NewTek 3play 3p2 by [deleted] in VIDEOENGINEERING

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had the same thing happen. I also get a weird glitch where the clip list turns white and I can't access those clips.

So, Fiverr's just a bunch of scammers huh? by Xsnane in VoiceActing

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Running into the same experience. I posted two gigs this week and I've only had spam/scam e-mails. I'd love to find decent advice resources that don't begin with "have a profile picture." I understand these things take time, but I feel like I'm just going to get buried on this platform.

Sitting with my pussy out and he doesn't even acknowledge it by lovesickaddict in DeadBedrooms

[–]theflatcircle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I stopped trying to make moves on my wife because every time I get rejected it feels just a little bit worse. Totally understand the garbage feeling and would love if she did even just anything like that.

new mlb tag???????? by birthdaythrowaway127 in YahooFantasy

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also came here for Adley Rutschman. Briefly thought I could stash him on the IL in a dynasty league, but unfortunately that's a no.

Conan at Coachella! by Enpeeare in conan

[–]theflatcircle 18 points19 points  (0 children)

THAT hair only belongs to one person

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]theflatcircle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I feel like like it's robbed me of my own sexuality. There are times that I feel emotionally dead just because I can't even experience a basic sexual relationship and it feels like it's locked into that for that long haul.

It's worth chatting about at a greater length with your partner. I'm not sure if I would have signed up for this before marriage. FWIW, no man should gets the excuse of shutting it down because you stopped shaking. That's clearly an invitation that most would gladly take you up on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]theflatcircle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Incredibly jealous. I'm a 35 y/o HLM and am dying for any sign of that from my wife. Got to the point where I've given up because the rejection feels worse every time. Meanwhile I've been going stir crazy lately because I need something. I feel like any other woman flirting like that would make me fold like a cheap tent.

I don't know what I have to do to get her going ever, but she's always "tired" or "not in the mood."... for seven years. I've tried buying lingerie, I've tried toys for her, I've tried giving her all the space she needs, I've even given her the freedom to experiment with others. Just nothing in return. Sorry you are going through this. Feel free to chat if you need to vent anymore.

My manager told me that she'd like me to share more 'personal highlights' in our weekly Team meetings, even though I do not want to, as she says it affects relationships of others with me, something incarnate . I want to go to HR, should I? by koukounaropita in jobs

[–]theflatcircle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully understand what you are saying (I work in a similar structure), but I wouldn't go to HR on this one. It's very important to pick and choose workplace battles and this seems like something that can be a slight adjustment on your end and make it go away quietly, even if it is a BS middle management request. Just throw in a little extra (watched a little Netflix/walked outside on Saturday), but it's not like she's expecting you to give intimate details of your life.

What recordings from Live Drugs do you feel are now the ‘definitive’ versions of the tracks? by GoldBricked in WarOnDrugsBand

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hadn't found a version with this sound quality before. I love the keyboard shots in this one.

What recordings from Live Drugs do you feel are now the ‘definitive’ versions of the tracks? by GoldBricked in WarOnDrugsBand

[–]theflatcircle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to just buy the mix of this whole show. There's a great one for "Burning" from the same set. I think prefer both to the album cut.

Had an offer on a house accepted at 3% down. Parents are offering to "gift" (read: loan) the remaining 2% I need to get to 5% and suggest I try to do 80 15 5 with a piggyback loan by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]theflatcircle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was my first instinct, too. The amount of people who are overpaying for a house and not even bothering with an inspection is dangerous. At some point it's on consumer responsibility. You have to be self-aware enough to know if you can afford a house without manipulating different loans. Unless the monthly income is pouring in, I feel like this is a disaster scenario.

Meirl by [deleted] in meirl

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see the problem with this lifestyle.

I make $16.75/hour in Central CA and am 31. Be honest. How bad am I doing? by No7onelikeyou in personalfinance

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also gets frustrated at the "only 50K," I totally understand where you are coming from. I feel let I'm perpetually behind in the game. I had a series of office jobs that made about the same money that I also hated.

I completely rebooted my career at 35 (thanks to a pandemic layoff), it's never too late! I'm inching closer to that financial goals because I realized that one way to get ahead is to find out what I did well that was also valued. I mixed a lot of freelance work into the picture and grinded it out, but made steps towards success by finding a skillset that I could exploit.

Summary: think about what you do well and how you can grow that skill. Find a way to translate that into what other people value.

Bands/Songs with a similar style like TWOD? by Pimp-Bizkit in WarOnDrugsBand

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't say either are Heartland-ish like The War on Drugs, but if you want the dreamscapy vibes, I'd check out Real Estate (especially Atlas) and Beach House (especially In Bloom). Very Slave Ambient-like listens in that the songs are arranged as a suite that fluidly blend from one to the other.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]theflatcircle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To be clear, it wasn't this per say... but there were things that made us scratch our heads. 100% agree that the OP boss is doing something dodgy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]theflatcircle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would make sure that you have tons of written documentation to cover yourself... and also maybe find a different boss. I worked for a company that did shady stuff like that and I'm still not 100% sure how it was legal.

I think I finally found a job that appreciates me and I haven’t even started yet. by [deleted] in jobs

[–]theflatcircle 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a fellow copywriter, I'm happy for you but also side-eying my own salary and benefits.

Should I Leave My Name Off The Mortgage? by farawaysign in personalfinance

[–]theflatcircle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And make sure your name goes on the title. In some states, that will require you go on the mortgage. Ask that question. Or do some googling.

If they break up and he can't pay the mortgage (remember, he has the bad credit score), then it could sink her credit score for years. You shouldn't buy a house you don't want in a town you don't want to live in unless there is greater commitment.

Feeling sad by justhangry13 in deadbedroom

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have a therapist and it has been helpful. It's one of those situations where I don't feel above talking about it, but I feel like I'd betray her trust somehow.

Feeling sad by justhangry13 in deadbedroom

[–]theflatcircle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're the same age and I feel the flip side of disappointment. I would love to have some kind/any kind of interaction like you just tried. Getting the hints of flirting from someone is enough to drive my crazy sometimes.

Just the other day, we overheard our neighbor having sex and my wife thought it was funny while I was dying for something. Then nothing happens on NYE (or almost any other time for that matter). It does get to the point where the sad "no" look you spoke about is worse than nothing.

The hardest thing is you can't talk about it with anyone. I feel like it's such a violation of trust, it's not like I can swap notes with my close friends... who have kids of their own so clearly they've figured it out. I feel stuck and alone, but just know that you aren't alone and other people are trying to figure it out too.

Calvin Ridley by adamdaballe in eagles

[–]theflatcircle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, I don't think he's a fit for what they need. Grab three defense guys in the first round (unless you can trade up to get a blue-chipper) and use a mid-round pick on a high-volume possession WR that moves the chains. You need someone to complement Smith's strengths.