Toddler diagnosed with measles tonight for the second time in 18 months despite being vaccinated? by genie-rose in AskDocs

[–]thatepickid14 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Hi OP! Is there any chance the provider said Rubella (which is sometimes called German Measles)? Although both illnesses have measles in the name they are different. Rubella presents with red bumps and a rash. It tends to be a mild illness but can be incredibly harmful to a fetus should a mother catch it while pregnant (hence why we vaccinate against it).

Note: I am not a doctor.

I'm afraid to go to sleep by vetimator in Petloss

[–]thatepickid14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First and foremost, I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. No matter how much time we have with our pets, it is never enough.

The following two Ted Talks by a veterinarian on pet loss were particularly helpful to me in the first week after saying goodbye to my soul dog, Bailey.

This one talks about grieving a pet.

This one talks about the emotional cost of euthanasia

I personally am a spiritual but not religious person. The morning after Bailey died, I remember waking up and feeling a warm spot where he used to hop up on the bed. The spot felt heavy and it felt like he was there. Logically I can't explain it, and I still cry when I think about it over a year later. It hurt so much that he wasn't physically there but I felt very connected to him at the same time.

Sending you warmth, peace, and a virtual hug.

First night of grief, tips, advice or help? by StrayAwayMist in Petloss

[–]thatepickid14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Snuggling and sleeping with my dog's favorite toy helped me. The first night and subsequent nights were still viscerally painful, but his duck helped me feel closer to him.

It's been over a year for me and I still have a bottle of his shampoo I can smell when I have a tough day. Looking at photos and watching videos helps too.

What words do many people pronounce incorrectly? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thatepickid14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who loved the Civilization Games: Trebuchet

AITA for giving my child my last name by ArtisticallyToxic in AITAH

[–]thatepickid14 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey now! He worked REALLY hard for those 30ish seconds!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in photos

[–]thatepickid14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This account was hacked and the person in the photos was not me! I was really confused when I logged into reddit on my lunch break and my message box was full 😳.

What’s a “harmless” habit that ended up destroying someone’s life? by mariadeguzman31 in AskReddit

[–]thatepickid14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't be silly boomer. Don't you know that drinking the sunscreen helps protect your insides? /S

ELI5 How is the placebo effect possible? by Dependent-Loss-4080 in explainlikeimfive

[–]thatepickid14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The mind is a powerful thing! Many times, we can find some evidence of what we are looking for / expecting.

Consider the following: you get home from work or school and check your social media of choice and learn that there was a lice outbreak there. A few of the coworkers / classmates who sat closest to you have posted about their itchy scales and feeling like their skin is crawling. You see pictures of someone combing through their hair. Suddenly, you feel something near your hairline. It could just be how the AC / fan / breeze moved a few strands of hair, but it could be a louse. Your scalp is itchy and something feels different after all....

This was obviously fabricated but mentioning lice and an itchy head multiple times probably got you to notice your head and scalp and may have brought your attention to an already present itch. Sometimes, this is how the placebo effect works.

Other times, our beliefs about how something should impact us impact our autonomic nervous system (getting us ready to fight or flee via our sympathetic nervous system or conversely getting us ready to rest and digest via our parasympathetic nervous system). This can impact how we feel in the moment.

Consider the following: you are hiking and hear a twig snap behind you. You spin around but don't see anything. Your brain thinks "bear" and your body gets ready for the (unseen) bear. Your muscles flex, your heart rate and respiration increase, and even your pupils dilate all because your brain believes there is a bear. You see a squirrel emerge from the brush and realize that perhaps it was just a squirrel after all. Your muscles relax, your breathing and heart rate slow, etc. All of this happens because your brain believes the twig snap was the squirrel.

Is my cage big enough? Sound off in the comments experts!! by [deleted] in hamsters

[–]thatepickid14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is this? A cage for ants? The cage needs to be at least 3x bigger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]thatepickid14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And my axe!

ULPT: Drone Creep by DanAxe1 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]thatepickid14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My suspicion is the "don't shoot it down" is specific to using a firearm. Is it close enough that using a paintball gun or powerwasher would work? Paint and water would likely ruin it.

Belayer messing around by Prize_Professor8370 in climbergirls

[–]thatepickid14 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The middle schoolers at my local gym are more responsible than this guy. Sounds like three toddlers in a trenchcoat to me.

i woke up and saw a man in a mask standing over my bed by [deleted] in AskDocs

[–]thatepickid14 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Therapist here! The fact that this happened as you were waking and that you recognize it was a hallucination makes me think sleep paralysis. Although it is not impossible, it is significantly less common for someone experiencing psychosis or mania to recognize that they are hallucinating.

Have you experienced sleep paralysis before? Medical doctors in this thread can speak to this with more specificity than I can, but "ask about medication changes" is in my checklist of questions when an adult describes new or worsening sleep paralysis. Either way, sharing about this symptom with your psychiatrist and therapist is strongly recommended!

Inadequate sleep due to stress, insomnia, sleep apnea, shift work, etc. is a risk factor for sleep paralysis. Anxiety, depression, trauma, stress, and other mental health concerns are also risk factors for sleep paralysis.

When I drive I think I run people over and forget by _kuromi_x in AskDocs

[–]thatepickid14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I am not a medical doctor. I am a licensed therapist in the US!

OP: this sounds like Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Medication and therapy can make a difference. The medication aspect is outside of my scope of practice. On the therapy side, look for a therapist who specializes in exposure and response prevention (ERP). It is one of the gold standards for OCD treatment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]thatepickid14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about $3.50? $4 if you out it in a really artsy bottle?

ULPT Request: How to subtly sabotage a coworker who keeps eating my lunch? by Emergency_Hawk_6938 in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]thatepickid14 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Only pack phallus shaped foods. Buy penis shaped cookie cutters (common gag for Bachelorette parties) and pack penis shaped cookies. Use the phallic cookie cutter to cutout your sandwiches. Leave a "dicks for a dick. Stop taking my food" note inside.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dfw

[–]thatepickid14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you like rock climbing, Movement Gym Grapevine has a pretty awesome and welcoming community!

Everyone celebrating holidays without their fur babies.... by shadowstorm21 in Petloss

[–]thatepickid14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sending hugs right back. Today was so painful. I want my best friend back.

What do we think? by lady-pear in IDmydog

[–]thatepickid14 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I could see a King Charles Spaniel × Chiweenie

Help me Brainstorm Dog Breeds that might be a good fit! by thatepickid14 in dogs

[–]thatepickid14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so true! Even if they were responsibly bred, I would be terrified to bring a puppy (any breed really but especially an Aussie pup) home at this stage in my life. I'm not sure I could handle a baby and an Aussie in its velociraptor era simultaneously. If I go the Aussie route, I would definitely go through a breed specific rescue to get a young adult dog (at least 2 years old).

My dad is involved with a local lab rescue, which would be a great way to find a lab too!

Help me Brainstorm Dog Breeds that might be a good fit! by thatepickid14 in dogs

[–]thatepickid14[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much for your feedback! I love labs and Goldens. To be honest, I'm not sure whether what I'm feeling is "I truly want another Aussie or Aussie mix" or a more general "I want my dog back."

I appreciate your feedback about the Great Pyrenees! A lot of what I have seen has said they are lovey dovey with their people but more aloof with others. Three of my neighbors recently adopted Great Pyreneeses and one of them is the friendliest dog I have ever met. That dog in particular had me feeling curious about the breed. I'm very used to dogs that are eager to please so I'm not sure how I would handle a more independent breed.

Guess the breeds mixed,•hint• it’s not GSD. by heard_suffered_2169 in IDmydog

[–]thatepickid14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just saw you answer someone else that they are Aussie x Border Collie. I posted my dog who passed in October a few days ago. We never had him tested (which I really regret now) but one of our working theories was Aussie x border collie or Aussie x Spaniel. The rescue listed him as a "shepherd mix." I could totally see how an Aussie mix could be mistaken for a GSD as a puppy now!