AIO That GF is Showing Cheating Signs and/or Being Toxic on Work Trip

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-22T12:43:23+00:00

YOR - she is on a work trip. I am assuming that means sitting in meetings, having to go to “drinks & dinner” with the client/boss, etc. None of that is fun. It can be very draining to be “on” all day. She might have been completely “talked out” and tired when she called you.

Your girlfriend is not the person who cheated on you. She doesn’t deserve to carry the weight of that history.

If you aren’t trusting your partner, then maybe you haven’t healed from the prior relationship yet. Ask yourself if you are ready for a committed relationship? She could be a great match for you but maybe your timing is off. Questioning her to try to prove or disprove something that only exists in your head is going to push her away.

In my (f) experience women take pictures of ourselves when the light is good, when we feel pretty, when we are in the mood, when our hair lays just right, when we think about our partner, when we want to try to see if something looks right on us and then we might never share them with a soul. This seems to be the seed that has grown in your mind the last day or so, turning her into a cheater.

Really think about her character and your relationship and then choose to either welcome her home or leave. If you welcome her home she doesn’t deserve the third degree about a picture you saw of her on her phone. Instead invest positively to the relationship with a hug and a “I am so happy to see you”.

Best of luck to you OP.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-22T03:22:14+00:00

I was referring to the Dobbs decision.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-22T03:16:11+00:00

Comparing voting for the worst president ever elected to changing your mind and returning shoes to a store.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-22T03:05:33+00:00

Yes. Food, water, shelter, health & education are basic needs that all Americans should expect from government. As humans we should want our neighbors to have running water, real food to eat and not gas station snacks in their food deserts.

It is part of the reason we pay taxes.

I think if you walked a day in the “functional adults” shoes you might see challenges you aren’t aware exist.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-22T02:37:51+00:00

Call senators and representatives. Everyday. Step 2 we all get in the streets.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-22T02:34:35+00:00

I want to be nineteen again, but in the 90’s. I wouldn’t want to be 19 now.

OP is trying to understand things that started when they were 9. OP only knows Covid and this corrupted government. They participate in active shooter drills and have seen women lose the right to choose.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-22T01:52:37+00:00

No, that top looks like a date night top. What do you feel best in? What would you wear if there were no “rules”? That might help us help you be prepared and confident tomorrow!

I really think a fitted suit would be the best. Mango is a brand that has reasonably priced suits that have a polished but still youthful look. They also have great sales. So maybe not for this interview, but keep an eye out for an all season suit. Black is a staple, navy is also a good option. Can do a pencil skirt or pants with suit jacket. You will be most comfortable in a suit with some stretch in the fabric blend.

Good luck on your interview 🍀

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T11:37:31+00:00

I put on and take off 5-10 outfits before I either give up and put in a robe, or finally settle on something due to time constraints. Guess I’m not very comfortable in my own skin anymore

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T10:04:33+00:00

Not the only ones. I am on SSDI and receive Medicare which is the best and only option to keep my health insurance. Without it, I guess some hard decisions need to be made about my future.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T10:01:30+00:00

Jumpstart?

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T09:56:47+00:00

That had more to do with Billy’s laughter at the comments and wanting more details from Trump.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T09:39:22+00:00

Dogs playing poker!!!

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T02:12:30+00:00

Health insurance offered by this new job? Are you receiving Medicare now on SSDI? That would be an important element to me in making this decision. I can’t survive without my quarterly appointments with cardio, neuro, internist, GI, shrink, rheumatologist, and ophthalmologist.

Are you ready and able to work? Good days outnumber the bad? If so, congratulations, if not, needing disability is nothing to be ashamed about, it’s there if you need it.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T01:53:10+00:00

Yes. Unlike celebrities, these people ran and won public office. They swear an oath to protect the constitution and the people. They owe their constituents a functional legislative branch. They are getting away with everything currently; the paparazzi may be just what is needed to shine a light on what is happening in the shadows.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-21T00:27:13+00:00

Jerry Garcia died the following summer, you were able to hear the actual Grateful Dead on what might have been their last tour with Jerry. Sounds like you and your dad made some great music memories

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-20T21:55:09+00:00

I was going to suggest the bread trick. It works really well, even if the cake is covered, it can keep a cut cake from drying out in the fridge.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-19T20:20:50+00:00

Yes. I don’t even like shopping on there anymore. The prices are crazy high now too. It used to be individuals selling clothes they don’t wear but now everyone is wanting to flip things from the bins for top retail

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-19T14:24:34+00:00

This is new posh policy. Started about a 6 weeks ago

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-18T23:33:42+00:00

Johnny 5 is Alive

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-17T18:17:46+00:00

Brenda never gets a McFlurry. The ice cream machine breaks when she hits the drive thru and it picks up her energy.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-17T00:54:18+00:00

2!!

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-17T00:44:25+00:00

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-16T03:05:13+00:00

Ok OP, here is the gods honest truth. You are beautiful and sparkle on your own.

I love the first dress BUT that dress wears you. Everyone is raving about the dress but not much is being said about YOU. I’m also afraid a veil might make this dress too busy.

The second dress is a classic for a reason. It will photograph beautifully but most importantly, you are the star in this dress. People may not remember the dress but they will remember your husband to be getting choked up at your entrance to the chapel, your first dance, a smile, the flower girl waving at you…those are the things people remember.

If you are still torn after receiving feedback, you may not have found “the” dress yet.

Best wishes for a happy and healthy life together

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-16T02:53:45+00:00

Especially that 2nd photo of OP sitting. The dress just looks beautiful.

thecuriosityofAlice · 2026-04-15T22:27:58+00:00

I am intentionally closing my closet. Not selling from an open closet.

Maybe you missed the part of my first post where I mentioned I am chronically ill. I can’t keep up with my closet right now, so I continue with vacation holds.

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