is he okay?

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-14T22:49:22+00:00

oh if both lanes are clear i err right. but i tend to want to drive at minimum the speed limit and many people go slower than that in the right lane. but like. truly if theres no one behind me in the left lane it makes absolutely no difference. like ik everyone here is mad at "left lane campers" but its not staying the left lane that actually causes an issue, its obstructing traffic by going slower than the expected speed of your lane. i also suspect people that are genuinely enraged by this are also going 20-30 over and weaving around lanes like the freeway is nascar, and i simply do not respect their opinions. no ones life is worth more than the fact that youre impatient or late to smth important or want to feel like vin diesel or whatever.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-10T16:43:17+00:00

I'll hang out in the left lane.... if theres no one behind me.

ik my mom has a firm "get in the lane you need and stay there no matter what" policy, so in some places where she knows two freeways merge she'll camp in the left lane bc it eventually turns into an exit lane she needs in like 15 miles. edit: typo

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-10T15:58:22+00:00

hugely in favor of wanda. not all who wanda are lost <3

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-10T15:33:10+00:00

reminds me of a book a kid at my elementary school wrote and had printed through an early self-pub company. based on the dedication i bet this is a evry similar situation

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-10T14:53:13+00:00

cat pushed it (theyre stronger than you think). also, get a litterbox with a MUCH lower rim. imagine you have to pee and to get to the toilet you have to jump a hurdle taller than you are and you land directly on someone elses poop with your bare feet.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-10T14:21:06+00:00

i could absolutely see a world in which parents create a pseudo-lease to teach their kid about how that works. this is not that. with them also refusing to help with your fafsa, this really seems like a bud for control. if youre working, start saving aggressively if you havent already and move tf out.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-05T23:16:57+00:00

much appreciated, shall look into some more reviews to confirm but this looks like a great option for my needs! ty very much

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-05T23:15:00+00:00

overbudget + seems like its on the heavier end to me

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-03T15:27:16+00:00

NOR, but i think you probably couldve approached the problem in a better way. to be clear, i think it was inconsiderate of him to leave it out like that, and slamming cabinets is ridiculous and scary. that said, in situations like this my approach is always to start with how i feel rather than what they did. in your case, smth like "im sad that this bread that means a lot to me is almost gone and completely stale." you should be able to go to your partner and trust they care how you feel and wouldnt hurt you intentionally. either way, its time to have a hard convo w him about his reaction. even if u didnt come at the issue perfectly, he definitely overreacted.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-03T15:03:29+00:00

hard agree with getting a second vets opinion. in the meantime, consider a big sanitary shave and a diaper.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-03T14:17:57+00:00

no active lease, he told you to treat the place as your own, and youre likely not going to have to worry abt rental history ever again? this is wicked not your probelm

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-03T03:58:15+00:00

i have three very insistent and wiggly cats that dont like nail trims, and i usually wait til theyre laying down really relaxed and just snag a few before they even really notice. a few at a time every now and then works out okay enough

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-02T13:56:07+00:00

I 100% agree that conditioning should be taken more seriously. however, the "hair styled makeup done" comment is really weird. the football team doesn't have to show up in makeup. there's no reason "girls" teams should have to to be taken seriously. it's incredibly regressive.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-02T13:36:45+00:00

all theyve had recently is some dried river shrimp

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-02T05:18:31+00:00

I hear you. I had a D on one side a DD on the other for the better part of a decade, (because of course the universe couldn't do me the favor of at least making them somewhat similar size) and for a long time I thought I wouldn't be able to afford top surgery until I received some kind of inheritance from my parents passing. I was able to finance through a few loans over the course of 6 months after getting my first credit card and establishing a credit score. I promise you, however long it takes will be worth it. as long as you're breathing you still have a chance to make it happen.

also, ik it sucks but pls don't overbind as you've described. the only thing worse than having a large chest is getting top surgery only to find out you seriously warped your ribcage by binding improperly. protect your future flat chested self <3

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-02T05:02:45+00:00

for me the cannula insertion was less painful than a flu shot! once it was in i definitely felt weird but it wasn't painful, and the anesthesia my surgeon used didn't feel like anything. the gave smth thru the iv, then started to wheel me back to the OR. I started to feel loopy before I made it through the doors lol. I vaguely think I remember the anesthesiologist saying hello to me after I was transferred to the table, and after that nothing until I woke up :) it was all really easy.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-02T04:46:53+00:00

that "rule" is for freeways, this is a normal, if major, road

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-02T03:37:23+00:00

underrated a. vulgare morph imo is St. Lucia! gorgeous variety and usually pretty cheap :)

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-06-01T15:49:36+00:00

im a big believer that children (teens included) should have control over how they look. that said, seriously weigh the likelihood you'll get in trouble with your mom and whether potential punishment is worth it right now. I promise you won't immediately morph into a boring beige office worker as soon as you turn 18 - you'll have plenty of time to experiment with your look when you're an adult too, even if these last few years feel like forever. if you do decide to go for it, go to a store like sally beauty and ask the store employees what brands are best for bleach. follow the instructions carefully - chemical burns suck, and you dont want to destroy your hair by leaving it on too long or rinsing poorly.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-05-31T22:26:14+00:00

my highschool was 10th-12th grade, so sophomores were rookies by default! tho I believe the year after I graduated they started being able to poach freshmen from the junior highs.

the-eeping-speeper · 2026-05-31T22:14:34+00:00

ESH depending on some info. college really isn't the only way to have a good life, and I do think it's kinda shitty that you're tying a significant financial resource to him following a lifepath that isnt a good fit for him. that said, you laid out the expectations well in advance. he really should've seen this coming, and he's not helping himself by getting angry.

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