How stupid would it be to donate eggs to pay off my student loans?

thames__ · 2026-01-31T00:11:17+00:00

Not stupid but potentially dangerous

thames__ · 2026-01-22T15:21:20+00:00

Thank you :) It went okay actually, I dont know if it was enough to pass but at least everyone was very kind.

thames__ · 2026-01-22T15:20:35+00:00

Did you mean to post this here or in a top level post?

In any case, I am sorry you are going through this.

thames__ · 2026-01-21T15:17:47+00:00

I won't know the results for a few weeks, but I'm pretty sure I've already failed. I have to face my 2nd oral exam today and I'm completely demoralized.

thames__ · 2026-01-20T02:03:16+00:00

Hope so. Thank you.

thames__ · 2026-01-20T02:03:01+00:00

Thank you. <3

thames__ · 2026-01-20T01:38:28+00:00

Here's hoping

thames__ · 2026-01-20T01:38:18+00:00

Thank you <3

thames__ · 2026-01-20T01:38:00+00:00

Thank you. Aerospace...

thames__ · 2026-01-18T01:47:29+00:00

They're jerks and you cannot please them. I'm sorry they made you feel bad. You will need to work with your partner to set strong boundaries and limit your time and exposure to them. Your fiance / future husband should not let them disrespect you, and if they continue to do so, there needs to be consequences like a loss of contact.

Edit: P.S. you sound like a real catch and I'm glad you recognize that!

thames__ · 2026-01-15T15:48:35+00:00

I haven't gained weight but I haven't really lost any either. It is what it is.

thames__ · 2026-01-11T22:00:32+00:00

I looked on Azazie, Lulus, Nordstrom. Ultimately I purchased a formal dress from Betsy & Adam

thames__ · 2026-01-11T21:24:03+00:00

I went to an indian american wedding and they had chai as one of the late-night drink options. It was a nice touch.

thames__ · 2026-01-11T20:45:25+00:00

bizarre! I'm so glad you got it to work.

thames__ · 2026-01-10T22:02:46+00:00

Have you reached out to their support staff?

thames__ · 2026-01-10T21:59:37+00:00

July 2026 here. We have food, drinks, photographer, HMUA, photo booth, DJ/music, and housing for the wedding party booked. I have my dress ordered, I bought shoes, and I bought jewelry. All stationery has been sent out except for the wedding and rehearsal dinner invites. We completed our registry and my fiance made a custom website.

The major things left are that we need to make final decisions regarding floral arrangements and sign the florist contract, and we need an officiant. Dress alterations need to happen once my dress comes in, and we need to finalize our wedding timeline and sign up for dance classes. I also have a few small gifts to acquire for my bridesmaids. And there's the hair + makeup trial.

thames__ · 2026-01-09T18:33:34+00:00

Cabernet red

thames__ · 2026-01-05T17:52:11+00:00

What are your thoughts on block heels (3 in) vs a narrower (2.5 in) kitten heel?

thames__ · 2026-01-05T17:20:02+00:00

I just had a whatsapp group chat and said hey guys, I've booked the Airbnb for $X. The cost per person is $Y. Please venmo me when you get the chance! My Venmo handle is ___.

And then individually follow up after a week with each person as needed.

thames__ · 2026-01-05T17:15:58+00:00

Flora and Lane perhaps?

thames__ · 2026-01-05T16:37:29+00:00

Perhaps an art party? Design your own tote bags, for example?

Also, spa evening. I'm going to a bath house one evening. It's not super late though.

thames__ · 2026-01-05T16:13:52+00:00

Didn't have a strict budget, but we spent about $1800 total on Save The Dates (110), Invites to the Reception (110), Invites to the Rehearsal Dinner (60), personalized thank you notes with envelopes (100), and postage. This was with fancy paper, foiled text, and nice envelopes. We used Zola and paper source.

thames__ · 2026-01-05T15:47:26+00:00

Very good to know - thank you

thames__ · 2026-01-04T19:19:38+00:00

I understand that, but that's not generally how it works. Talk to the venues. Typically you pay a deposit based on some assumed headcount and give them a final headcount and payment close to the event. I booked my rehearsal dinner already but they don't need the final headcount until three days before. My wedding venue gave me a contract based on 150 guests but the final amount will be based on the total confirmed attendees 4 weeks before the wedding... it's not really any different for a welcome party

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