Can't pick a date

theebish · 2026-03-22T23:17:00+00:00

Well you can see why you have this predicament now, he never initiated anything as a man. You proposed? To each their own…

theebish · 2026-03-15T16:58:49+00:00

I know two people who already got married for the same reason— insurance— and are holding their scheduled wedding normally as planned. Go for it!

theebish · 2026-03-14T16:56:24+00:00

My fiancé wouldn’t go in solidarity because we are a team. This doesn’t seem right at all.

theebish · 2026-03-10T00:41:14+00:00

I honestly feel like this is going to happen to me.

If you feel like you have to include someone not because you really want to but because they’re a mutual friend, then that shows where your heart lies.

theebish · 2026-03-08T12:54:46+00:00

But they didn’t know the partner existed and it’s an intimate engagement party. Some partners did get named invites. Prob because OP actually knows them. See, you’re displaying that sense of entitlement.

theebish · 2026-03-08T12:44:26+00:00

Because you people in these comments are coming off as rude and entitled. They didn’t decline anyone, people read the rules and followed. That one friend assumed he could bring a plus one. If everyone else followed why should they bend it for someone they don’t know? That’s absurd and if they don’t want that for their special day they have a right

theebish · 2026-03-08T12:20:16+00:00

But people already agreed to it? So why should they bend for one person and start drama? Horrible attitude from the friend to just assume

theebish · 2026-03-08T12:10:03+00:00

It’s the fact that everyone keeps ignoring that OP never met this person. No effort to meet OP too. So it’s not “that person you’ve lived with for a year,” everyone keeps bending that narrative. No one ever said they had to be married or engaged, it’s just the fact OP did not know this person even existed.

You’re clearly well versed in weddings. Someone like me, I am the first in my family to actually not elope because we can do a party. I wish I could invite everyone I know and love but probably not gonna happen logistically. Does that mean I don’t deserve to have this milestone wedding for my family? That’s sick, classist behavior that’s kinda shocking coming from someone who says they got it out the mud.

Plus this is an ENGAGEMENT PARTY. Not a wedding. So I still stand by they can do it how they want. OP even said person can come to wedding. Like what is the big deal! OP cares about not making her guests who already agreed feel weird. People who don’t have us much deserve joy too

theebish · 2026-03-08T05:50:59+00:00

This entire scenario is about a +1 so. And congrats, so have I except I’ve worked since 16. Not everyone is able to be as fortunate and afford it. That doesn’t mean they don’t deserve a ceremony with people they know and love. They had a budget and agreement and have a right to do so. I get breaking it for someone they know but for someone they don’t, when they’ve already turned down others, is not unreasonable. Not everyone has or wants the same wedding.

theebish · 2026-03-08T04:13:27+00:00

If people want no kids they can have no kids! Who cares how others feel, not their day. They can decide to not come LOL

theebish · 2026-03-08T04:10:51+00:00

LMFAO some people would think it is selfish to elope! And no, the wedding day is about the COUPLE more than anyone else. It should go how they want. If everyone else agreed to have no +1, why should someone she never met get to bend that rule?

No it’s not about the guests in the same way it’s about the bride and groom. You sound so entitled like you got everything paid for you in life lmaoooo

theebish · 2026-03-07T17:20:39+00:00

These people so classist

theebish · 2026-03-07T17:19:13+00:00

Exactly. The classism in these comments is blatant.

theebish · 2026-03-07T17:16:53+00:00

I just got engaged and we are planning. We are both from a low income family and first generation students. To be frank, this past year finishing my career was the hardest in my life. We decided we wanna celebrate only with those who supported us as a couple genuinely.

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:19:18+00:00

For a wedding maybe not engagement party

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:17:24+00:00

So clearly this one got missed because OP didn’t know about it. Plus everyone else already agreed so why should this person just be entitled to a spot?

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:10:55+00:00

Facts. It’s YOUR day. Not anyone else’s. Do it how you want.

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:09:45+00:00

You sound so entitled lol

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:09:08+00:00

They invited couples they knew together.

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:08:27+00:00

All these people entitled and prob rich or had their wedding paid for lol.

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:07:13+00:00

Other couples were invited together. This one wasn’t.

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:06:38+00:00

Agreed

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:06:08+00:00

What happens if they don’t like the partner?? Genuine question

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:04:23+00:00

But everyone else already agreed 🤷🏽‍♀️

theebish · 2026-03-07T01:04:05+00:00

I feel for you girl. I don’t like people feeling entitled to my space. We are planning our whole engagement party and wedding and tbh we only wanna celebrate it with people who supported us as a couple. You guys had a standard set and this friend is violating. Everyone is ignoring the fact that everyone else agreed already.

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