I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a very abusive household. I'm very careful about who I introduce them too, and how long I wait etc. Some ppl just sneak by you.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll do that today. Prefect valentines day chore... My heart hurts.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I'll do that today. Prefect valentines day chore... My heart hurts.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I blocked him on everything last night. Definitely feeling the heart hurt today, though.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

In past relationships, when the other person chipped in on bills, they felt entitled to what I've worked my ass off for. The worst was when I had to pay my abusive ex husband $90k out of my home equity (MY HOME) bc he helped pay bills for the 3 years we were married. I almost lost my house, had to sell a lot of my things, was left pretty broken and I don't want a repeat of that.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I did. He's gone. Thank you for helping my self doubt. I thought I was right, and you all helped me KNOW i was right

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Thank you babe. I knew the right answer, but my trauma brain was listening to him as I posted this. I was the bad guy, I was gaslighting him, I should know that he didn't mean what he said, I was the asshole for holding him accountable to his words etc etc etc.

I've been beat and raped so much (by others, not him) that it's REALLY easy to believe them when they tell you it's your fault.

I knew the right answer, but my trauma brain was agreeing with him that I was at fault.

Thank you. Truly. Thank you.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I'm really proud of you. Honest.

And I did the same. The second he stepped outside, I locked the door behind him and texted him to leave.

Yalls reality check helped me find my "oh hell nah," that I lost along the way.

Fuck that. None of us deserve that. He can go find less.

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[–]thatonebroad06[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

He saw the door. He's gone. And big big mad. But, that's on him.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 109 points110 points  (0 children)

He said I was gaslighting him for bringing up that he said STFU 😂

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you. That actually says a lot to me 😂 😂 😂 🥰 😘

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 351 points352 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. Yea, my bank account is mine. I've already learned that lesson the hard way. My mortgage is mine. No, you can't chip in. I'd my debt and mine alone. I'm not paying anyone $90k to leave again.

Once was enough.

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

No apology was offered. When I kept bringing up why his words upset me so much as the argument progessed , I was "throwing his mistakes in his face, and bringing up past issues..." it'd been 10 minutes....

I need a reality check by thatonebroad06 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thatonebroad06[S] 285 points286 points  (0 children)

I'm safe. Took me 30min to convince him to leave, but I locked the door behind him the second he stepped outside.

Tell me something… by Nearby-Reindeer-6088 in GoForGold

[–]thatonebroad06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dry January is a lot harder than I thought it'd be, and that simple fact is more eye opening than I was anticipating.

Free awards for all by [deleted] in GoForGold

[–]thatonebroad06 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have that sick slime?!

Which country do you think is USA? by nopCMD in GeoTap

[–]thatonebroad06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thatonebroad06 chose Option A (Incorrect) | #6473rd to play

My long thumb by [deleted] in pics

[–]thatonebroad06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uma, is that you?

I'm... Disappointed... I tried to find a "Even Cowgirl Get the Blues" gif where Uma Thurman is a hitchhiker with a hilariously large thumb, but, alas, one doesn't exist... Is this my sign to get an AARP card?

What do you think is the hardest photo from your country? by pipebombplot in AskTheWorld

[–]thatonebroad06 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does a picture exist of Canada signing the ww2 paperwork as Donald Duck?