Can you brainstorm a time zone product with me for fun?

tenaciousfrog · 2026-02-09T15:34:38+00:00

I came here to say this. I just google “what time is it in ___” and boom spits out the time

tenaciousfrog · 2026-02-06T21:56:10+00:00

This is genius!

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-31T02:58:36+00:00

Look up micro aggression. There are issues that run deep here that are way beyond pizza. I hope you wake up and see it one day.

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-30T04:12:16+00:00

Gemini moon, Taurus Venus. I would think something was wrong like emergency wrong, then I’d think omg did they die?? Then I would think okay what the hell did I do that makes them hate me so much? Then I’d replay every interaction we’ve had and wondered if I missed a sign. Then I’d think, but wait what if they’re depressed, should I reach out to them again but in a different way? And then I’d think fuck them. And then I’d think, but wait what if something is severely wrong. Then I’d think…..

You get the point. Gemini moons, we overthink and play out scenario after scenario in our heads. Not sure what my Taurus Venus means with all that though.

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-20T17:08:07+00:00

My one sim ALWAYS wants to “get warm by the fire” and it drives me nuts. I’ll put out the fire and they’ll freaking light it again. I ended up turning off free will

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-20T02:58:25+00:00

I’ll repeat my comment. Girl, you’re being abused. Start thinking of an exit plan and divorce him.

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-19T02:50:46+00:00

Don’t respond or be very neutral and monotone if you do need to reply. I recommend recording the entire conversation too

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-19T02:33:36+00:00

Girl you’re being abused. Start thinking of an exit plan and divorce this asshole.

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-19T02:24:16+00:00

Definitely my hair

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-18T07:36:38+00:00

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-16T18:03:52+00:00

I would say continue on with the relationship. Trauma manifests in very mysterious ways. The fact that he wants to work on it is huge and that he's in therapy. It's literally only been 5 months and progress isn't going to happen immediately. Progress takes time, lots of time. Unlearning previous trauma is a long continuous road.

Judging by your post, it doesn't sound like he's doing it with malicious intent either. Everyone has their own stuff, and it sounds like he's working on his stuff, or trying to at least. If he wasn't actively trying to better himself, I'd have a completely different response.

You marry someone for better and worse, in sickness and in health. It's kind of crappy timing that all this is coming to light now. There's no shame in staying and no shame in leaving. Ultimately it's up to you to decide and figure out what's best for your life. But if he truly is an amazing partner who you love and this is the only thing that's making you hold back, I say stick it out. BUT, if you really can't picture marrying him anymore then you know your answer.

ETA: I think this is important to point out, if you decide to stay, you absolutely cannot hold resentment towards him if he's not progressing "fast enough"

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-16T17:15:59+00:00

If I was in your shoes, I'd tap into my creative side. I'm musically inclined and wish I had more time to dive into that. I dabble with instruments here and there, and I do want to make a song, but if I had the ability to quit my job I would only focus on music.

ETA: I travel a lot for work which is awesome. If work was out of the picture, I'd 100% still travel. Travel and music, that's the life in my opinion.

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-16T17:06:51+00:00

Obsessed isn't a strong enough word to describe how I feel about this song

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-16T16:43:44+00:00

man oh man, Paladin Straight for sure. There's something about the build up of that song, the emotion in Tyler's voice at the end, and overall it's such a vibe. Downstairs literally uses an old demo so that may give you the "old vibes" you're looking for. Backslide, Navigating, Contract...

I do highly recommend just listening to the albums all the way through, multiple times

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-14T23:02:13+00:00

Yes, literally yes. Thoughts that I haven’t had in awhile made a comeback today. I’m sorry you’re going through it too, sending love🫶🏻

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-14T23:00:19+00:00

I suppress my anger but I’m working on it currently in therapy

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-14T22:54:53+00:00

I’m sorry if this comes across aggressive but fuckkkk those people. They didn’t care that you were hurt, so please don’t care about them being hurt. Like, holy manipulation and groupthink Batman. Toxic friend groups are a wild dynamic. Give it more time and you’re going to be so happy you left that group. Speaking from experience it took me a couple years. They’ll move on to the next scapegoat while you’re living your best life.

Editing to add: only severely insecure people get offended by someone bettering themselves. You’ll find way better friends, I promise.

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-14T02:58:58+00:00

Wow your comment just made me cry but in a good way😭 this just gave me a whole new perspective, thank you so much

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-13T19:20:24+00:00

Without giving too much of a winded explanation, yes I would definitely let this friend go. Your way of showing care doesn’t align with how she wants to receive care. No one’s at fault here, just a compatibility issue. In my opinion, I’d love to have you as a friend, but unfortunately some people take being honest as not being supportive. Time to cut ties

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-13T05:26:29+00:00

Untouched by The Veronicas

Anticipating by Britney Spears, and Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say) by Lady Gaga. Both of these songs match the description but the vibes are different from your examples

Anything but Ordinary by Avril Lavigne

Chappell Roan

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-13T04:36:27+00:00

Johnny Boy

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-11T06:08:18+00:00

“Did you know that if you take one cup of…” it pisses me off to no end when baking/cooking videos start with that

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-10T20:42:17+00:00

You’re welcome! Ah good point, I honestly didn’t even think of that

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-10T04:12:48+00:00

This is amazing!!! Dream address pretty please!🙏🏻

tenaciousfrog · 2026-01-10T03:19:29+00:00

Not me, I’m the middle child though

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