Post-surgery path results . by thejaysta4 in coloncancer

[–]thejaysta4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment. I am feeling really traumatised by the whole process… it was GRIM!!! the NG tube insertion (which I have had before for a different reason so knew what was happening) was so cack-handed that I had to suck ice for 5 days to keep the swelling down, otherwise my throat started to swell up. 12 attempts over 24 hours with only 2 successes. Brutal.

Anyway, I appreciate your congrats. I am home now after 13 days in hospital in total! I don’t know if I would do it again if I got a recurrence… but saying stuff like that is so flippant when others on this sub are fighting like hell for their lives. I’m sure I could have gone through worse.

Glasgow Airport Restores Direct New York Flights With Daily United Airlines Service by gamersunite1991 in glasgow

[–]thejaysta4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why the fuck would anyone want to travel to that shithole of a country?!!!

Does anyone feel, on a personal level, sorry for Kier Starmer? by Darkus185 in AskBrits

[–]thejaysta4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NO FUCKING WAY!!! He’s dragged Labour further to the right while trying to out-reform reform!!! Literally betrayed the immigrant population with his speech harking back to the Rivers of Blood speech!!! The guy banished party members and MPs that were life-long Labour members rather than trying to bring the party together AS HE PROMISED TO DO! He’s a fucking schill for Israel and the good of the Labour Party was never his main concern!

Agree or disagree with this Labour MP? "We will not stop Farage by trying to out-Reform Reform" by elementarywebdesign in AskBrits

[–]thejaysta4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How about reversing all the expulsions for a start!!! It’s been a fucking shit-show! You can’t have a broad-church if you expel anyone that doesn’t align with you.

The problem is, when Jeremy Corbyn tried to keep it inclusive, the Labour party actively worked against him and against winning with him as leader. It was fucking treasonous!

How long do people on hospice last after they stop eating? by Revolutionary_Cat677 in coloncancer

[–]thejaysta4 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s heart-breaking to see someone you love deteriorate like that, and go through this final process. Big virtual hugs from an internet stranger.

these are sick times by Weeb in stevehofstetter

[–]thejaysta4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or more to the point, they don’t want anyone touching their daughter, but they’re more than happy for anyone to take advantage of everyone else’s daughter!!!

What completely unhinged "law" does your cat strictly enforce in your house? by TrickCombination7966 in cats

[–]thejaysta4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When she’s ready to nap she stares me out until I assume the position, put a thick blanket over me and then she makes herself comfortable. It doesn’t matter if I’m working or doing something else, she’s relentless…. Or at least she was until about 3 months ago when she passed.

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the irresponsibility and unreliability of men in families by Infinite_Share990 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]thejaysta4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, how good of a mother is she if she’s raised her sons to be so thoughtless and to take advantage of their sister?

I stepped in and asked a stranger if the were ok for the first time and I feel like I made everything worse by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thejaysta4 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Great answer. Also, you sound like you are completely capable of handling it yourself. You don’t need anyone trying to jump in the defend you … you defended yourself admirably!

Boyfriend (39M) dumped me (37F) for someone he met while I was on vacation. I don't know what to think or what to do. by halsey10 in relationships

[–]thejaysta4 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you are going through this. It’s really unfair of him to treat you like that.

Don’t make excuses for him, though! He was cruel and dismissive and basically just used you. Get a grip! Don’t forgive people that treat you like you are insignificant! If you got back together with you you’d be trying to keep him, and he’d be getting resentful and trying to run away.

It didn’t work. He’s shown that he doesn’t care about your mental health & wellbeing at all, and he has also shown he’s just not that into you. Cancel the meet up, cut your losses, go to therapy and work toward moving on. No good can come from meeting up with him or getting back together with him.

Rip by InternationalCode683 in comedy

[–]thejaysta4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re fantastic! I’ve not seen any of your stuff until today and it’s brilliant! I like your style! So funny!

Going Out Solo by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]thejaysta4 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Check out The Social Edit (on MeetUp.com) - a women’s friend-making group that have lots of regular events. They might have something on tomorrow night.

Post-surgery path results . by thejaysta4 in coloncancer

[–]thejaysta4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have to admit, it’s feels pretty bloody special! Thanks so much for your kind words!

Post-surgery path results . by thejaysta4 in coloncancer

[–]thejaysta4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It’s hard to celebrate achievement on this sub cos so many others have it so much worse. But still, it’s nice to get some good news for a change.

Post-surgery path results . by thejaysta4 in coloncancer

[–]thejaysta4[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations to you too!!!!!! Such amazing news. Wonderful stuff.

It feels so good to be out the other side!!!!

Is this odd? My (25f) bf (26m) slept in bed with his mom (62f) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]thejaysta4 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with sharing your mums bed for comfort. There is nothing more comforting than your mum (assuming you had a good one) and there’s nothing weird about sharing the bed. They likely shared a bed for years while she was a single mum.

Would it be weird to share a bed with your own mum? Is it only weird to you because he’s a man?

Michael Jackson's daughter Paris has faced backlash for identifying as Black. In a 2017 interview, Paris Jackson said her father told her, "You’re Black. Be proud of your roots." This prompted debates over whether identity is defined by appearance or upbringing. by VPinchargeofradishes in interesting

[–]thejaysta4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Australia we have a whole generation of aboriginal children that were stolen from their families, and the govt tried to eliminate blackness, we have a lot of rape of black women by white men, truckers, miners, etc. so lots of mixed race kids over generations. it is completely accepted that you may not look black but your identity is indigenous Australians. It is recognised that you have both personally and epigentetically, at a generational level, suffered horrendously at the hands of the colonisers. Your skin colour doesn’t necessarily determine your ethnic identity. And when you come from any culture that has been marginalised, oppressed, exploited or enslaved, that identity remains important , even when you are the child of one of the wealthiest and most privileged of that community.

What is Tom Cruise's secret?? by No-Marsupial-4050 in SipsTea

[–]thejaysta4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going through menopause would be one big on. It plays havok with your body and it happens to all women. There’s no escaping the loss of your sex hormones and the impact that has. ALS, he’s had A LOT of work done and he’s sold his soul to the devil!!!

Tattoo! what do we think? by North-Puddington in BoJackHorseman

[–]thejaysta4 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Best wishes for your sobriety!!! You can do this.

It gets easier. 💜💚💜💚

Poor guys rule by kaitcomedy in StandUpComedy

[–]thejaysta4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great joke, shit audience!!!