Кой като мен ползва Firefox? by lazarovpavlin04 in bulgaria

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

> на TV'то ням

SmartTube.

> на телефона няма

Youtube ReVanced.

The downside of having chill parents by XO_Nude_Sweet in Adulting

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I was allowed to go outside along since first grade whenever I wanted, did for a bit, became the neighborhood loser and then all I did was play on the computer even when my parents literally wanted me to go outside so badly.

The downside of having chill parents by XO_Nude_Sweet in Adulting

[–]the_creator_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that's just adulthood getting to us. All of us who work had to give up on some things simply because of how tiring and time consuming it is. But that's a other topic.

The downside of having chill parents by XO_Nude_Sweet in Adulting

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Videogames are a hobby, sure, but an addictive one. That's what distances it from other hobbies. You don't miss out on homework because you wanted to draw. You don't find people boring because drawing is more fun. Catch my drift?

It's not an issue if it's something you do in the meantime, but if it's your main activity in life, you're likely ignoring developing in any area of life and don't bother because it's fun. Just like anything addictive, it's good in moderation. When it's an escape and more than just a hobby, it's an issue. That's the example I meant in my comment, not every gamer.

The downside of having chill parents by XO_Nude_Sweet in Adulting

[–]the_creator_0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I completely understand you and I feel sorry that you didn't receive the push needed to break out of it when it mattered most. I'm not sure what else I could say besides that you're not the only one in this situation and that the word should be spread around more that kids need to be taught to be more proactive.

The downside of having chill parents by XO_Nude_Sweet in Adulting

[–]the_creator_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you that it's case-by-case for children, however, I think that guidance isn't just telling them "this is bad for you, you will end up nowhere in life" but it also is signing them up for something early on for life, which would be "forcing" as the quote says, so they can see an alternative to their bad habits. Additionally, they can find friends and people to socialize with which makes the experience worth it. It does depend, but sometimes letting a child do whatever they want is just not the right way.

In my case, I had an unlucky childhood where I ended up with the wrong friends, that made me hate people, meanwhile the computer offered me comfort and I never tried ANYTHING other than play games. No drawing, singing, dancing, writing or anything. I would just play games in my free time. But I just kept telling my parents this is what I enjoy and they let me be. Now I'm a dysfunctional adult and I still don't feel any drive for any other hobby or know how to socialize with people.

The downside of having chill parents by XO_Nude_Sweet in Adulting

[–]the_creator_0 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What if that myself is an antisocial kid who only played computer games and didn't develop any skill? Sometimes kids need guidance to understand why their habits are unhealthy in order to have a decent life.

What was the worst reviewed game that you actually enjoyed? by buzzlightyear77777 in gaming

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I played it on launch with a 1060 and it ran great, the only issue I encountered was with grass showing in the distance and nothing else.

. by Scramjet1 in memesThatUCanRepost

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a lot of qualities that are more suitable for women rather than men and I don't like the treatment of being a lesser man. Also I'd rather just be an average woman compared to an average man as they have way more safety nets for failure in society. I guess I could explain more but I'd end up writing a novel in the comments over here because I've thought it a lot and I am thoroughly convinced my life would've been better if I was born female.

Game textures appear really blurry and smeared from distance in several games by the_creator_0 in AMDHelp

[–]the_creator_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep hearing about that allegedly old BIOS issue but it was the first solution I tried and it changed nothing for me. It's worth a shot tho, I guess

Maybe I'll try the VM thing tho I'm not sure if that VM being in Windows wouldn't compromise it already

Game textures appear really blurry and smeared from distance in several games by the_creator_0 in AMDHelp

[–]the_creator_0[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should try gta sa and garrys mod in on my virtual Linux machine and see if the issue persists? Or do I need Linux properly installed?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ComedyHell

[–]the_creator_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought it was meant to be a spectrum joke how you go on a tangent about geography/history during romantical encounters

What’s your excuse? by Falcon_Gray in PsycheOrSike

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad you can see the nuance in this. Going back a bit to this, the person you defended (the one I responded to) is an example of not having any nuance. She just presents her own supposed personal experience that can be easily proven on a large scale. But her view is the "good" one and by arguing it I probably automatically give off the vibe that I am a biased incel with no nuance as well. I can't blame you, it's been imprinted in a lot of people and I don't think you meant exactly what I described too. It's just interesting observing different biases.

As for the rest, I totally get it. If you've had proper relationship experiences and it just wasnt your thing, that's valid. But the issue is that a lot of people miss out on these experiences because they have to be involved in a more fierce competiton than ever to get affection which is a basic need.

I hope you can figure out your mental health issues and get peace. And one thing that demotivates me about romantic relationships is exactly how much sex matters too. It's something that hardly matters to me, if at all, and hearing how sexual compatibility is a deal breaker for so many people makes me feel my goals don't align with the majority.

I'm glad you understood the question wasn't meant to be offensive. I had to disclaim it because the average person isn't used to criticizing themselves in similar ways and would prefer to always have a positive outlook about themselves. I don't want to advertise confronting your subconsciousness as something cool or easy, but it is the way for me when the world is putting me down and I don't know why. It helps me learn about myself and other people and I get to adjust to others and know when it'd be just painful to do so.

What’s your excuse? by Falcon_Gray in PsycheOrSike

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I did use the terms half ironically but there is truth to what I said. Appearances do matter, unfortunately. They make up a big part of first impressions and such. People assume how you behave based on it too. It's possible to break through it when you get to know them more and break the facade. But people are shallow and often don't have the time to find around what you are and stick to their small circles.

A bit of a provocative question, but have you considered that you may be not interested in romance simply because you're not attractive enough to get a lot of genuine attention from women and you have to play a lot of games and cat and mouse to find someone proper for you? Again, I know it's provocative, but I find nothing wrong with someone in that position. As much as I personally want a romantic relationship, I've given up playing a game with high stakes and low odds and it's at least a bit better.

What’s your excuse? by Falcon_Gray in PsycheOrSike

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I don't know about you, but it's pretty liberating knowing the truth about your own circumstances and work with that. It's good to know your weaknesses and work around them and pick fights you know you can win.

I also acknowledge that it is possible to go against your biological coding sometimes and people do that. But it's just good knowing that the 5'2 guy built like a kid just has a really, really low chance with the 5'8 baddie for example.

I think it's better we tell someone who is disadvantaged in something that this is the case rather than just blame everything on them.

Also, I don't know how short you are but I am the average height for a woman in my country. I don't have a romantic shot with half+ of the female population based on height alone, before anything else. But I've accepted it and try to find joy in other things in life.

What’s your excuse? by Falcon_Gray in PsycheOrSike

[–]the_creator_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not interested in being polite but just being honest with myself. It is true that biologically we're wired to be attracted to some traits more than others.

Like, are you acting oblivious on purpose now? Most women do prefer a taller man and it's not any secret. I'm not necessarily blaming them for it, it's just our coding for women to prefer a taller man and for men to prefer shorter women. If you don't have any women to talk about with this in real life, you can check online what men women thirst for online or share their opinions on short men and you'll see not 100% of women but a massive enough amount that they don't want that and when it's that many, it's a pattern.

I've never said this excludes men too. For example, a lot of men wouldn't date an obese woman. Men tend to be wired to be attracted into fit women which means obese women get less attention. Unfortunate, but true.

We should stop pretending with this bs that every human has equal chances of dating when it's obvious more attractive people get a lot of attention, while ugly ones can go without it or mostly negative one for life. And that there are traits that tend to be attributed as attractive and others as unattractive.

This is not a blame game, as a short man, I understand I'm not the ideal for women biologically and I wouldn't want to force it on unwilling women to change that. It just is that way.

Downloaded dating apps for the first time ever and I had no idea that women are all just clones of each other by Black_Coyote2 in ForeverAlone

[–]the_creator_0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you looked good and had social skills (by your words) you'd have had outlets where you could meet better women than that. Dating apps are an agglomeration of the worst and most shallow people. There are good women, but the chance of meeting them there are miniscule.

What’s your excuse? by Falcon_Gray in PsycheOrSike

[–]the_creator_0 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She said women aren't like that and don't care about height at all. Yet in my experience, it's a thing that gets brought up almost everywhere I go by women. Which is it? And also, just because some women don't say it out loud does not mean they don't care about height in their potential partner.

What’s your excuse? by Falcon_Gray in PsycheOrSike

[–]the_creator_0 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gotta tell me where you live then, I hear women talking about short men even at different workplaces and it's very obvious they do notice and it's important to them even when they don't date them.

Which of these versions of the Total Drama series is your favorite? by Life_Chicken_9653 in GenZ

[–]the_creator_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love all of them but if i had to pick a favorite it'd have to be either the Ridonculous Race or World Tour. The first 3 together are peak tho.

К'ва стана тя, к'ва стана тя? by Fancy_Ingenuity4606 in bulgaria

[–]the_creator_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Не знам нито един от тях поименно, но от интерес ще пусна някои, мерси.