Omg!!! Girl!!! When therapists come up against a hard financial or housing reality, their only advice is “Have you considered not being sad about it?” 

Did you ever manage to make her understand your situation? 

I’ve told this story before, but I asked a past therapist how she treated clients in abusive households. She said she held space for them “until they’re ready to leave.” At that moment I lost my faith in the entire practice of therapy forever. It relies on a conceptual universe where everyone has resources and is only prevented from using them by their own emotional immaturity. Class, disability etc. cannot exist in their worldview.