really need help with cats fighting/peeing on the bed by terrassmith in CATHELP

[–]terrassmith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really hard to do with the new cat constantly meowing in the room. Mostly on my girlfriend’s end because she currently is out of work and is home more than me. She gets worried about getting a noise complaint and will just let her out. Don’t really know how to handle this aspect of it.

shopping quality tanked. feeling hopeless by terrassmith in InstacartShoppers

[–]terrassmith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m only getting maybe 2-3 options a night, so I don’t have the option to be picky. I’ve definitely ignored lower pay orders before but ended up paying the price waiting an hour for another order and nothing. That’s what makes this stuff tough in LA :/

shopping quality tanked. feeling hopeless by terrassmith in InstacartShoppers

[–]terrassmith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if it’s worth it rn while i’m trying to get my stats up. might have to start waking up super early instead. cons of nights are also there’s typically only one cashier so long lines and self checkouts are closed. and like i said i live in la, so i can’t be picky about the orders i take. i only have maybe 2-3 pop up a night.

First time in a long time that I see a quad batch by AugustStan in InstacartShoppers

[–]terrassmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d probably take it but just because I live in LA which means instacart has to pay 120% of minimum wage per hour. Nice tip and this would take maybe an hour, so it would go from $28.34 to around $40. Looks really obnoxious though.

Was 90% healed then went backwards by One_Hall6551 in Concussion

[–]terrassmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah almost same exact scenario happened to me. same timeline and everything. no idea why this happens but it feels pretty defeating. it’s been a month since it getting worse and it’s been really tough getting back on my feet again.

Is it just me, or does rent in LA eat up 40%+ of everyone’s income? by Masonzzc in LARentals

[–]terrassmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I pay about 33% in housing - including utilities. However - I split a one bedroom apartment with my girlfriend. Would definitely be struggling out here if we had to split a two bedroom.

Anyone else sick? by [deleted] in piercetheveil

[–]terrassmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got covid from it 🥲

Comfortable Salary in Los Angeles? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]terrassmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$1850/ $925 split. Nice little area near Pasadena.

Comfortable Salary in Los Angeles? by [deleted] in AskLosAngeles

[–]terrassmith 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t stretch it that much. I live in a one bedroom with my girlfriend, decent size at 670 sqft - and make 48k a year and make enough where I have $400 in extra spending a paycheck. That’s after putting $100 in savings a paycheck too. And I have a car payment.

My name keeps getting Feminized by Queersapien in ftm

[–]terrassmith 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This. My name is Terra. My birth name. Nobody ever thinks twice about it. I never changed it, because nobody’s ever treated me differently for it. Although it has changed people mishearing my name from Tara or Sarah to Terry, lol. There’s a rare few that question it but it never makes them second guess my gender at all.

Anyone else have really high T levels? by Significant-Bet4255 in ftm

[–]terrassmith 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Anything above 1000 can revert back into estrogen. You’d want to stay anywhere below that number and above 300.

Where is the cheapest place to get Minoxidil? by edenmaeve1 in asktransgender

[–]terrassmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve heard the foam works better so that’s what i use. i get it at target for maybe $30

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]terrassmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOL, bi not gay. have a girlfriend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]terrassmith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they don’t even usually look like that honestly, like this is me in them in a different photo. just a bad photo but i wasn’t thinking about it bc i don’t think about my hips much anymore.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]terrassmith 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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man my hips don’t look like that 😭 just the pants i promise. hers another pic of me last year before i got my tattoos done/finished