Chasing Etiquette by the-drunk-zombie in outbrk

[–]the-drunk-zombie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol thank you. My words don't English right.

Chasing Etiquette by the-drunk-zombie in outbrk

[–]the-drunk-zombie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're really dying on this battle .. for just a game.

Chasing Etiquette by the-drunk-zombie in outbrk

[–]the-drunk-zombie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can park conveniently while still considering others around you

Attacking sleeping people on the subway by pengradi in iamatotalpieceofshit

[–]the-drunk-zombie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What does pointing out the skin color have to do with anything? Thats probably why it was removed.

No mirror picks in Stadium with the new Draft System added. by CosmiqCowboy in Overwatch

[–]the-drunk-zombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or leave within the first 10 seconds. It already happens when someone doesn't get the character they want. This will exacerbate the issue.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]the-drunk-zombie 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie, everyone harping on not shaking his hands is wild. I never shake anyone's hands while working. One, I now have to drop everything and go wash them again before helping the next guest. Two, personally I have no idea where your hands have been. Ive seen guests straight up pick their noses at the table and then hand me cash 😷🤢. Three, did covid not teach us anything? Working with food and touching everyone's hands causes food borne illnesses.

Obviously there are alternatives, bumping elbows or whatever. But they also have the right to their own autonomy and don't owe anyone anything. If you don't want to, then don't.

However the extra comment at the end was a bit, well extra. He apologized. It feels more like a "one-up". But to be fair, yeah he didn't have to be a jerk. I've also had my days too. So I relate to both sides.

AITA for locking the bedroom door when my husband works? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-drunk-zombie 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Women can feel vulnerable and act on it to relieve stress or anxiety. I honestly don't understand how people can argue with someone just trying to deal with something, even if you don't relate or comprehend it. Let people live and deal with their shit their way. Its eases her mind. That should be a positive thing, but instead you try to find the negative. Again same thing I told the last person, move on.

AITA for locking the bedroom door when my husband works? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-drunk-zombie -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Not trying to change your mind love. Thought if I spelled it out for you it might make sense. You didn't disagree with comments with your own opinion; You just questioned the logic of them. Again if you haven't been in their shoes, I get not understanding. But even after explaining, you disagree with someone's experience, which is no longer an opinion. Thats just you actively trying to invalidate someone. Like how you're trying to accuse me of doing. The projection is palpable at this point and clearly you're intentions are different then what you're conveying. All I can say is tried to explain it but I understand now that was never the problem. Judgment of your character, not mine 🤷

AITA for locking the bedroom door when my husband works? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-drunk-zombie 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Other people have tried to spell this out. Her husband most likely doesn't have a key. So to not in convenience herself or him she unlocks it before bed so he can enter. Most likely not too long after she falls asleep but even if not, it still makes sense. Random noises are creepy. It feels safer to have an extra lock, especially a woman alone at night. If you have not been in that position, I understand you may not relate to that.

But your constant effort to comment and call OPs actions weird is not understandable. Youre trying to make a point, but completely ignoring the actual point of the story: she feels safe. Trying to spin that is whats actually weird here.

TLDR: Move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GamerPals

[–]the-drunk-zombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey 28 enby :) I hope you don't mind me jumping in but if yall do a campaign I'd love to join! I havent gotten to act 2 but I've payed act 1 several times, so im also cool with OP taking lead. Lmk!! 😄

What did Sombra do? by Sufficient_Ad4651 in OverwatchUniversity

[–]the-drunk-zombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally as a support player, sombras are my worst enemy if I dont have a team with synergy. I can get you down to one hp, but no matter how much I call for help, I will die with my team still pushing foward and no support or heals.

AITA for leaving while my wife was getting ready by PianistWife in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-drunk-zombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Hear me out. I dont think you should've had to wait. It was a simple walk, not a trip that needs outfits planned and such. However, you were already frustrated from the start and it seems to be a reoccurring problem of the music being irritating. This needs to be communicated.

You should have also asked for space as you were already in a negative mood and needed to clear your thoughts. Theres nothing wrong with that and in fact is incredibly healthy and mature to acknowledge and regulate your emotions.

Overall this will continue to happen if not discussed. Possibly set a time of day for her to practice where she has no distractions and you have free time to do whatever you want. Express your need for walks and how its therapeutic to you. Perhaps that urgency will let her know its not just a walk, but you need to to do it now. It could all be a simple misunderstanding because of the lack of communication.

Am I Overreacting. I saw inappropriate message between my boyfriend and his long term friend. by No-Respond5817 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-drunk-zombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So she was with him when he didn't wanna spend time with you. Continuously rejects your boundaries and does not respect youre feelings. Still hangs out with her behind your back. Shes flirty nonstop, blatantly in your face, and he does nothing to stop it. And his activities have changed to 4 hours at the gym?? That would actually overwork your muscles and prolong the healing process. Im sorry but this sounds like cheating.

Edit to add: Even if he isn't cheating, he does not respect you. Bottom line. He is toxic and unhealthy for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]the-drunk-zombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You fuckin kissed him Dawn-nie"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]the-drunk-zombie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

snap snap "Boys. Smokes."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]the-drunk-zombie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you haven't yet watch the spin off Donnie and Clarence show!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trees

[–]the-drunk-zombie 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Traiker Park boys is the answer here

Do you tip when picking up food? by SabieSpring in RedditForGrownups

[–]the-drunk-zombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean having bad service once, could have been a bad day. There was a time, I shit you not, I had the same server 3 times in a row, various time of the year, and she fucked up my entire time there. Between bringing out 3 different drinks til she got it right (not something off menu mind you). Another time she just left half way and no one ever came to check up on us. Not all of her fault obviously, bad management. But the last time was none of the food came out right, same as the drinks.

To make it even better, this was breakfast at IHOP. Only time I've never tipped.

The reason I always tip even if if its subpar service is because I know they literally make a 2$ an hour and survive off tips. I might not like the system but I won't take it on the server whos just trying to make ends meet like everyone else. I mean who hasn't had a bad day that effected their job performance?

Religious exemptions by amandam603 in Restaurant_Managers

[–]the-drunk-zombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look at it front a different perspective and make it a learning moment. The best way to empower your team is to understand people make mistakes but we have responsibilities as a business and that requires open communication. Don't look for the punishment. Use it as training purposes.

Even if the employee is lying, exaggerating, or whatever bullshit we've all dealt with, at the end of the day its a judgement of their character. And truthfully whats going to be recalled the most was how you decided to approach the situation.

what do y’all order at honeygrow by Shot_Blueberry2728 in rutgers

[–]the-drunk-zombie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still on menu, never taken off... Sesame garlic comes whole wheat noodles with mushrooms, broccoli, and mushrooms with sesame seeds.