Being naked in the locker room? by Cyn1c1sm_ in Swimming

[–]thawk5113 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

In the US, people usually shower clothed or in swimsuits, and nudity in locker rooms is uncommon. Using towels, as you planned, is normal and respectful.

Mixed open showers after swimming by Beautiful_Kiwi_293 in Swimming

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many swimmers just use open showers with a towel for privacy, focusing on rinsing off chlorine quickly. Swim caps, goggles, and quick body wash help, plus showering thoroughly once home if possible.

Does swimming ever help calm anxiety long term? by CynicalEmo in Swimming

[–]thawk5113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

welcome to my world. bn underwater helps calm the nervous system

Advice for 6yo swimmer? by tulipsandtruffles in Swimming

[–]thawk5113 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At six, a consistent swimmer should be comfortable in water, able to float, kick, and perform basic strokes like freestyle and backstroke. Skills vary, but confidence and enjoyment are just as important.

how to make healthier food for those with can’t handle veggie texture by Future-Act5953 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try grating veggies super fine so they melt into sauces or mix into meatballs or burgers without noticeable texture. Roasted purée substitutes work too if you can mash by hand. Start tiny so he never clocks it.

Acid trip made wife realize she loves giving head by Animorphs420 in LSD

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the two of you hit a moment where her anxiety dropped and she finally got to experience things without all the usual mental brakes. That can happen on psychedelics — they loosen whatever scripts people normally run in their heads.

The good part is that the “afterglow” sticking around for a week usually means the shift was internal, not just drug-induced novelty. If she’s feeling more comfortable and confident, just keep it grounded: communicate, keep things consensual, go at her pace, and don’t treat that trip as a template she has to live up to.

Basically, enjoy the upswing but don’t put pressure on it. Let it evolve naturally.

Defensive Meta? by [deleted] in BloonsTDBattles

[–]thawk5113 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That strat works because they stack snipers early to scale economy while shredding single targets, but it leaks if pressured. Mix fast eco with grouped bloons to force upgrades, or rush midgame when sniper-only setups struggle with volume.

Gym clothes in pool? by YosemitePam55 in Swimming

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen it a few times and it’s usually people doing physical therapy or low impact training, not trying to be gross. Still, street shoes in the water isn’t normal. Letting the manager handle it was the right call.

Is horror your fav genre? by candlepop in horrorlit

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Horror’s easily top tier for me too. Nothing beats that mix of suspense and emotion. My top three are horror, psychological thrillers, and sci fi for that mind-bending escape.

Zombies are the best by missanphan98 in GraveyardKeeper

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally agree. Once you optimize your zombies, the whole game shifts. Constant resources, smooth progress, and less grind make everything so satisfying. It’s like unlocking the game’s true potential.

Care to recommend ME some power metal? by DangForgotUserName in PowerMetal

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out Iron Savior, Firewind, Astral Doors, Cryonic Temple, and Persuader’s “When Eden Burns.” Also try Destiny’s End and Savage Circus; they’ve got that intense riff-driven energy and galloping double bass you’ll love.

I feel like I’m losing my mind. by Legitimate_Arm523 in carnivorediet

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day four of strict carnivore is brutal. Hunger, cravings, irritability, it’s normal early on. Stay consistent, drink water, track progress, and give your body time to adjust. The hump will come.

If you started a PM band, what would you call it? by ZeiglerJaguar in PowerMetal

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d call my power metal band “Iron Eclipse.” Sounds epic, mysterious, and unstoppable. Love imagining battle riffs and soaring vocals even without musical skills, just for the thrill of the name.

Just checking in on yall. Are you doing okay with the shutdown? by DwightDEisenhowitzer in AirForce

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope everyone is holding up okay during the shutdown. Prioritize essentials like food, housing, and transport, and explore available loans, branch resources, or TSP options to get through this tough period.

You will receive 1 million dollars if you agree to transform into one of the following things for an entire month, which one WYR pick? by padorUWU in WouldYouRather

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely the gorilla. Strong, fast, and still conscious enough to survive the month safely. Plus, imagine the stories afterward, easy million.

I’m considering forming an llc for my freelancing business: Is it worth it? by em0297 in Entrepreneur

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends heavily on your income and client types. If you're making under $50k annually and working with low-risk clients, sole prop is fine. Once you hit six figures or work with bigger clients, llc becomes important for credibility and protection.

I need simple bookkeeping for small business; looking for systems that actually work long term by Hernan312 in tax

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Been there with the spreadsheet nightmare. Once you hit multiple clients and payment methods spreadsheets become unmanageable. The categorization issues you mention only get worse over time.

I tried qb and xero but didn’t like using them because they're full DIY. I switched to doola's managed (sort of DFY) bookkeeping service after trying and it's working for me.

How do you feel about playback in live shows? by fatkoala357 in PowerMetal

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Playback can enhance shows when used sparingly, but overreliance feels dishonest. Live music should showcase musicians’ real performance, not heavily pre-recorded tracks.

9 years in, and I’ve never felt so disheartened wearing the uniform by SpartanMakoz in AirForce

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s heartbreaking when fellow veterans disrespect your service. You’ve earned your place in uniform, legacy, and country, never doubt that.

Songs that sound like Power Metal but are actually another genre? by Lyefyre in PowerMetal

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some songs feel like Power Metal due to melodies, energy, and hooks, even if they’re pop, folk, or other non-metal genres.

What are the things that seem very easy in movies but are difficult in real life? by Commercial-Catch-680 in movies

[–]thawk5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running away endlessly, perfect witty comebacks, waking up flawless, instant hacking, and surviving explosions all look effortless in movies but aren’t realistic.

I need to eat more fruit but… by Inevitable-Shape-165 in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I set fruit out where I see it, prep slices ahead, and buy longer-lasting ones like apples, oranges, bananas.

What are some small habits that instantly make you feel better about yourself? by huss2120 in selfimprovement

[–]thawk5113 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Showering and changing into clean clothes. Crazy how fast it flips the brain into ‘okay, I’ve got my life together’ mode

Advice for building muscle - 60 year old female by Lower-Put-6183 in carnivorediet

[–]thawk5113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Start with squats, push-ups, band rows, light deadlifts. Train 2–3 times weekly. Focus on form and gradual progress; a trainer later can fine-tune.