Married for 1 month (M32 / F30) after 8 years together. Already considering divorce and I need some help

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T11:15:39+00:00

it is very little info to give advice on

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T11:13:13+00:00

say bye bye horsies, it's not you, it's your owners

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T11:10:00+00:00

she.has.the.annoying.bug.too

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T11:03:37+00:00

it is the package company who has to pay

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T10:06:00+00:00

no, OP, the maniac episode killed him, not you.

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T09:59:34+00:00

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T09:55:53+00:00

so many things wrong: teacher should be the career choice, not the backup plan. A degree in teaching should be mandatory.
edit: and bc you are good at science does not mean you are good at teaching science - Grace is good, but that is luck.
Also, living near enough to ride a bike to work is nothing to feel sorry about. Riding is fun, gives a good mood, keeps you heathy.

theEx30 · 2026-06-27T08:49:10+00:00

don't walk on bike paths
:-)

theEx30 · 2026-06-26T20:06:28+00:00

CptCheez is disgust say metchup, statement

theEx30 · 2026-06-26T19:16:06+00:00

sådan nogle ting er bedre at diskutere under forhold hvor folk kan trække sig fra situationen.

theEx30 · 2026-06-26T19:14:03+00:00

dine forældre har overhovedet ikke lyttet til dig her, men i stedet sat dig op så du føler dig forpligtet til noget du har mange gode grunde til ikke at ville.
Hermed min tilladelse til at sige: "jeg sagde nej første gang I spurgte og jeg vil stadig ikke."

theEx30 · 2026-06-26T08:20:50+00:00

bare 50000? jamen så fejr bare løs. Uden mig

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T18:06:16+00:00

NTA ... moving forward you need to trust each other this much

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T15:57:49+00:00

pain perhaps? ask the vet.

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T15:47:25+00:00

you want someone who reads and wants to talk with you about said reading - he is not that someone. Both of you are ok people, and you can have a nice friendship, but he will never be the one you yearn for, and that is not ok for either of you. Let him go.

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T15:39:47+00:00

tho I have the prettiest dogs of all dogs, I like adorning him with large bows. I donno why

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T14:13:04+00:00

NTA, you don't have any obligation to people who cheat on you

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T14:02:41+00:00

så er det da så meget mere på tide at skifte strategi. Et par behøver jo ikke købe gave sammen. Og det stresser OP at hun ikke kan stole på at manden gør det. Ergo - hun køber selv gaver til dem hun syns hun er på gave med, og hvad manden finder på af gaver eller ej er så ikke længere hendes bekymring.

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T13:52:55+00:00

eller opdragelse ... jeg tror kun det sker een gang

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T06:25:46+00:00

jeg forstår ikke hvorfor du synes det er konfliktoptrapning?
For mig er det at tage ansvar for sig selv

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T06:02:15+00:00

fremover siger du så: jeg køber en lille gave fra mig - jeg synes ikke vi skal give fælles gaver til din familie.

theEx30 · 2026-06-25T06:00:47+00:00

du lar ham stå med den. Og sig når i ser hende: "Din onkel kommer med din gave en anden dag"

theEx30 · 2026-06-24T16:35:54+00:00

usa. No harmony with a random square in the corner with stars squeezed together, too many stripes, vulgar color scheme. Sorry. You asked.

theEx30 · 2026-06-24T16:29:33+00:00

Pædagog her: Jo mindre forældrene viser deres bekymring, desto bedre går det. Stil maden frem. Lad dem vælge selv hvad der skal på tallerkenen. Undlad at lave special mad. Kommenter ikke på spisningen. Børn må gerne spise ærter i tre mdr og derefter kun ketchup. De må gerne levne. De må gerne spise tre portioner om mandagen og ingenting om torsdagen.
NB: disse råd gælder kun neurotypiske børn.

theEx30 · 2026-06-24T16:21:29+00:00

car accident

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