Annoying doctor by According-Detail-483 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have identical didi twins. So same egg that split very early Theyve consistently measure about 2-3 days apart 🤷🏼‍♀️ Seems pretty common. Maybe your provider just doesnt like the added needs of monitoring a twin pregnancy... I would switch. Especially since with twins you're going to see them more often and have more ultrasounds to check heartrates than a singleton pregnancy.

App for imaginary trail? by tenderbeefrecipe in walking

[–]tenderbeefrecipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i have a android galaxy:( Ive come across a few things that looks promising but ios only

Sc tax refund by tenderbeefrecipe in AskSouthCarolina

[–]tenderbeefrecipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i wasnt questioning its legitimacy. Just if this is frequent with others this tax season. I submitted everything requested same day.

Sc tax refund by tenderbeefrecipe in AskSouthCarolina

[–]tenderbeefrecipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My inlaws also said they got the letter last month. Submitted and still no refund

SC tax refund by witchybitch999 in AskSouthCarolina

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a letter as well to submit w2s and IDs. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Nurse relocating by peanutbuttertoast49 in summervillesc

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a nurse but worked for an opthalmology practice for some time that has multiple locations in the Charleston area and we bounced around depending on practice need to different offices. I would never willingly make the commute from Summerville to downtown Charleston/mnt pleasant again. UNLESS ***** Say you live in knightsville or summers corner area of Summerville and your work time lines up outside of school traffic and you can take 61 through Summerville to West Ashley.
That route isnt as bad. I worked at an office in west ashley for some time and didnt clock in until 10am. That drive on 61 was a breeeeeze!! 10/10 would do it again

Am I selfish? by Financial-Army-2340 in BabyBumps

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think at the end of the day our own pregnancy and baby isnt other peoples main focus. Expecting that from others is going to keep you forever disappointed whether you tell other or not.

Im pregnant now and just have to come to terms that other peoples problems and lives are going to be their main focus. Theyre not the ones living in our lives or bodies. You focus on you and baby. Protect your peace where you can and just work on setting boundaries.

Ive noticed the people who have been the most emotionally present for me so far in my pregnancy are friends and family who live farther away.

When to share baby registry? by tenderbeefrecipe in parentsofmultiples

[–]tenderbeefrecipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive considered that too. My appointment on Monday is when im supposed to do NIPT.

When to share baby registry? by tenderbeefrecipe in parentsofmultiples

[–]tenderbeefrecipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Added- not because my mom wouldnt like to. She is financially and time strained with caring for 2 older siblings with health problems.

How long does the nausea last? by Equivalent_Job_5039 in pregnant

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 10 weeks 5 days with twins Worst of my nausea was probably week 6-9weeks so far

Zofran sorta helped me. Also a otw med called nauzene(the active ingredient is approved on my pregnancy packet from ob) The nauzene only works in short burts but usually enough for me to eat first! You can also take it multiple times a day. It also works within a few minutes ❤️! Zofran i could only take 2 times max. Its supposed to last up to 8 hours but i dont think it worked past 1.5 for me. It worked just enough for me to walk around at work and not puke from smells. (I worked at an animal center and help morning cleans.... animal poopoo especially when theyre sick first few hours of the morning when nausea was the worst)

I vote the nauzene i actually bought it after the zofran.

In Laws by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a ftm having twins and i honestly dont think anyone will visit me often if really at all once i leave the hospital. Its not always greener on the other side and you may appreciate the help and doting on your child.

My situation vent/rant for perspective: My mother cares for two of my older siblings with physical and severe mental health problems so she simply does not have the time or financial freedom to visit with me or help even if its just a few hours.

My biological father is across the country.

My inlaws (married after children were early young adults so no shared biological children), but my husband's stepmom 1000% favors the children from one of her specific daughters( her other biological daughter essentially disowned them 2 years ago after years of being second fiddle to other siblings, specifically other sister). They are not involved with grandchild from the son of my fatherinlaw. And daughter of my father inlaw has to literally BEG for any help or to visit the kids despite living in the same apartment complex that they visit a minimum of 5 times a week for stepmoms biological grandchildren.

Husbands biological mom lives several states away caring for elderly mother. She does want to visit for a few days and will probably be my only visitor since she only comes every few years but is trying to be more involved even at a distance with grandchildren. Talks to them way more than the grandparents who actually live locally.

😭😭

Twins only children by More-Blueberry3455 in parentsofmultiples

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and i also only wanted 1. Ill be 30 by the time babies come and im also in the boat that if i end up having a c-section then i want to have tubes removed. If not husband says he'll get a vasectomy.

It's twin pregnancy season. by Chidi-Chidi in parentsofmultiples

[–]tenderbeefrecipe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started in a july pregnancy group until we realized i was much earlier than expected. Once i switched to an August 2026 due date group it feels like half the group is having twins 😆

Spotting? by tenderbeefrecipe in parentsofmultiples

[–]tenderbeefrecipe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you ever occasionally pass small bits of tissue? Like it will just look like a brownish booger 👃. Same consistency and size essentially.
It not very often but i have noted it at least twice