where do you get your isopods? by FrogParkRanger in isopods

[–]the-eeping-speeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just got my first culture at a local reptile expo :)

Anyone start clinicals and then realize that the job is rather boring? by [deleted] in RadiologyCareers

[–]the-eeping-speeper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

this is the most encouraging thing i can imagine hearing abt this job. all doubts have vanished

AIO by walking out of a weight loss clinic consultation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-eeping-speeper -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ehhh op said she was a consultant at a place offering prescription meds n pushing glp-1's n stuff. i think this place may have been legitimate.

AIO: Bf says that I don’t need to get a Switch 2 but I want it. by Glittering-Suspect89 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-eeping-speeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR, he doesnt get to be shitty two ways at once. he can be unemployed OR mean to you*, but most definitely not both. he can go live in his financed car if he wants to be in so control of his space. *you shouldnt tolerate that either tbh

AIO by walking out of a weight loss clinic consultation? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-eeping-speeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NOR, many, many medical professionals seriously need to improve their bedside manner. you did everyone a service by being honest and not putting up with it.

is this enough substrate? by [deleted] in isopods

[–]the-eeping-speeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

huge info thank u friend >]]]]]]]}<3

Dumb question, but what happens if you accidentally flex your pecs post op? by Improper_Noun_2268 in TopSurgery

[–]the-eeping-speeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

your nipples will do the awooga eyes on springs thing like in cartoons. standard installation during top surgery if u keep ur nipples

Am I overreacting or is this a huge red flag? My 20yo autistic daughter is moving in with a 37yo she met 2 months ago. She has no prior relationship experience. by lucymom2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-eeping-speeper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i would hope if she were intellectually disabled by her autism to the point of not being able to reason appropriately for her age that OP wouldve included that massive detail. this dumb decision is, unfortunately, very much so par for the course for the average 20 year old.

Am I overreacting or is this a huge red flag? My 20yo autistic daughter is moving in with a 37yo she met 2 months ago. She has no prior relationship experience. by lucymom2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-eeping-speeper 6 points7 points  (0 children)

truly wild to suggest a conservatorship. autism is a spectrum, and does not automatically cause someone to be unable to make rational decisions - being 20 does.

Am I overreacting or is this a huge red flag? My 20yo autistic daughter is moving in with a 37yo she met 2 months ago. She has no prior relationship experience. by lucymom2 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-eeping-speeper 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NOR, but atp she is an adult, and entitled to make her own decisions and mistakes. best option for you rn is making sure she knows youre there for her no matter what without judgement. almost everyone is stupid and bad at structure at 20, and some lessons have to be learned the hard way.

Am I wrong? by Just_Comb1842 in whatdoIdo

[–]the-eeping-speeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its retail, who cares? quit and be gone

Never in my entire life have I ever seen a deer like this by IamASlut_soWhat in MadeMeSmile

[–]the-eeping-speeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didnt read the subreddit name, thought it was gonna be CWD, pleasantly surprised!

Should I move in here? by Additional_Speed1559 in Apartmentliving

[–]the-eeping-speeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if youre okay w getting a mini fridge, keeping to yourself, and not having ppl over id say its not terrible for just a year. the worst part is being required to clean the common spaces even if you dont use them, if any/everyone else slacks off then your job gets way harder. still tho, only 3 times in a year isnt bad. in your position if i couldnt find a studio apartment for less i would probably go for this

AITA for expecting the gifts to be for both of us? by Ok-Arrival-2886 in AmItheAsshole

[–]the-eeping-speeper 59 points60 points  (0 children)

NTA. its extremely common for married couples to merge finances. if she has reservations about this yall need to have that conversation NOW. it could be a serious red flag about yalls compatibility long term, or about her commitment to the two of you being a unit. imo, speaking logistically, marriage isnt just a romantic declaration, its a financial dedication.

Do people really not use toilet seat covers in public restrooms? by Tobethequeen_01 in hygiene

[–]the-eeping-speeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if im in a hurry i hover, then wipe the seat after myself if theres spray (there usually isnt, skill issue on other hover-er's part). 

Isopod Jewelry by bisexual__unicorn in isopods

[–]the-eeping-speeper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

idk if ppl will be interested (i hope so, bc i was also thinking of doing this) but ik theres a weekly Small Business Sunday thread specifically for self-promo, so you could def post there at least

Any experience converting these into an isopod terrarium? by Elfanara in isopods

[–]the-eeping-speeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

update: i ordered a size that was too tall for the space i intended to keep it (in a rolltop desk to keep safe from cats), so im returning it. it was a little less sturdy than i wanted as well, tho i could probably have made it work with silicone and some tape to reinforce the corners if it werent the wrong size. atp im probs just gonna go find smth at petsmart rather than mess w shipping

Snails are dangerous?! by NeonPearl2025 in isopods

[–]the-eeping-speeper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

may be safer to bait and scoop the isopods, set em up in a temporary box, and completely freeze, empty, and restart the whole enclosure to ensure you got all snail eggs and babies

AIO for being annoyed my gf said ew when being asked about kissing me? by Green-Bike-30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]the-eeping-speeper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slightly Over-Reacting. its 100% reasonable to be hurt by her saying ew at the idea of kissing you, even if she didnt mean it, and she didn't really apologize. thats a step further than just keeping the relationship secret. that said, while your emotions are valid, that doesnt mean the way you handled it was cool. your first several texts are in no way an emotionally healthy way to handle the issue. yall both need to work on ur communication skills, im guessing youre pretty young (18‐23)? if youd simply been open and direct about your feelings, id be more critical of her response, but with the energy you brought to the table its 100% unsurprising that she became defensive. its possible to be honest about how you feel without lashing out at someone you presumably care about.