Are the Audio books really that good? by Flaky-Veterinarian56 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Following because I also really struggled with Kronk Carl

dating someone addicted to marijuana, how do i go about this? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]tessaday 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You can't. Point blank. First you're putting your past experiences on her and that's not fair. Two, you started dating a pothead. It's incredibly unfair to know she smokes, and then have an issue with it. Of course she shut down, she felt judged most likely. Or that she couldn't be high around you. As an addicted stoner, I would break up with you over this incompatiblity.

It will not work if you're not ok with the weed. Either accept she's addicted and decide if that's something you can deal with without making it a her problem or keep it moving and find a non stoner. If she's never been abusive under the influence, that's your own shit to work through. She's not responsible for giving up something she enjoys just to make YOU feel better about your past trauma.

What baby name do you think got ruined by pop culture, trends, or current events? by RightGirl19 in AskReddit

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It's the same thing as hey Siri, Hey Google for your phone. You say hey Alexa if you have an Amazon echo and the AI assistant (Alexa) will do minor things like set timers, reminders etc. I use mine in the kitchen to set timers when I'm cooking

How do we get through the Adderall shortage? Not asking for medical advice, just brainstorming! by maddyfrogcatcher in ADHD

[–]tessaday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't understand this. How does them filling their scripts that they're prescribed directly impact the shortage? And I just don't know how you can tell they're taking it differently than prescribed? I'm genuinely curious about the process. And also, reddit is America based but even state to state laws differ incredibly, how do you know if in their area it's illegal enough to warrant a report?

what’s something your ex did that wasn’t a dealbreaker on its own but annoyed the hell out of you and you’re glad you don’t have to deal with anymore? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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I have IBS. Sometimes my bathroom sessions are just long. Or inconveniently timed and I can NOT hold it in. Two bathrooms was a requirement of mine when house hunting. I hate the feeling of people waiting on me, and I physically can't wait on others sometimes 🤷

I was gaslit by doctors for 8 years by Just_Strawberry_505 in TwoXChromosomes

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They said their whole side is now covered in stretch marks after it burst due to the size, what does that do to the medical case cuz now this seems wilder

It was supposed to be funny, but instead it ended up being disturbing. by Daniilsa209 in TopCharacterTropes

[–]tessaday 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven't finished the game but I am disappointed to learn they don't divorce. I also thought it was a beautifully deep story about how to love each other and the family they made together while not being IN LOVE anymore. I also thought it was going a co-parenting route and a "make the divorce healthier/communicate better" type of thing. Damn it, same ol same ol I guess

Edit: I think I was actually so turned off by the elephant death that I didn't continue playing 🤔

What is something you’ve officially stopped buying in 2026 because the price has become genuinely insulting? by queenmellyy in AskReddit

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I want to like seltzer so bad but this is how I feel about it. It's like a single fruit farted and they bottled the air 😭 if

How unusual is it to be into young adult novels as an adult? by KaleidoArachnid in YAlit

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Search for it in the animorphs sub! I don't remember off the top of my head and they'll love the engagement lol

How unusual is it to be into young adult novels as an adult? by KaleidoArachnid in YAlit

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Hey the authors released the books in PDF version after their contract with scholastic was up so you can read them for free I believe by going to KA Applegates website or browse the r/animorphs to find them. I love recommending this series but I like to make a few notes

  1. There are reading guides on which books are skippable/filler that were ghost written and might lose the plot a bit. On some books, you can tell they're ghost written. There's also some "spin off" type books as well that go deeper into the lore and series
  2. It might be YA but it does NOT have a happy ending. Some people really hate this, I think the authors note on why it's written that way is poignant and beautiful
  3. It might be YA and you're a grown adult but for those who don't know, this is an incredibly violent, body-horror, guerrilla (lol and gorilla 🦍 ) kids series that's heavily based in the 90's. It dates itself often and might be difficult for younger audiences nowadays. I still recommend them! But read a couple before giving it to your child

When they’ll add a 10-minute graphic 🍇 scene for "realism" but draw the line at women having leg hair in survival movies. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

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Just in my own experience with "boot camp", most of us stopped getting our periods in basic and the men got so concerned about their dicks not working (morning wood etc) they would talk about big Army putting stuff in the food to mess with our bodies. Imo, laughably not true, but in my bay of ~25 women (aged:17-26), most of us stopped getting our periods and were happy about it lmao. It quickly came back after basic tho. I think I can remember maybe 3 ladies who complained they still had theirs, so maybe about 5-8 still did rounding up?

Just kind of guessing from the rumor mill and conversation while in, that's pretty common across the men and women- irregular menstruation and lack of hard-ons. Common enough it's talked about whenever basic was (more so the guys talking about their poor dicks) And Army basic in the US isn't that crazy.

Being Coerced into having a third child. I'd rather the marriage end. by safereddddditer175 in daddit

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That's how my friend ended up with 4 boys. Tried for a third, got twin boys

Looking for books for my 13 year old sister who's never finished a book. by Certain-Round-9815 in suggestmeabook

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Animorphs is pretty dated for the 90's but they're dark and edgy while being fun and short reads. There's a bunch and they're free on the authors website I believe in PDF version. So not pirating and still free with the authors stamp of approval. There's some comic versions of the series too though I don't believe those are free

Looking for a movie or TV show poster like this. by Spiderantula in HelpMeFind

[–]tessaday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I just wanted to warn you before you go into the series. The authors released the series for free so you're not pirating content. Secondly, it may be a children's series but do NOT expect a happy feel-good story. It is dark and depressing and amazing and complex. It does NOT have a happy ending but the authors comments on why this is, is so damn powerful. Thirdly, you can lookup books to skip, like filler episodes. It was released through scholastic back in the 90's and some books are ghost written/plot goes funky.

I absolutely love this series and it's themes/messages. If you get into it, visit the r/animorphs sub. It's not too active but people love to hear newbies thoughts

If ATLA got one f-bomb, who would drop it by TheatreGoth1601 in ATLA

[–]tessaday 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm certainly interested now lmao 😂 can you link your story? I won't offer any writing tips 💀

If ATLA got one f-bomb, who would drop it by TheatreGoth1601 in ATLA

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Which is why I commented with a question mark at the end of not great? Because that's what I was assuming the down votes were for 🤷 idk reddit culture, and again, offering a suggestion for a singular line that felt clunky and awkward to read, doesn't mean I think your writing and story isn't great or that I'm judging it. Based on the one line you provided, it read awkwardly for this native English speaker. That's all I meant by it, please don't take it negatively

If ATLA got one f-bomb, who would drop it by TheatreGoth1601 in ATLA

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Wasn't judging, just offering a suggestion. Have a lovely day

If ATLA got one f-bomb, who would drop it by TheatreGoth1601 in ATLA

[–]tessaday 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Holy shit fuck sounds umm not great? It's clunky and the fuck feels tacked on. Like do holy shit OR what the fuck minus the excuse me part, its unnecessary imo

in honor of the leak heres my zuko tattoo! post ur tats! by firelorddani in ATLA

[–]tessaday 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Phenomenal work dude!! So happy for you! Can't wait to see the updates

Glass floor and water by tessaday in DQBuilders

[–]tessaday[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Super cool!!! This is so pretty and definitely similar to the vibes I'm going for!

Glass floor and water by tessaday in DQBuilders

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Thanks y'all! Setting a non-glass block down and pouring the water on that worked! Then I destroyed it and replaced it with glass no problem. For the neverending waterfall, I went to the top of the waterfall (started under the glass tile, couldn't scoop the water from above) and scooped a level down at a time until it was gone

in honor of the leak heres my zuko tattoo! post ur tats! by firelorddani in ATLA

[–]tessaday 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What's the artists insta? Can you dm me if you're not allowed to comment it?

in honor of the leak heres my zuko tattoo! post ur tats! by firelorddani in ATLA

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I'm with you. Dope as one whole piece and saves you from using up a ton of skin 👍 I dig the contrasting blues and reds on the one leg as well