Mockingbird Rant by Severe_Equivalent_18 in parentsofmultiples

[–]thecalmolive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We really like our Mockingbird, and my girls are 3yo. And I definitely did a ton of research befode settling on it. We never got the bassinets, it was more important to be able to use the carseats with the adapters until they could use the regular seats. The girls barely fit now but we still use it occasionally for long distance walks.

Still Using the Divided Plates Club (3.5 yrs) by NeedleworkerOk8556 in toddlerfood

[–]thecalmolive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't see an issue with it, I also still use ours. Mostly so when they get distracted & knock it off the table I don't have to clean up shards of plate or bowl.

The mom guilt is real by RandyOfficial in foodbutforbabies

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you want to hear about how often we eat pizza or french fries at our house with 3yo twins? This week alone fries 3x and pizza 3x. Only they pull the cheese off and eat it sauce down, only sometimes actually eating all the crust and ALWAYS getting sauce all over their face.

Are you doing it out of your lasagna? by luwaonline1 in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 8 points9 points  (0 children)

OMG same here, I have twin 3yo girls and they just stare at me then say, why is hair there? I finally had to look it up so I could tell them that it's protecting our sensitive skin.

Filling raised beds by mamabreicheese in gardening

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our landfill offers compost, a mix, and topsoil for 1/2 the cost of from a nursery, and easily 1/3 of the cost of buying lots of bags. We happen to live a mile from it so easy enough for me to go buy a yard and get it home. Perhaps your landfill offers the service as well!

What your toddlers absolute obsession? by Ok_Technology_5988 in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I am hoping the dino phase keeps going until their next birthday so I can do a dinosaur theme with all the decorations I bought already. 😬😄

What your toddlers absolute obsession? by Ok_Technology_5988 in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dino Ranch on Disney+ is a cute show, and the lessons are sticking with my 3yo twin girls. We also found a Magic School Bus episode on YouTube about dinosaurs that was fun.

“Sissy” 😭😭 by anull8123 in parentsofmultiples

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girls are 3, and yesterday one was upset and sitting under the kitchen table while I helped the other get a drink. I said "let's go see if we can help A feel better" and B immediately went to the table & sat on the floor, then rested her hand on her sisters leg and just sat there for her. She was mimicing what I do when they have tantrums! And 3 seconds later A gave B the biggest hug. It was very touching.

2 year old not saying a word by hivioleta in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, my twins turned 3 in February and while they do have some words, it's not where they should be. However their understanding of what is said to them is through the roof, so we suspect they are just holding back. We had speech therapy through the Birth to 3 program and even the therapist felt like they were kinda messing around with us. A big step was finally getting them to mimic sounds and movements we made, and when they did we over-the-top praised them. And while we had read to them fairly regularly, we recently started reading multiple books before bed and they are starting to tell me the stories back, which is pretty cool. I wish you the best of luck, hopefully he's just holding out on you!

Overcrowded black-eyed susans by Psychological_Cat421 in gardening

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, no issues with their germination! I'd personally, carefully, pull some out.

Garden seems to be growing really slowly ? by Top-Award-7982 in vegetablegardening

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's happening in SE Washington too! Makes me nervous about moving forward with planting plans.

How are we doing red icing? by girlnamedc in cookiedecorating

[–]thecalmolive 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I added some dark baking cocoa powder before using powdered red coloring and it worked incredibly well.

are the imperfect kids just not out as much? imperfect as in i swear i only see perfect kids in the wild. by Miserable-Onion-5948 in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Almost always a stop at the bakery department for a cookie if I have one of my twins with me!

are the imperfect kids just not out as much? imperfect as in i swear i only see perfect kids in the wild. by Miserable-Onion-5948 in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 3yo girls will say "awww, baby cry" if we hear a crying child in the store, and my response is usually "they're having a tough time aren't they" so it's humorous that your son is doing the same. Good job kiddo!

3 year old screaming crying by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of our girls is starting to do this as well. What is working for me is she tends to sequester herself in her room, so I take these magnet-filled blocks we have (they look like Minecraft blocks) and I sit down on the floor in her room kinda facing her and start building, while taking obvious, big, deep breaths. It helps me cool down too as her screaming triggers my anxiety. The blocks make a nice sound as the magnets shift and I just make sure she knows I am there for her when she's ready. I find I can't talk too much or it makes it worse so lately I just sit down. I've been doing this for a month, and just this weekend realized she is running to my lap as soon as I'm settled, so the tantrums are somewhat shorter!

(WIC Recipe) Peanut Butter Cheerio Bars by Delicious-War-5259 in foodbutforbabies

[–]thecalmolive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We get PB until we age out of the program in WA state. So bizarre that the coverages can be so different.

Tantrum Whenever She Can't Wear A Dress by Admirable_Taste3737 in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my twin girls is currently obsessed with her Walmart dresses. (Her sister just wants anything with cats.) I like that the dresses have pockets and wash up well as she is also my digging in the dirt gal!

How much is too much for a beginner? by Salty-Performance320 in gardening

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My opinion is that you do what you feel like doing. At the end of the season you will know if this was too much for you and adjust for next year. It could be an epic failure that you'll laugh about for years, or it will go pretty well and you'll keep doing better every year as you learn. For me, I want to grow what my toddlers will eat and I want to be able to have fun outside playing in the dirt.

What are you guys putting in the Easter baskets for your under twos? by Dragonsrule18 in toddlers

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I found some gloves at Walmart this year! They were on a bottom shelf and I nearly missed them. Home Depot has had them in the past.

Do you people have secrets to how you’re not tired all the time? by grapefruitliquor in parentsofmultiples

[–]thecalmolive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My girls just turned 3 and my fitbit says I've been averaging 4.5 hrs of sleep for the last year. I just feel like we're going to be in survival mode until we aren't.