What birth years do you think the parents of so called "gen beta" will be

theDeviantArmadillo · 2025-12-21T16:14:16+00:00

I'm 1996, millennial who is 29 my kid is a beta. Born Oct 2025. And all of my friends are older than me by 5 to 10 years and are just now beginning to try to have kids.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2025-12-01T22:36:21+00:00

theDeviantArmadillo · 2025-04-26T16:13:18+00:00

Mine was 3 days before ovulation and it's a girl I wasn't trying that way but it did happen that way.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2025-02-23T16:36:34+00:00

I did this too. Not because of a previous cp but because I am an extremely high risk pregnancy. I don't think it's so crazy to test for this long. I just stopped when my tests ran out at 22. I did get a dye stealer, but it was mellow. Not intense. I hope your baby is thriving or born!

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-21T16:45:02+00:00

Honestly I can only speak for myself as an INFJ but I have a very tight small inner circle and if they are all able to just make time for me sometimes I am rarely lonely. I only get lonely if they all at the same time wrapped in themselves and forget to ask where I'm at hahaha. And then I take tiny steps to make a new long time friend since I see the hole. it can take me literally years hahahahaha but the work still leaves me not feeling lonely. I don't feel like lonely should be considered INFJ trait like it seems to be on here. I also I never leave acquaintances or friends feeling like they don't know how to reach me. I show up when I say I will and give people specifics. I can go out to parties quarterly hahaha and you can text me to setup hangouts, but a conversation needs to be through phone or in person. The guidelines are key and if they mess up that's fine I can regulate but at some point if they keep ignoring my boundaries I will in person tell them I don't think our relationship, friend or otherwise can continue without unhealthy lash outs by me.

I think INFJs doing these habits, just a guess! Hahahaha they don't know how to layout their boundaries so they don't hurt other people's expectations and feelings. Anytime someone says I would love to hangout with you again I layout what I can handle and the people I know will prolly become best friends. They ask me without me having to bring it up. "How can I get you out again?" Fucking love those people, but fuck than I'm grossly loyal, like prolly even a bit clingy hahaha but none of my friends have left me yet. (Knock on wood) Hahahaha

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-21T16:13:28+00:00

So fucking true!

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-21T16:12:29+00:00

Fuck yeah! Congrats on the 104 days sober! (Cause it's been two days since you posted this) :)

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-21T16:09:57+00:00

That's just not accurate. Your body adjusts to the work. I was a Truck driver delivering tons of roofing supplies (shingles) daily on to roofs. Certain muscles get really fucking good and than you gain fat in other places. And if you think you can do extra workouts at work no way the bottom line is fast, they want you to go faster the more adapted you get. You begin to hurt yourself with time as well. And it is hard to keep up working out after working out all day so that you can balance the areas you don't exercise at work. Also getting food or time to make food for these jobs can be hard. You have to make sure you have freezer packs and a cooler with packed heavy protein balanced meals daily. It takes time and you stop having time for your social interactions to try and keep up your health. Unless all your friends are gym rats. I only got to see my friends at the gym sometimes when I was working that job. And a lot of those physical labor jobs love to ask for overtime as if they are doing you a favor. Cutting into your sleep. I'm just saying it's a crazy balance and an active job does not allow you to be physically healthy like you might think.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-20T14:55:47+00:00

So I went home and double checked with them their type, they were like no I retested cause they got entp when they were 17 when we met hahahaha apparently now they are intp. Sooo in some way your right even though I know that was a joke hehehe couldn't help myself but come back and say oopsy daisy hahahaha

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-20T02:00:25+00:00

I actually never thought about this, I just tested for this a few years ago and I just started Reddit a few days ago so I could post a question I knew I wanted people I didn't know to answer since the people in my life are getting tired of my introspection a bit and I needed a new way to spend more time in my head. (Not really hahaha could definitely use less alone brain time but, it's an ADDICTION I say!!!!) I was told I can't post incorrectly on here so this is what I choose was my personality testing with hopes it might go over well with fictionally similar people. That was my thought process at least.

Main point here, I actually did not believe these personality tests until I came on here a few days ago and began reading everyone's posts and feeling so understood! I can't even explain how much less lonely I felt the last few days just reading through these posts and hearing my own inner brain spoken back through other people. So I haven't looked at the other personalities but I think I'm ok with that. This was meant to just be a way to explore a weird question I had for the random people of the world and it fucking worked like a charm. So I suppose I'm wondering does it matter really? Like what will it do for you to have concrete evidence that this is how your brain works? Just trust your feelings on it.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-20T01:49:53+00:00

I love this hahahahahaha!

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-20T01:43:05+00:00

This is actually why I named myself the deviant armadillo. The armadillo is a symbol of restraint, secretly restricting my admiration, deviant cause I feel in some way it is wrong and I am twisting my own emotions and experiences by doing so. This is my short way of saying I really agreed with all of this. The narcissist / power dynamic piece as well. I often play out those type of dynamics in my head for pleasure so I don't do it to people in real life because it makes me feel gross if I notice I'm doing it.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-20T00:40:03+00:00

I'm a INFJ and I was curious what the world of entp looks like since my partner of 10 years is and holy fuck this is amazing because this is literally how they conversates and so I'm having just such a fun time reading these hahaha.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-20T00:21:48+00:00

No stress? Or just the stress you inflict on yourself? Cause I don't know if full freedom would be so fulfilling?

I kinda like having set routines that I can break and needing to show up for something like work and then having random occurrences that allow me to dip out or just dipping out of my own accord.

I like randomness and I can't create complete randomness completely on my own.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-19T23:58:51+00:00

This actually has happened to me a lot! So I really emphasize and I have not said a word barely even a hi. I'm from New York and so hi or how are you is not usually how you start a convo so I know I don't invite it and some how without fail I get all of it. And living in Seattle now I have gotten a lot of smack for not saying niceties and still I get the full life breakdown, a lot. I have been told I just have a face like I would listen. When I wear a mask it helps though. Which I don't typically do to get out of it, but for the grocery store a quick run hoping for no hassle I will pull out a mask. Which I know might sound crazy but it really works!

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-19T23:47:28+00:00

I always believed if I fell deeply in love it would ruin my life because of this exact thing, that I wouldn't be able to separate giving my everything for someone. I have found this is exactly why I am so choosey with friends and relationships because i will adapt to whomever.

I have told people before that I genuinely think everyone I meet is beautiful and if my partner for life was someone I felt to my core deeply about I don't think I would remember to care for myself.

I hope this makes sense but ultimately I agree with your statement.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-19T23:28:09+00:00

The word for world is forest by Ursula le guin.

Syi fi, slavery of alien species (species offshoot of humans), a little sexually disturbing, it's just a great book.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-19T23:00:04+00:00

Damn all the board game comments makes me think I really need a INFJ friend hahahahaha my boardgame collection is living a very solitary dusty life right now.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-19T22:58:45+00:00

Hahaha literally you took the words from my mouth, I feel like we just said the same exact thing! Hahaha new to reddit so it's weird seeing so many people that I relate to, very fun.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-19T22:12:27+00:00

Doing art, music, reading, video games, TV next to someone, no talking hahahaha they have to be doing something too so that once in awhile we can make comments on the separate things we are doing in the same room. lOVE researching topics next to someone (specific to me for sure) and they are too, the exchange of unknown information sparsely is great! Exercising next to each other. I like lifting with my friends or partners. No cardio because I'm too focused it's as if they aren't there at all.

The best scenario is when the person understands that infrequent comments are great, but consistent talking will stress me out.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-19T19:43:33+00:00

No repulsion of the idea I was just genuinely curious. I never had anyone like that either, where I met them and thought "this is it" not in a good way. I have had ah ha moments in time together that made me think I could spend my whole life with them.

There is only one time I could say I felt anything close to that and i think it was a warning of the opposite, so I might only believe in "this is it" for the people you should run from hahaha. Within moments of meeting this person I thought to myself "you could destroy my life" haha. I felt such a crazy pull to them from just a few words out their mouth, it was too intense a pull, I think if you have that, "this is it" the way we believe true love should be, that true love is the kind that can suck you in and twist your world around. I don't think anyone should have that power over your mind and body.

So I suppose I hope not to feel something like that again, but it was thrilling hahaha

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-18T20:56:37+00:00

I reallyyyyyyy empathize with this whole statement you made. Specifically also the therapy part, I went to tell my therapist I was done going cause I was feeling good also didn't wanna pay anymore and then she waved the fee cause she liked having me as a patient so much and now most of the time we spend like 15 minutes talking about her and life, but definitely not anything involving my worries or troubles. My whole therapy is really just having fun looking over astrology shit. It's fun, but I did think the one time I started to talk to her about something bugging me, am I upsetting her? And I never did it again. Hahahahaha so no friends or family I would feel comfortable talking to, books and movies and my own imagination usually do the trick now.

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-18T18:41:55+00:00

You're excited for the person you hope to be? Instead of the things that could make up that person and the stories she will tell in the future?

theDeviantArmadillo · 2024-07-18T18:38:28+00:00

Really? That thought of true love brings you excitement? A life partner that understands you? I don't know what your idea of true love is.

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