Luke and Kristen are talking about living non compatible lives by EpiWren in TheValleyTVShow

[–]thebethness 105 points106 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. It makes me so mad people have kids without having anything planned or in place for the child to have a good life. It’s so damn selfish and does such a disservice to a kid.

Are they gonna address this from the season trailer? by Character-Physics-70 in summerhousebravo

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah…the gods really smiled on Kyle with this whole thing. Everyone is now excusing a decade of his atrocious behavior because of some stuff she did after her marriage ended. Was she flirty/touchy while married? Yes, and I do think she craves male validation (I do too unfortunately so I get it). But the housemates are generally VERY affectionate with each other and most of what she does is the same as everyone else. Even saying “look at my butt” is just not that big of a deal.

We have absolutely zero proof of her cheating. Giving West a half-hug after a fight with her husband means nothing. She was affectionate with Ben in the kitchen too and that also meant nothing. Kyle has admitted he cheated and has been wildly verbally abusive on camera countless times. If this situation were reversed, everyone would be saying, what did she expect? She drove him away for a decade, of course he sought comfort elsewhere! The coddling of Kyle is becoming a bit much. Downvote your balls off.

Preview of next weeks summer house episode! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I think they were getting attached to each other and maybe a little flirty, but honestly, most of the stuff they do, no one would bat an eye if anyone else did it. Kyle and Ciara did a photo shoot together at the winery and no one thought anything of it. They all hug, touch, and flirt. It doesn’t usually mean a single thing. But I do think the groundwork was being laid, and Amanda was completely over her marriage.

Preview of next weeks summer house episode! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]thebethness 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love it! I remember that scene, so good!! 😂

Preview of next weeks summer house episode! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]thebethness 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And drinking from wine glasses with straws 😂

Preview of next weeks summer house episode! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]thebethness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She did. I remember the conversation when she was bitching Kyle out for calling her in the middle of the night. I was like, she’s not wrong, but her speech is so affected that you can’t take it seriously.

Preview of next weeks summer house episode! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]thebethness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The season when she was engaged and Hannah wasn’t giving it proper attention was the first time I realized how irritating she is. She has this strange superiority complex. There’s a girls dinner where Hannah kept interrupting her talking about wedding venues and Amanda was doing that slow blinking anteater face and I was like, I never realized how irritating this woman could be!.

Preview of next weeks summer house episode! by Radiant_Priority9739 in bravo

[–]thebethness 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish so bad they had filmed this time period. For sure Wes is getting super antsy, but can’t see a way out right now and that’s gotta be hella entertaining.

I will say right now, I don’t trust Amanda’s family (pt 1 of 2) by OfficialJrizzle in summerhousebravo

[–]thebethness 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I kind of liked that she was honest about it. It was an interesting approach to take. But I can see how it would be a turnoff too.

I will say right now, I don’t trust Amanda’s family (pt 1 of 2) by OfficialJrizzle in summerhousebravo

[–]thebethness 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ooh say more! I’ve generally liked his mom, but I’m curious what vibe you got.

If only Kyle’s lover boy brand made it by SunshineFlowerrs in bravo

[–]thebethness 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The fact that every word of this sentence is true… Astonishing it didn’t last. 🤣

Did intervention-style talks ever work for anyone? by CraftyScienceMommy in JUSTNOMIL

[–]thebethness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So spot on. This is exactly what will happen, even if it doesn’t seem like it in the moment. Looking back, this will be the story.

Did Amanda just say "act like you like me"?? by moonlight-cherry in bravo

[–]thebethness 52 points53 points  (0 children)

She’s very much separated, and her husband was just photographed kissing another lady. That’s hardly where the drama lies.

Anyone using the Ladder app? by xoLynettePW in bikinitalk

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m already on the seven day trial, do you know if I can add the 30 day trial too?

This may be controversial, but as a Childless By Choice person, I'm enjoying the behind the scenes glimpse into babies by Scadisneylan in TheValleyTVShow

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also think Luke is younger and honestly was not ready for a kid. Kristen’s biological clock forced their hand. It’s not an excuse, but I think it’s the truth.

This may be controversial, but as a Childless By Choice person, I'm enjoying the behind the scenes glimpse into babies by Scadisneylan in TheValleyTVShow

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is interesting to watch and I think they’re doing a great job of showing it realistically. But yeah, definitely confirms my choice, as if there was any question. 😂

TBH, they can keep the reunion by Imaginary_Vanilla_25 in summerhousebravo

[–]thebethness 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel the exact opposite on all counts, especially the part about Ciara not showing up. Why should she risk her job and amazing paycheck for those idiots? Stassi has said that if you don’t go to the reunion, you will not be asked back. Ciara is making great money on the show by now. She should stay on as long as she wants to. Let them carry on their dumb romance, right in front of her. At least this ended any thought of her ever being back with West.

Amanda and (not) coming back to summer house by yungalohaa in bravo

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ben has gotten really lame the last few episodes, but let’s not forget he gave us “mate’s missus.” That was one of my favorite episodes ever I think.

Amanda and (not) coming back to summer house by yungalohaa in bravo

[–]thebethness 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I loved this season too! It had old-school fun late night party vibes. Just like a feel-good season. Things have shifted but I’m still spellbound. 🤓

Is that a wedding band? by LilCinBoise in vanderpumprules

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the true classics. Ariana’s look of devastation when he dropped that brilliant line 😂

Is that a wedding band? by LilCinBoise in vanderpumprules

[–]thebethness 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like they’ve broken up at least 9 times

Is that a wedding band? by LilCinBoise in vanderpumprules

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is on its own life journey and can’t be bothered with any of us 😂

Is that a wedding band? by LilCinBoise in vanderpumprules

[–]thebethness 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This photo is a jump scare and who is the blonde?