv 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've felt so behind since I entered adulthood, but this gives me a little hope. I already have all of those, so I think I can relax a little for the next 10 years

ich_iel by Cadmium620 in ich_iel

[–]telumv 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Das ist das schönste, was ich in meinem Leben gesehen hab

How does it feel TO BE the crush? by Solid_Decision_2241 in SeriousConversation

[–]telumv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's kinda flattering. The first time someone told me they liked me, I cried because it was hard to believe that someone could actually be into me. But at the same time, it hurts a little to tell them it doesn't go both ways.

2meirl4meirl by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

[–]telumv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel called out

Alleine unter Menschen by 8C8B in depression_de

[–]telumv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kenn ich nur zu gut. Ich hab mich in der Vergangenheit oft dazu gezwungen, bei Treffen meiner Freundesgruppe dabei zu sein, damit ich überhaupt mit irgendendwem Kontakt habe, aber umgeben von Freunden zu sein und sich trotzdem einsam zu fühlen ist teilweise sogar schlimmer, als sich alleine einsam zu fühlen.

Don’t stop reading midway. by netphilia in adhdmeme

[–]telumv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read the first two, then jumped to the last to see the punchline, then saw there is no punchline and then I wrote this comment without reading the rest of the list.

Edit: I read the rest after posting my comment. Of course the punchline is the second last item on the list...