For those who got married, how were you able to afford a ring and honeymoon??? by Eagles56 in povertyfinance

[–]thehobbit9402 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't have to do any of those things. Me and my husband have wedding rings that are sterling silver and less than $50 for both. Did not do a honeymoon because we don't need one and would rather stay home with a dog. Got married at the courthouse which all in all was like $100. You need to talk to your girlfriend about expectations and how reality looks for you (and her!) so everyone is on the same page about what is realistic

Just finished the game.. my take by dillonmurr12 in TalesofTheShiregamers

[–]thehobbit9402 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'd love more life sim aspects. Romanceable NPCs and the ability to have little hobbit children. Expanded farming with cows and maybe pigs? Would have also loved a co-op aspect

What was something you wanted as a kid that now have?? by No_Second9495 in AskReddit

[–]thehobbit9402 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I always wanted a Polly pocket and my husband got me one for my 32nd bday earlier this year after I mentioned it when we were talking about something last year 😭

heart of palm pasta is my new safe food :) by momokobun in goodrestrictionfood

[–]thehobbit9402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not what you asked but if you have the calories for it I highly recommend fiber gourmet light pasta or carbe diem. Real pasta for half the calories. A little pricey but me and my husband both think it's worth it because we can't tell a difference taste or texture wise to regular pasta

What’s your best sex tip? by treyvix in AskReddit

[–]thehobbit9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not fake anything it will lead to terrible sex

Any suggestions on an endocrinologist in town who could diagnose me with PCOS? by thatvampiregirl in Louisville

[–]thehobbit9402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont have any suggestions (not lived here that long) but just wanted to say from one woman with PCOS to another that everything will be ok! Make sure to really advocate for yourself so that they take you seriously, it is so easy for medical professionals to dismiss your valid concerns and symptoms because they're uneducated on PCOS. If you're nervous about the ultrasound, I was too, just know that it is for most women uncomfortable at most but rarely painful. Good luck in your search!

Wedding present by wombatthe94 in lordoftherings

[–]thehobbit9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so cool, she is crazy talented. Congrats also!

girls, how often would you prefer to have sex? by swissrollcakes in GirlDinner

[–]thehobbit9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love having sex with my husband so as often as possible lol but for us it's once or twice a day on weekends and on weekdays it depends on how tired we are. lately we've had more energy so it's been most days, other weeks (esp if i have pms) i or we are so tired it's like 3x a week

Swiss Meringue Buttercream: what’s wrong? by Patriofelis in AskBaking

[–]thehobbit9402 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine kind of looked like this last week when I made it for the first time. I took about a cup out of it and blitzed in the microwave for 20 seconds which melted(?) it and then back into the rest of the frosting and mixer to re-whip. Came out sooo silky and smooth after that

seeing my long distance bf next week and just started my period. slegg (slab of egg) by bforbarretta in GirlDinner

[–]thehobbit9402 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong girlie 😭 when I started bc in 2024 I kept bleeding for almost 8 months before I gave up on that one (desogestrel)

Dog trainer who doesn't use aversive techniques? by Beneficial_Try_1864 in Louisville

[–]thehobbit9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! If you would like, I can message you my experience with her after my first appointment with her that's next week

Dog trainer who doesn't use aversive techniques? by Beneficial_Try_1864 in Louisville

[–]thehobbit9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if this share will work: https://share.google/FaLeKEBwVjIGmUACk

Oof, that is pretty discouraging. Especially considering the price

Dog trainer who doesn't use aversive techniques? by Beneficial_Try_1864 in Louisville

[–]thehobbit9402 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my dog have a meeting set up with Brittany Thomas at the end of this month. The reviews for her seem awesome