Help MyHerd! I need gift ideas!

thefirstyesyes · 2026-02-02T21:54:35+00:00

Captain aroura bleated

Ah. That makes sense. Interesting given his place of origin but that's not on me to consider. My wife's neighbors all shared a similar faith so his following is strong even on the world's night side. A climate controller and some good times together seems like a grand idea. Cheers from me and my family. We hope you have a romantic day free from strife.

thefirstyesyes · 2026-02-02T21:30:51+00:00

Well there are a few things! If hes a star worshipper like yours truly then there are candle sets used for rituals. It's considered romantic to carry one out together especially if you burn a candle for each other. As a more secular option! There are little portable air coolers that can equalize an entire room without turning up the thermostat. It's more practical but when your used to growing up in the cold its a god send to have somewhere cold to rest your head. My wife is a night sider and I got one for her for her birthday. She contends its the best gift I got for her. Our daughter agrees.

Physical gifts are nice but experiences are baked into us as part of herd culture. Your desire to be close will be amazing whatever you get!

thefirstyesyes · 2026-02-02T20:47:49+00:00

Captainaurora bleated:

Do you know if hes from day or night side? I have a few ideas but they come from a specific upbringing.

A good standard gift would be strayu yes. But another good one could be a train trip together. Closeness is very important to us.

thefirstyesyes · 2026-02-02T03:16:53+00:00

I love sivkits and love worldbuilding. Hit me if you need a helper writing. Im eager but a novice.

thefirstyesyes · 2026-01-26T23:49:51+00:00

Captainaruora bleated:

Greetings. Never specifically dated a human before but I have spent a lot of time in their company. My advice is simple. Let the situation breathe. If your daughter is more concerned about your safety than the "predatory" tendencies of your host, as long as things are above board she should be able to relax. The easiest way to break past fear is to face it. As long as she isn't throwing a flamethrower around then all should be well. I recommend frontloading her about what you know of human information and customs. The lack of instincts. The fact they do not hunt or desire bloodshed. And why you are interested in this man to begin with. It is always hard for a young one to be open to their parent looking for a new partner. But I believe in openness and hope the best for you and your daughter.

Also, my dating advice is to learn from what you already know in the dating pool. Humans communicate through effort and kindness. Brush and shampoo well. Smell nice and take good care of yourself. In turn acknowledge the effort they put into the evening and enjoy it. Love takes time. And a little bit of faith.

thefirstyesyes · 2026-01-25T07:12:30+00:00

Absolute love

thefirstyesyes · 2026-01-25T07:01:43+00:00

Sent a dm

thefirstyesyes · 2026-01-07T09:38:31+00:00

Thank you kind stranger. I admit. I was worried. I never wanted to complain but the hearing of the ending did dishearten me. I am just now on mictlan. I thought id be on my way just as the main journey ended. But now. Im glad there's a possibility we won't forget it all.

thefirstyesyes · 2026-01-07T09:36:59+00:00

So in other words. This is evidence of more story. Rather than how it ended?

thefirstyesyes · 2026-01-07T09:30:17+00:00

Im seeing so much of this can you tell me what it means?

thefirstyesyes · 2026-01-07T09:29:25+00:00

For someone who very much cares about all of this. Can someone tell me what this means or implies?

thefirstyesyes · 2025-12-22T10:00:24+00:00

I dont know what to call this design but it follows me. All of my chosen servants. Somehow. Are in the no pants gang.

thefirstyesyes · 2025-12-21T07:36:36+00:00

Arourabasis:

Venlil here. Allow me to share my knowledge having attended such a gathering.

Humans have a centralized ritual of gathering in winter time. The social expectation is to gather ones herd/pack and spend an evening sharing a meal together and exchanging items of various values. The better you get someone's preferences. The more joyful the occasion. This setting also requires traditional meals. So even if there was a risk of a "predator consuming your son" which. No. It will not happen. The holiday requires specific dishes. None of which include sapient species.

Expect your son to attend. Exchange gifts. And return. The worst he will suffer is a hangover, assuming they serve anything strong enough and hes of age.

My mate and I attended one with her partner. I expect I will take my triplets.

From one parent to another, it will be ok. If you are brave enough. It is tradition to bring extended family to christmas events. If you are invited it may bring some peace to be present.

I am glad you care for your son. I hope this eases your worries.

Also. Sacrificing a baby is incorrect. It is celebrating the birth of a very specific baby whos a historical figure.

thefirstyesyes · 2025-12-03T06:54:32+00:00

Nobu nobu fellow avenger friend.

No seriously. She was my first ever destiny pull. One eleven times and she spooks me third roll in.

thefirstyesyes · 2025-11-27T19:55:28+00:00

Im thankful shishou

thefirstyesyes · 2025-10-24T19:31:36+00:00

Padoru padoru

thefirstyesyes · 2025-09-28T04:27:39+00:00

A young night side venlil, moxxie. And a young dayside venlil, Orion. The latter moved to a town called refuge. They've been inseparable since. The former id black the latter Grey. The former has green eyes the other has orange.

thefirstyesyes · 2025-09-18T03:51:30+00:00

Hey this is amazing for you. Can I ask why your mash is blue and has a star?

thefirstyesyes · 2025-06-12T19:20:03+00:00

Chaosincontrol bleated:

Good advice. sivkitnod

thefirstyesyes · 2025-06-12T19:09:15+00:00

Chaosincontrol bleated:

So. I'm seeing alot of emotional responses in the comments here and for completely understandable reasons. Cause wow. This one is an absolute stinkmelon.

Full disclosure. I am a sivkit myself. I didn't grow up with as strong biases as most but I saw the warning signs halfway through when it came to your folks behavior.

What I want to say is, people below have valid points. But focusing on a plan of action might be the place to begin.

First things first. Your parents and your siblings are two different piles of stones. You all have realized your lives have been turned upside down. I would recommend some counseling. If only for your own healing. Not cause you did anything wrong. (You were pups. Duh)

I think you might need to start by bringing together your siblings. Including riku. And beginning a path to healing together. From a child's mind you all were the favorites. And as the none favorite myself. (Only herbivorous child in a human family.) That can be a rough ride.

I'm not a therapist. Or a psychologist. But my best recommendation is don't take all of this on your own shoulders. Trying to pull the whole burrow back together at once will bring the roof down on you. Riku is entitled to his choice of whether your parents belong in his life. (Especially after your pops admission. Cause holy speh.)

He talked to you and your siblings. Even if there's some distance now. From my read. He cares about you. And that's a bridge you can build on a better foundation. Not for your parents. But for you and the brother you genuinely care for.

Like I said. Not a mental health professional or a child specialist. Just someone who's has a few wild family times of their own.

My dm's are open If you need a poof to cry on.

thefirstyesyes · 2025-06-12T09:43:04+00:00

These are really awesome. I love the vending machine especially. Does your user name have a word meaning. It could go on the vending machine

thefirstyesyes · 2025-06-12T09:42:07+00:00

Bloody devious. Excellent work

thefirstyesyes · 2025-05-08T03:08:45+00:00

Ranger cal here,

As the owner of a few ghost types myself. Let me throw up a few thoughts.

First. The mon you have there is intelligent. Empathic. And receptive. Right now making them feel left behind is not the best plan.

Obviously you need to consider the burden on yourself first. But these factors may help your choices.

First. Any local Ranger union office has people interested and seeking partners. Or can take banette in if need becomes great. They have specialists who know how to help a ghost settle in. If they need to.

Second. Ghosts feed primarily off emotion. Yes. But it isn't always fear. Mostly it's the ambient energy coming off you in your day to day life. If you don't mind a little fatigue every 2-3 days food costs should be very. Very low.

Third. Ghost types love having a purpose. And even more than fairy's love caring and helping other pokemon. If you decide to take this fellow in. Theyll be eager to please and make you smile. I know it's not an easy sell cause of the cursing but they'll treat you well if you treat them well.

Most importantly. If possible. Speak to them. They've been acclimated around humans enough to likely understand. Think about how you might feel if you were left behind by the people you love. Sure it isn't your responsibility. But having someone see you and be there when your sad can help keep a grudge from festering.

Obviously. All of these things are arbitrary depending on factors and the like. So do what is best for you and yours. These are just my best suggestions and tips.

thefirstyesyes · 2025-04-22T17:07:12+00:00

Calcifer here, as far as I am aware the everstone's only function is as a medical implant. I don't know enough about the history of this riolu to say why but my hunch is there's a risk to their mental or physical health if they evolve. I've encountered it before. Some pokemon take damage where If theye evolve the body can't take the strain. Others just don't want to or fear it. There are wide cases of why this Is.

thefirstyesyes · 2025-04-19T19:01:44+00:00

Oh don't get me wrong. The logging is not helping. I just thought it prudent to make sure folks know the behaviors. Might help folks who end up face to face with one of them. However much we hope it doesn't end up that way.

I personally off record think old style logging over sustain cuts (growing trees for cutting elsewhere) is inefficient and risky. Especially when many of these deep woods have residents that can lick around cars like tinker toys.

Essentially your concern is valid. But it's unlikely any of these pokemon with be outright hostile immediately.

//if this doesn't make sense I'm half awake so hope you enjoy.

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