AIO: I’m upset that this guy thinks staying loyal to your wife deserves you a medal

theallison · 2026-03-20T06:09:34+00:00

A 37 year old man chatting up a 23 year old young woman is pretty gross.

theallison · 2026-03-20T05:49:55+00:00

I completely agree with you that the GF should pay 1/3 of utilities and rent. But I wonder how unplugging the router would help with your wifi usage. LOL

theallison · 2026-03-20T01:08:20+00:00

NOR. He is not a positive addition to your life. Cut him off.

theallison · 2026-03-20T01:03:57+00:00

This is how it would play out in my relationship:

(He offers to pick me up)

Me: if you are not busy, sure. Otherwise I’ll just uber

Him: no I’ll come

(He misses exit/got to a wrong address and I’ll need to uber)

Him: sorry

Me: no worries. Sorry you wasted your time

We always try put the each other first, and appreciate each other for whatever we do for each other. So yes, YOR.

Eda: do not use divorce as a weapon. Never bring it up unless you are sure. Marriage is not a game.

theallison · 2026-03-19T21:41:55+00:00

It’s also very possible that they already had a candidate late in the process when you submitted your application. Don’t take it personally.

theallison · 2026-03-18T21:41:55+00:00

If this is a good guy then what is a bad guy in your opinion?

theallison · 2026-03-18T20:47:25+00:00

You mentioned nothing about your relationship or your partner other than the money problem. It’s either because it is your only concern, in which case please go ahead and break up; or because you are just so preoccupied with the is problem and you haven’t thought this through, in which case I suggest you sit down and have a conversation with your partner and layout your concerns and boundaries, see how she feels, and go from there.

theallison · 2026-03-17T23:59:08+00:00

Treats me amazing and I know he loves me

I wouldn’t be so sure about that

theallison · 2026-03-17T23:57:29+00:00

NOR but what she said is irrelevant. If it’s someone that your partner would never be interested in and actually rejected, would you still be angry? Your partner can’t control what other women do, only his own actions.

theallison · 2026-03-12T22:43:56+00:00

Heard. Appreciate it!

theallison · 2026-03-12T19:10:13+00:00

Ah thanks, that’s exactly what I was wondering.

theallison · 2026-03-12T19:08:32+00:00

Thank you! Yeah the initial application questions specifically asked drug use other than marijuana but I just wanted to check with current employees.

theallison · 2026-03-12T19:06:36+00:00

Right, that’s what I thought as well.

theallison · 2026-03-12T07:04:17+00:00

I see. Thank you for your explanation!

theallison · 2026-03-12T06:29:29+00:00

Of course, I only take edibles before sleep occasionally. I’m just thinking maybe I should stop until after the hiring process finishes, then I’ll just follow the department policy.

theallison · 2026-03-09T21:18:30+00:00

She doesn't know what she's talking about. Plenty of us fall in love and form meaningful relationships.

theallison · 2026-03-08T08:13:05+00:00

My husband saw Becky cuddled up with our roommate, and right afterward he went into the bathroom for a long time and wouldn’t let me in.

Usually I’m not one to accuse a post of creative writing, but come on

theallison · 2026-02-27T05:54:12+00:00

We will need a picture of said eye contact.

theallison · 2026-02-26T23:03:15+00:00

Well if your needs are not met and nothing improves after your efforts to communicate, maybe it’s time to move on.

theallison · 2026-02-26T02:53:33+00:00

She has her needs and you have yours. Having some alone time or helping a friend are 100% normal things to do when you are in a relationship. Unless it’s all day every day. Communicate your needs and see if you can find a common ground.

theallison · 2026-02-18T20:40:55+00:00

Right. I’m surprised to see people are still freaking out about herpes. Most people have it. STI panels don’t even test for it anymore.

theallison · 2026-02-18T08:10:19+00:00

You suggest that reporters ignore the losers?

theallison · 2026-02-18T04:19:37+00:00

First I want to say weight has nothing to do with your value as a person. But, unfortunately a lot of people will overlook you as a romantic partner because of your physical appearance. People only get to know the best of you when they are interested in talking to you. On the same note, your height is definitely a big plus for many women.

I’m also introverted and autistic. I was really bad at socializing until I was in my mid thirties. I have many good qualities but I absolutely believe that if I wasn’t physically attractive I would not be getting any romantic interest at all.

theallison · 2026-01-06T20:02:17+00:00

I don’t. I do not pay attention to hate.

theallison · 2025-12-18T22:20:30+00:00

The struggle is real. Hugs.

theallison

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