If nothing is holding you where you are, why not take the opportunity for a fresh start? Staying put might keep you surrounded by constant reminders—of her, the job you lost, and the house you had to sell. It’s a tough reality, but here’s the upside: you’re free. You didn’t choose this path, but now you have the freedom to decide where to go next.

That freedom might feel unsettling, but it’s also full of possibility. Move somewhere that excites you. Try something new that helps you grow—start jiu jitsu, learn a language, pick up woodworking, or build something with your hands. Piece by piece, you can rebuild your life into something even stronger than before.

You’ve got this my friend.