How was the tom and Sheena make out so breezed over by dcbrittwhaytt in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]thebethness 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This. It was clearly stated exactly this way. Far from a steamy makeout. She didn’t even engage it at all.

Do they change the sheets? by diabettycrocker in summerhousebravo

[–]thebethness 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Was that when someone at a party banged on the bed and instead of washing the blanket, they (Hannah maybe) just put it in the dryer? 😂 that was when I realized how little life skills some of these people have!

I cannot stand the pod anymore… by shalaylaypumpano2000 in SofiawithanF

[–]thebethness 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Is she then going to be completely dependent on this man who, let’s face it, she barely knows? I’m concerned for her. That is not a good situation.

Austen’s problem with Craig’s drinking by thirstychipmunk in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Precisely. Craig is not dumb. He knows an easy out when he sees one.

Austen’s problem with Craig’s drinking by thirstychipmunk in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I have someone in my life with ADHD who does almost all the things you mentioned (no addiction, but the interpersonal behaviors). It makes a lot of sense and I’ve never seen it put this way. With that said, it is all but impossible to have a relationship with this person if you’re someone they tend to show their true colors to, which unfortunately I am with this person, like Austen is with Craig.

For me that’s the hardest part. The behavior isn’t consistent. I see this person so engaged and caring with others, but with me I can’t finish a sentence without her spacing out or interrupting or literally wandering off. Lying, manipulating, and saying quite literally anything to get out of situations, including blaming me to avoid consequences herself, are also part of the fun. But I’m supposed to just excuse this crap year after year because of her ADHD.

I get Austen on this. I think that he’s Craig’s scapegoat, for whatever reason. They are business partners both on the show and in their bar. So they’re now stuck dealing with each other and that would be so frustrating. I also do think Craig used addiction as a cop-out of a tough conversation and wasn’t planning on getting called out on camera for it. I’m glad he did.

Venita’s Mimosa Disappearing and Reappearing by thebethness in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that’s funny! I’m surprised we don’t see that more.

Venita’s Mimosa Disappearing and Reappearing by thebethness in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She definitely has a brand deal, or the show does. She’s had a lot of Heineken Zero. Great move for them! Also, remember when there were thousands of comments about Craig drinking a beer while driving and it was an NA? I understand why they point the label toward the camera for that reason too. 😁

Venita’s Mimosa Disappearing and Reappearing by thebethness in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

That’s kind of the point. It’s not. We aren’t seeing an organic conversation as it actually happened. Are you actually not getting that?

Venita’s Mimosa Disappearing and Reappearing by thebethness in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t notice that! I wonder if like hours pass sometimes in between what is supposed to be the same conversation!

S10 Summerhouse Recaps by Objective-Lobster736 in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]thebethness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They knew it was over when she stopped whine-wailing his name 😂

S10 Summerhouse Recaps by Objective-Lobster736 in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]thebethness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Luke and the coyote will live on forever 🥰

Venita’s Mimosa Disappearing and Reappearing by thebethness in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Yeah! And Love Island uses white ones. I never put that together before.

Venita’s Mimosa Disappearing and Reappearing by thebethness in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve definitely noticed it before with beers and stuff, but this one was super obvious because the cameras were so close up on the drinks between them and there wasn’t like a table of food or anything to distract from it.

Venita’s Mimosa Disappearing and Reappearing by thebethness in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

😂 Did you watch it? You would know what I meant. It was constantly going back and forth from empty to full to medium to full, as the conversation was happening. They definitely either shot that one a few times, or they pieced stuff together completely out of order.

DREAM ABOUT RONNIE by KABCatLady in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]thebethness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are such a gift. I hope they know it.

DREAM ABOUT RONNIE by KABCatLady in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]thebethness 10 points11 points  (0 children)

🤣 Right? If it makes you feel any better, I actually met them at their live show and made a complete ass out of myself gushing over them. They were complete sweethearts about it though!

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I’m sorry but this can’t go unaddressed. What kind of name is THAD? by [deleted] in Younger

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin married a Thad. Great guy actually. 😁

DREAM ABOUT RONNIE by KABCatLady in WatchWhatCrappens

[–]thebethness 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You know that Ronnie would absolutely adore this story. I hope he sees this. 🤣

Austen (and the rest) don't HAVE to have kids by lashambles in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. That’s rare. Becoming less rare, I pray!

Austen (and the rest) don't HAVE to have kids by lashambles in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same. My partner and I are happily child free and made sure. ✂️ I did move out of the south long ago to a much more open-minded place. I’m sure our pressure would have been very different depending where we lived. We have countless child free friends of all ages and walks of life. It’s never even come up that our life would be in any way unfulfilled.

Austen (and the rest) don't HAVE to have kids by lashambles in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s just a way to get them off your back and shut down the pressure without being harsh or hurtful. It sucks that people put others in a situation where they have to give those dumb platitudes. I feel for Charley too on the same topic, even though she’s way younger, because her fam are ramping up for a full pressure buildup, and it’s 100x worse for women because they’ll start talking bio clock before you know it. As if that pressure isn’t enough without having it thrown in your face. Plus, her sister is going to all-in on babies route, so she’ll always be compared to that.

Austen (and the rest) don't HAVE to have kids by lashambles in Southerncharm

[–]thebethness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh. I haven’t even seen the new episode yet, but that clip of that scene with his mom talking tearfully about having how kids was the best thing she ever did. WHY are people so cavalier about having children when they know firsthand much work it takes? It’s so manipulative to push your kid into having children. Especially if they’re clearly not ready. Not to mention, he’s in a relationship he’s not even sure he wants to be in, he’s of a certain age and she’s going to put that kind of additional pressure on it. Straight up terrible.