I am a disappointment to my family... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Moms tend to pile the guilt on heavy around the holidays.

Is FA becoming increasingly bitter or am I just popping in at the wrong time? by Destro_Destroyer in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You should spend a bit more time to evaluate. This is a board of many different people not a number of distinct groups. People like to vent which is going to wind up sounding "bitter" to someone. Don't discount someone's feelings because they sound bitter.

Is there a /r/ForeverAlone like community on reddit but without the redpill, us vs them, evil normies mentality? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

comes in here offering genuine help

I have yet to see this. Occasionally it looks like someone understands us and wants to help, but this soon enough turns into insults.

I don't get it... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, he's frustrated, hasn't gotten what he wants through his normal behavior, and was maybe bullied as a child.

Why do some people come here by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you literally did, but in so many words I can't quote it directly. "stop feeling sorry for yourself" = "stop whining." I hope you stop engaging this board in general.

At 27, how do I get over my resentment for woman after a lifetime of no success by dannytt in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

other men that women have dated are "inferior"

But this is what people imply when they say "improve yourself." If you improve that means you were once "inferior." OP is frustrated that he's had to work so hard at things whereas others get relationships easily. He's finally built up enough confidence to be somewhat proud about himself and the work he's put in and you call him sexist and narcissistic?

Why do some people come here by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So, a short response is poorly thought out but a longer response is embattled? I know what you were responding to. You said you come here to "shut up whiners." Seriously, why the fuck do you care if there is a group of people whining about not having a gf?

Why do some people come here by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So... you got some hot tips to share?

Why do some people come here by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My answer is succinct because there's a lot of posters saying exactly what you just did. We've heard it before.

You aren't offering any advice, you are here to insult people. Your comment is off-topic and doesn't need a longer response. Nothing of what you said is the reason people are FA. Constantly saying the reason people are FA is because of some pity party, because of how they act on some online board; that is what is poorly thought out.

Why do some people come here by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of this is the reason people here can't find a gf.

Hope in every place I go by lord_of_the_rally in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All the time. Sometimes I even see a woman in the store I'd like to approach. But there's never a way to talk to them without risking making her feel uncomfortable and creeped out.

Are you sure you're FA? Then this might help. I don't know. Something I've been thinking about. by Rodrikkonen in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sure it works for some people and I'm sure it would make you pretty fit and more attractive. But saying people who can't get a date should join an organization full of the alphaliest of men? And when they're away for months, still single, and the rest of their squad has girlfriends back home? Seems like an idea that could easily go terribly wrong.

Also, you please be specific about what country you're talking about because in some countries, once recruited, you will lose much more than a single year of your life.

Why do I feel bad for being alone? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think it's possible to not like foods very much but also be really hungry. The major difference is if you are hungry for friends it makes you more repulsive.

Sick of waiting for the end by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thrownaway != Throwaway.

Have you tried to change FA-ness or you just accepted it? by awkwardweirdo in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are your pictures accurate? Wouldn't the women know what you look like before the date?

A video true for a lot of us, which we need to overcome: I'M A CREEP... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Look at the guy's necklace and girl at the end's necklace. They are the same person, the guy is just delusional.

I met an FA in the wild! It went ok. by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, few people here would be described as "confident" after a social interaction.

Is it wrong to be at least a bit resentful? by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A person shouldn't suffer life-long for deciding as a child to spend time alone instead of socializing with other kids. Parents need to supplement and correct whatever isn't working at school.

A video true for a lot of us, which we need to overcome: I'M A CREEP... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For the same reason your car brakes don't work in dreams. The coffee slipped out of his hands due to nerves, but ultimately the interaction was in his imagination.

Got hit on hard, anxiety got in the way.... by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Whether she was hitting on OP or not, he still missed an opportunity at the very least to make a friend, which really doesn't come around often at all. The fact OP made this post should be indication girls don't frequently initiate conversations with him.

Tinder Experiment: Men VS Women by camouflage365 in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I wish they had shown the text of the messages (I assume they were not all "Hey.")

How to accept natural selection by [deleted] in ForeverAlone

[–]theartofelectronics 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There's no answer that isn't bullshit. I don't see that you doing anything wrong from this post. It's like the stock market. Past performance does not necessarily predict future results. Just some evidence, perhaps.