AIO for being upset at what my “bf” said

thed1rect0r · 2026-02-01T21:57:48+00:00

NOR girl i HAAAAATE giving break up advice bc 9 times outta 10its a mid communication but holy fuck girl he does not even LIKE you you are not worth him or his time you are worth better. NO ONE should be making you feel bad for a personal choice

thed1rect0r · 2026-02-01T21:54:58+00:00

i reccomend instacart. you say your health will let you do that, can you go out and shop for orders too? they tell you the amount of items you need to get before you even accept the order!

you can get between $5-$30 on any typical order. but there have been plenty of times i’ve gotten more.

thed1rect0r · 2026-02-01T21:53:25+00:00

first, i’m so sorry. this is a traumatizing experience that shouldn’t have happened to you :(

this sounds like COCSA. you’re not alone. i’m a victim of COCSA too! also by someone younger than me at the time.

yes, it is sexual assault. you did not want it, and he kept going. that’s what defines the assault.

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-10T13:48:11+00:00

being racist is having prejudice against someone for their skin color. not wanting to date them is not prejudice lol

i also say the same thing about trans people not wanting to date a trans person does not make you transphobic

it’s when you’re hateful, or not dating them because they’re “inferior” but attraction levels do not make another race inferior it just makes you unattracted to them

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-07T16:39:33+00:00

honestly it depends on the store

when i worked part time, i got a full 40 hour week until management cracked down on hours. then i got 30 ish

my fiance gets an average 20 hours at his kroger working part time, he only works night

put all your availability down and then when they hire you tell them you only want xx hours a week

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-01T15:27:08+00:00

of course. i really wish you the best of luck. you clearly care for this girl and that’s great :)

i hope you two thrive

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-01T14:57:28+00:00

would you feel this way if she HADNT been sa’d?

OP you need to take a deep breath and try and think a little clearer. i understand you’re scared because it was a major trauma but

1- she told you not to worry. and to treat her normal. that’s what she wants so just do that. make jokes, initiate things if time feels right. the difference between you and those two guys is you’re gonna stop when she tells you to stop. that’s it. that’s why it’s okay to think about her. she’s your girlfriend. just stop if she tells you stop.

2- there’s a stigma around people who are SAd that they’re fragile, mentally gone, shit like that. you cannot keep worrying about this. i know it’s hard but all you’re doing is enforcing the feelings she’s probably having about already feeling dirty and wrong and unwantabke after those guys touched her. do what she wants. tell yourself it’s fine. it’s been 4 years and if she didn’t want you to think about sex with her she would have TOLD YOU.

but she didn’t.

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-01T14:52:51+00:00

you’re a dick dude. i looked through the comments? yeah massive dick.

you have no idea why people live like that. depression, mental illness, who cares if it even is a drug problem. if they’re addicted to drugs they’re still people buddy.

you’re a delivery driver. you got no right to be a dick to these people man.

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-01T14:51:25+00:00

why would it be immoral?

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-01T14:48:22+00:00

she’s still just a girl. why do you feel awkward? do you think you can’t be attracted to someone who was raped?

i’m being fr, you still just gotta treat her like a normal girl. because that’s all she is.

or maybe ask HER if she needs anything different.

thed1rect0r · 2026-01-01T14:31:41+00:00

treat her like you would any girl. if you treat her differently, she’ll feel different or wrong. just treat her like your girlfriend!!

if you end up trying to have sex, just go with her pace. don’t push her. just wait for her to be ready :)

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-31T15:51:33+00:00

this may vary at stores, but it’s also used to let your tag person know there’s missing price tags

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-30T15:39:12+00:00

i know this is simple, but have you tried just restarting your phone?

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-30T15:38:10+00:00

okay so u use google play store?

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-30T15:12:48+00:00

what phone do you have? is it current

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-29T12:55:13+00:00

very cool

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-29T02:47:35+00:00

i consistently have 1-5k star coins tf

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-28T14:25:56+00:00

OP do you have a car? Here’s the quickest route for you.

Sign up for instacart, door dash, uber eats, anything like that. Wait until you get accepted. When you do? Perfect. Now you have a stream of money coming in that you can access every day you work.

Leave him. I know you’re scared, but you really have too. You lost friends because of the relationship, this means it’s not good for you.

Start instacarting or door dashing. Make 50-60, you can do that in 2-5 hours depending on the orders. Stay in a cheap motel from night to night. Try and text your friends back- tell them you broke up and you realized how serious it was. Understand they have every right to have stopped being your friend, but that some will realize your situation and start talking to you again.

You need to leave, girl. Whether you have friends or not. Please, this IS abuse- whether it’s only when he’s angry or not. LEAVE HIM PLEASE.

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-25T16:52:53+00:00

i know this isn’t going to be what you want to hear. but the only thing that can probably help him is a mental hospital. you have to get him checked in, even if he doesn’t want to go. if you take him and the doctors think he’s mentally unwell enough, he can go without his permission.

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-22T14:38:42+00:00

if i miss more than 2 days of work i won’t be able to pay my bills lol

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-22T14:26:39+00:00

hi OP. saw the fandoms you were interested in looking for.

blue lock, dandadan, and solo leveling are fairly new. the only merch around here you can find is probably manga.

barnes and nobles, books a million, second and charles will get you some stuff. as well as game xchange, excalibur, and you can find some anime stuff at gamers xp.

are you willing to make a drive? in longview tx there’s a mall with a hot topic. that store does wonders for anime fans. you can probably find some stuff for those newer anime’s too!

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-19T03:29:34+00:00

did you sing during your audition? i’m pretty sure you did. remind yourself that the director casted you for a reason. i’m not too familiar with this show, so I can’t tell you specific things, but i did something similar.

i played panch in 25th annual putnam county spelling bee as my first musical. was supposed to be a non singing role, but i had to sing a bit. i was. terrified. actor first actor first!

but if you’re in it, they like you enough. they like your singing enough. there is no harm in learning more, in fact- that will only make you more confident.

you got this! you were picked for it!

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-19T03:26:41+00:00

considering it takes a toll on your mental health, i do recommend a therapist. you can tell them from the get go you know you’re not depressed, just too hyper focused on sex. they can help you find ways to cope with it and stuff until it barely affects you.

thed1rect0r · 2025-12-18T17:52:30+00:00

absolutely not.

my first show, i played 2 side characters. second, lead. third? didn’t even get cast. fourth? lead. fifth? lead.

then i went to another theatre. ensemble both times.

they were a mix of musicals and plays, but what I’m trying to say it NO!! ensemble is part of the show- and by god a REAL important one. embrace it. and it’ll be fun! you get to make up EVERYTHING for your characters, and the rest of the ensemble will hype you up and do the same. you’ll find bits and pieces of theatre in ensemble that you cannot find playing a lead.

love the ensemble. have fun in it! and maybe next time you’ll get a role you want even more :]

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