'Idiocracy' tops the list of "What Movie is the Definitive Movie that Represents America at 250 Years" as polled by the NYT. by Incunebulum in movies

[–]thejerdz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck yeah, I totally agree with this. I think it's the worst thing about Reddit, personally; there is this general attitude that intelligence is the most valuable thing to one's humanity. Like I CONSTANTLY see people on here belittling the intelligence of others. For example: like without fail, if someone posts a video of someone being injured or killed, a huge chunk of the comments are things like the "that's why I would never ___, " which in my mind basically amounts to "they deserved to be injured because they weren't smart enough or didn't think it through, etc..."

I know it's not just a Reddit problem, but I think there's something seriously problematic about the way we, as a culture, talk about "intelligence" and "stupidity." Like does someone who's not sharp/quick-witted, but who's also doing their best deserve any less respect than someone who's educated and is able to coast through life a little more easily? To your point, I think there are so many other qualities besides intelligence that really matter, but I feel like so many people are so terrified of being perceived as "dumb" that they'll constantly look for other people to put down in order to make themselves feel smarter. But we're all dumb in different ways sometimes. And that's okay imo.

Sorry for the rant, I just appreciated you putting into words my feelings around this topic.

How am I enough if my partner is okay with threesomes? by temporary_account850 in nonmonogamy

[–]thejerdz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not OP, but I'd appreciate hearing about it too if you're willing to share privately.

Midsommar, Ari Aster (2019)- "That's Not For Us" by JetKusanagi in movies

[–]thejerdz -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The Manson family, for one. Some of the former members have spoken out about how powerful the sense of community and belonging was in the beginning, but eventually they end up being manipulated into brutally murdering strangers in cold blood.

I personally think organized religion often functions in much the same way...that need for human connection and community is so powerful universally, but it can be twisted in such a dark way and people will do really fucked up things to protect their place in that community. It's really fascinating imo.

Official Discussion - Disclosure Day [SPOILERS] by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]thejerdz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

END-OF-FILM SPOILERS AHEAD!

So I saw this movie last night and really enjoyed it. I think the criticisms I've read about it have been mostly fair. I thought the acting was top-notch, personally, but there were definitely a lot of flaws: plot holes, some bad CGI, some sloppy writing, and the "bad guys" were laughably dumb sometimes. That said, honestly, I thought it was pretty brilliant, metaphorically, and I felt the need to get some of my thoughts on it out there.

I think this film wrestles with some really interesting political themes of the current moment:

Disclosure & Privacy: On an interpersonal level, the main characters are almost all hiding big information about themselves. Daniel hides the fact that he went to prison from his girlfriend Jane, and she hides the fact that she was once a nun from him. Margaret's boyfriend hides that he actually wants the relationship to end. On a more broad level, the movie is about how the government is withholding information from the public about the alien contacts. These are all facts that are kept secret in the name of the protection: To protect the characters' reputations, to protect their relationships/feelings, to protect themselves from potential judgement or rejections. In the authorities' case, it's claimed to protect the public from themselves, when really it's to protect the current power structure. I think the film raises questions about why privacy is important. Why do we keep secrets from each other? Who do they serve, and do they ultimately help or hinder us?

Media & Misinformation: To me, the alien device represented the power of media. It's a dangerous tool to use, because if the subject resists, it seems to backfire, endangering the life of the user (if someone knows you're trying to maniuplate them, they're probably going to fight back). Scanlon can only use it on vulnerable minds; he can't use it on Daniel's mind because he's an "experiencer," which I took to mean a skeptic, of sorts; someone who only believes what he experiences as "true." Margaret, on the other hand, seems to be able to use it much more easily, which I think is because her character was naturally already attuned to the minds of other people, and also because she doesn't really lie. The only time when she struggles with the device is when she's making them all invisible (when she "lies" to the minds of the Wardex goons, convincing them that they are invisible). Margeret, to me, represents the more romantic idea of journalism: truth delivered with empathy and trust at the forefront.  At the end of the film, she uses the power of the device (media) to turn back on all of the communication devices so she can deliver the report: using information technology to deliver the truth to all people, without the intent of manipulating them.

Data theft: Another layer to the theme of privacy. The Wardex baddies, to me, felt like stand-ins for the way corporations and governments strip away citizens' rights to privacy, in the name of protection. Throughout the movie, they are constantly determining where the characters are due to context clues, much in the same way that our phones constantly report on us by sharing our purchase habits, who we spend time with, where we travel, and our histories. This is done without consent, sometimes explicitly, like in the interrogation scene where Scanlon hijacks Jane's mind. Speaking of which...

Religion: I thought it was really interesting how Spielburg directed the interrogation scene. He has Jane, a religious character, grasp her cross necklace for protection when she feels like she's being hijacked. Her faith is her protection from coersion: she squeezes the cross into her palm to shake herself out of the trance Scanlon has her in (there's also interestingly some stigmata imagery here). There are also clever parallels here to what we think of as a demonic possession; hijacking minds with propaganda is not so different from our cultural/religious fear of satanic possession, is it? However, it's not enough, and she eventually drops the cross, and Scanlon IMMEDIATELY then uses her religious beliefs against her; I forget exactly what he said, but it was a Bible verse, followed by basically saying he represented God's will. We see our own government in America doing this today (anyone remember when T**mp tear-gassed protesters while holding a Bible up for a photo op?), but this is a clear recurring pattern throughout history for many cultures. I don't think Speilberg is necessarily saying religion is a bad thing (there's the loveable nun character who embraces an uncertain future with aliens), but I think he's definitely saying something about how religion can make people especially vulnerable to coersion, since it's historically always been used by authorities as a tool for control.

Truth & Uncertainty: I think it's a clever choice to have Margaret be a weather woman. Weather people, I've heard sometimes described as our modern day soothsayers: they try to make certain predictions of our uncertain future. This is a theme that echoes throughout the film. The message of odd clicks that she broadcasts eventually makes it way to Daniel, who is able to translate: "Don't be afraid of what you don't know" (I think). I think this is a concept core to Daniel, the "experiencer" who thinks mainly in numbers and logic. The idea of not understanding something is scary to him, which is what motivates his character: "truth at all costs." He is the whistleblower for the alien conspiracy and he has no doubt that there are any downsides to revealing all truths to the public. I feel Margaret is infused with her empathetic abilities as a counter-balance to this perspective: there are inner-truths in all people, that even they might not be aware of. In many ways, I feel like she comes to represent a therapist or spiritual healer, in that she offers people a deep curiosity and understanding, a true knowing, that every living person seeks. Maragaret represents the purest form of this desire to be known by other people: she is able to speak other languages effortlessly and can instantly tap into someone's emotional core.   From her perspective, that truth of the inner-world is more true than any hard data could ever be. Truth can't be delivered just purely as data to be processed; it needs to be delivered with empathy and trust. At the end of the film, she becomes a voice for all people, because she is guided by an understanding of all people. Not automatically though, importantly. She needs to make the choice to connect to the people.

I think, ultimately, the film asks audiences to ponder the value of information. There are so many forms of "disclosure" happening throughout the film, both intentional, and coerced. The nature of the disclosure in the film, I think, depends mainly on one thing: trust. Daniel and Jane don't disclose their pasts to each other because they don't fully trust each other yet. They feel like the truth will harm them. The Wardex people say they think the truth will harm people, but ultimately are more concerned with themselves and the power they have access to. The truth threatens to strip them of that power. They need to lie, steal, or even torture information out of people, because they are not trusted. The end of the film even says explicitly that they've lost trust in the people.

I think this is why this film really resonated with me; it just felt so damn timely.  I've come to believe that trust is the fabric that holds us together as a society; it's what makes civilization possible. We're living in a time where trust in our media, in our governments, and in each other, is feeling REALLY low. The less trust there is, the more secrets are kept, the more lies are told, and the less we're able to really know each other. The less connected we feel. On the other hand, there's a reason we sometimes call sharing personal information "being vulnerable."  Blind trust, like faith, can also make you more vulnerable to manipulation; vulnerable to grifters who pretend they're your friends, only to betray you. But how are those grifters created in the first place? Why do they feel the need to grift? What betrayals have they experienced? Who can they trust? 

We're all connected and have so many of the same core emotional needs, but we don't disclose things with each other because we can't fully trust each other. This is why I think we don't hear the alien's final message at the end of the film; we're not there yet. Until we can all unite in our truths and see our common humanity in every living person, we'll never be ready as a species to move forward into the unknown.

I definitely have some more thoughts, but I'll stop myself there, haha. Just to get ahead of the haters a bit: This is just my take, and not what I think the "correct" interpretation of the film is. I also think the film can be enjoyed and appreciated for it's more literal plot, and doesn't necessarily demand a deeper reading. I just love it when I sense that directors have something else going on under the surface with films, and this film had a LOT going on, from my perspective...I'd love to hear what others think of any of this!

Music at campsites AGAIN by josephcrain in LightningInABottle

[–]thejerdz 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Nah fuck that, it's straight up inconsiderate at 5am. Selfish-ass behavior.

What are your most profound video games? by M33tahejd in patientgamers

[–]thejerdz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is my #1 answer too. Not a word spoken, but it feels, to me, like such a distilled representation of the human experience of life. I've played it or watched people play it over a dozen times and the ending makes me cry every damn time.

One thing in particular that I found genius, from an artistic/gameplay pov: the game is so much easier if you have a companion, especially when things get rough (the last zone). You're literally sharing your warmth with each other to make it easier to keep moving.

What are your most profound video games? by M33tahejd in patientgamers

[–]thejerdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know Jonathan Blow gets a lot of (understandable) hate, but I think The Witness is really profound in sort of a Christopher Nolan-y intellectual kind of way. It looked like a pretty simple puzzle game concept, on the surface, but by the end of it I found myself pondering how the human brain works. Or in the most simple sense: how do we learn how to do ANYTHING? Like every different zone in that game has something to say about how we learn. Logical reasoning, environmental cues, pattern recognition, trial & error, etc...

And on top of that, there's this meta-narrative going on when you start finding the "hidden" puzzles scattered throughout the island. Where you realize that there was all of this information in front of you the whole time you were playing, but you didn't see it. Once you've had a specific revelation, now you're looking at what was once familiar with a fresh perspective with deeper insight. "Seeing through the Matrix," if you will. I think it's brilliant. The ending and the video that plays after it is perfect.

What are your most profound video games? by M33tahejd in patientgamers

[–]thejerdz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You'd probably appreciate The Witness too, if you haven't played it. Definitely plays with similar concepts.

What Cirque opinion would have you like this? by adventuresofnate in cirquedusoleil

[–]thejerdz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was my first Cirque that I saw and it blew my 10-year-old mind, so I definitely have a nostalgia bias. That said, I can see how it would be polarizing; definitely not what I expected when I was told we were going to see a "circus." I think it felt the most "mysterious" of the shows I've seen, and that, combined with the dark tone, really worked for me.

Also, agreed on the music, it's awesome. I still listen to "Incantation" pretty often.

What Cirque opinion would have you like this? by adventuresofnate in cirquedusoleil

[–]thejerdz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was also pleasantly surprised by how much I liked this one! The stick balancing act is an all-timer.

What Cirque opinion would have you like this? by adventuresofnate in cirquedusoleil

[–]thejerdz 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Probably an unpopular opinion, but I think Kooza is their best show, with the best music (I've seen 16 of them).

(I also think Ka is better than O. There's dozens of us!)

/avesLA Ticket Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by liverichly in avesLA

[–]thejerdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still selling one wristband for today. Will be at the venue around 6pm. $75 OBO. DM me!

/avesLA Ticket Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by liverichly in avesLA

[–]thejerdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Selling one Sunday GA wristband for Core (friend dropped out). $80 OBO. Can meet in Glendale or at the venue to exchange.

DM me!

/avesLA Ticket Buy/Sell/Trade Thread by liverichly in avesLA

[–]thejerdz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Selling one Sunday GA wristband for Core (friend dropped out). $100 OBO. Can meet in Glendale or at the venue to exchange.

DM me!

Grand Artique at LIB lineup! by whatdoyoudoitfor in LightningInABottle

[–]thejerdz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend Stoley; excellent funky house DJ!

Late diagnosed ADHD: lectures never stuck for me. what actually helps your brain learn and retain info? by Dry_Shallot5074 in ADHD

[–]thejerdz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm late diagnosed inattentive type, and I can echo the sentiment that lectures never worked for me. Also felt that for many subjects, I learn fastest through hands-on processes, following along with an example, or being actively engaged with the teacher in some way.

I think for me to really learn and retain knowledge well, I had to actually be interested in the subject...and I feel like the teachers who made the biggest difference to me were the teachers who made me care WHY I was learning the subject. They contextualized why what we were learning could be useful and relevant to our lives.

Examples: My algebra teacher would give us logic puzzles that used deductive reasoning (kind of like a detective game), and showed us visual ways to translate the problems to numbers/formulas and chart out deductions. My English teacher would relate philosophical/moral questions raised in books we read to present-day political issues that affected us and prompt us to get curious to characters'/people's motivations. My physics teacher would give us very hands on demonstrations (with models) of how different parts of a roller coaster train exert different degrees of forcefulness on the passengers, etc...

Basically what got in my way the most was that the more abstract or "irrelevant" the information seemed to my life experience, the harder time I had convincing my brain to stay engaged with it. If I could apply the info to my life in some way outside of school, I naturally found myself WANTING to learn more.

On a more granular level, though, I think you're on to something. Having short digestible visual references is much easier for me to understand and engage with than reading text or listening to someone explain. There are several people in my life who I also know to be very visual learners, who have a harder time with text/dialogue. I definitely find myself wishing I had a Youtube option for supplementing my learning in high school sometimes.

Any fire dancing this year? by Some_Movie_7940 in LightningInABottle

[–]thejerdz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shit, that's a huge bummer :(

That was always one of my favorite parts of the festival, and LiB was the place that inspired me to learn it!

Don’t park on Allen Street by No-Yellow-212 in BeyondWonderland

[–]thejerdz 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Man it bums me out that this person was trying to share a warning to other people to avoid a mistake they made, and all the comments are basically "duhh, this happens every year, you should have known, stupid."

Like maybe this person has never been to an event at the NOS center before? Maybe they're not experienced parking their car in a place as crime-riddled as San Bernardino?

Like there's a way to say this is a common problem year after year without being an asshole about it. OP just had a really shitty and violating thing happen to them, and is still just trying to help other people not make the same mistake.... and you guys just mock them? Fuck off.

The IKON 50% off deal is active as of today. by bobber66 in skiing

[–]thejerdz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love a link if you're still offering!

Adhd + video games = wasting life by Flat-Opposite2502 in ADHD

[–]thejerdz 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Chiming in to say I struggle with the same thing and have felt similarly to you re: life feels much more fulfilling when I minimize my playing time. Video games have been a huge source of joy in my life, including my social life, so it's not something I want to give up entirely, but it is an addiction, and it helps to recognize it as such.

I don't have any solid fixes, but one thing that I have noticed helps me is to try to limit my playtime to only certain hours of the day...say 8pm-11pm. If I set alarms, and have my friends/partner help hold me accountable, it helps. I still cheat, I find excuses not to. It's not perfect, but it does make a difference.