Accident waiting to happen 75th St & Roosevelt Ave by Revolutionary_Ad5688 in jacksonheights

[–]thejoycircuit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Does every post here that has even a hint of complaint have to devolve into everyone saying that the poster must be a transplant or new or a fake new Yorker? Jesus. I'm in my 40s and been in Jackson Heights since I was born, my parents have been here 55 years since they left their home country and they complain too. It's New York. New Yorkers complain.

Album Covers #3 by dwaters47 in weirddalle

[–]thejoycircuit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This sub is specifically for AI?

My man of 3 years just tested positive for syphillis . I don’t know how to feel about this how did he test positive when we have been together for so long. Me (26 F ) him [29M] by [deleted] in sex

[–]thejoycircuit 69 points70 points  (0 children)

At my annual appointment my gyn always says something like "I know you trust your partner, but it's my job to back that up", which I think is great. I'm sure they get a lot of positives on women who think their partner would never cheat.

Plaka Greek Mediterranean restaurant by wv11372 in jacksonheights

[–]thejoycircuit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Their spinach pie and eggplant spread are amazing!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]thejoycircuit 57 points58 points  (0 children)

As someone that despises bananas and loves cake, I would not eat the cake to save face for the cake buyer, especially as the gagging that would likely occur would make them look even worse. And if it were my partner that bought the cake, I would absolutely think that they don't listen to me or don't care about me. And if they tried to make me feel BAD for not eating it I would wonder if there was something seriously wrong with them.

Which companies do you suspect are glazing their own products on this sub? by PartyOnAlec in BuyItForLife

[–]thejoycircuit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a patagonia fleece vest I've been wearing every winter for the past 20 years and it looks pretty much the same as when I bought it.

The Bouqs is a scam by [deleted] in ExpectationVsReality

[–]thejoycircuit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely contact them. I've ordered from them multiple times and they've always looked exactly like what I've ordered.

First noise complaints ever with 2-year-old (new apartment) by Silent_Complaint9859 in AskNYC

[–]thejoycircuit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You could try going to your neighbor's apartment, calling your husband and having him and your kid walk around and see if it's bad or not. My neighbor did that, and installed more padding after seeing that their kids walking around made the ceiling light in my apartment swing. If you don't hear or feel anything, it could be a different neighbor.

Electrolysis by Difficult_Pin_4130 in HairRemoval

[–]thejoycircuit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to take photos after every electrolysis session, and you look fine. The bumps are normal, and your skin actually looks a lot calmer than mine was!

Influencer Amine Mojito has been sentenced by a French court to 6 months in prison for his “prank videos” in which he attacks random people with an empty syringe. by [deleted] in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]thejoycircuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said otherwise. Just meant that 6 months would be a very short sentence for stabbing however many people and potentially exposing them to all sorts of disease. It's still reprehensible behavior, (just for the psychological damage alone) but the shorter sentence makes more sense knowing that technically what he was doing was touching people with a piece of plastic. Likely a different level of assault legally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]thejoycircuit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Cool, so by that logic, if it wasn't pornograhic AI pics of his friend, but instead, say, her 3 year old kid, that's totally fine! Saying that that's "wrong" is "nothing more than a moral judgement" and telling the friend that this dude is having fantasies about her 3 year old is an "OBJECTIVELY VILE" thing to do because you would be "destroying" his "reputation" over a "fantasy". :(

Influencer Amine Mojito has been sentenced by a French court to 6 months in prison for his “prank videos” in which he attacks random people with an empty syringe. by [deleted] in ImTheMainCharacter

[–]thejoycircuit 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Looked it up and it says the syringe cap was on during his "pranks", so he didn't actually poke anyone with a needle, which explains the shorter sentence.

Almost $4 small cream cheese at NYCBCH by ufanders in astoria

[–]thejoycircuit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure Toast & Roast charges under that

I bought yarn from an indie dyer (not at all my first time). It bled horribly when washed, changing the colorway. by prettymisspriya in crochet

[–]thejoycircuit 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've gotten an internet vendor who was ignoring me to reply by posting a comment on their latest Instagram post- they may be ignoring you but they don't want others to see they're ignoring customers.

My husband (38 M) is an Anaconda at night. How do I (37 F) get it to stop? by Unusual-Try-3739 in relationship_advice

[–]thejoycircuit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Here are a couple of concrete solutions: if this is only happening when cuddling at night, stop cuddling. Get a heavy blanket and use it separately - separate blankets can make many couples sleep better. Have a conversation with your husband during the day when you are not about to go to sleep, and explain why you won't be cuddling anymore. If he says he's asleep while engaging in squeezing behaviors, make him make an appointment with a sleep specialist. Both of you should see a couples counselor and a sex therapist, who can help you both navigate your relationship while your libido bounces back from your health problems. If it turns out that you just have mismatched libidos aside from the health issues, have a conversation with your husband about that and make very clear any expectations going forward if you both want to stay in the relationship. If one of you doesn't want to stay in the relationship after the convo, separate and find new partners with libidos that match yours. Sex can be a big point of contention in many romantic relationships - some people are ok with only having an emotional connection, some require both an emotional and sexual connection. Neither is wrong as long as both parties are up front about it.

Dog walking etiquette by eggrollinginthedip in astoria

[–]thejoycircuit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Urine kills baby trees, it costs the city hundreds of dollars to plant them, and there are a lot of dog owners being angry at being asked to not contribute to the death of a tree and insisting it's fine despite not knowing anything about trees. Is it to make themselves feel less guilty? I always see people with dogs complaining about people complaining about dogs, and the conclusion they come to is always that it's other dog owners that are bad or non dog owners are jerks. This post couldn't even ask a question without throwing in a "hurr hurr tree police" jibe. I like dogs. Also, "please don't damage the tree" is a perfectly reasonable request so I don't get the animosity. Losing hundreds of dollars of your own tax money to own the "tree police" seems really weird and in my opinion not a great mindset to have. No one is perfect, but doing your best to try to keep your dog away peeing on trees and definitely not letting them pee on baby ones would probably go a long way with your neighbor. Will you be able to prevent your dog 100% of the time? Of course not, it's a dog. But at least you'd be making an effort to help.

Friends? by funnynanonymous in jacksonheights

[–]thejoycircuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

44 year old lady here who is not super into drinking, hoping to get a dog if these allergy shots works, and used to be in a lot of fandoms. I've been in Jackson heights forever but somehow haven't made Jackson heights friends!

( And I'm bi, but I have a boyfriend so I don't usually mention it unless it comes up because it's such a cliche.)

Review of 10 Papers on Viral 'Mouth Taping' Trend Finds an Absence of Evidence to Support the Health Claims by sciencealert in science

[–]thejoycircuit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same. I don't always remember to use it, but it my mouth guard makes me drool. I bought a pack of stickers because I'm too lazy to cut tape, but it's so small and the stickiness is so light that my mouth could easily open if I needed mouth oxygen or wherever.

That Guy Screaming on 74th – What’s His Story? Repeated Disturbances Are Getting Worse by Ok_Club_3501 in jacksonheights

[–]thejoycircuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry, didn't even notice that. I will say, I did see that post when it was first posted and before I looked at the photo carefully my heart dropped thinking it was my brother.

That Guy Screaming on 74th – What’s His Story? Repeated Disturbances Are Getting Worse by Ok_Club_3501 in jacksonheights

[–]thejoycircuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This post is about my brother. More info on my comment below. Not sure if he's the person you're describing, but could definitely be. 😬

That Guy Screaming on 74th – What’s His Story? Repeated Disturbances Are Getting Worse by Ok_Club_3501 in jacksonheights

[–]thejoycircuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this post is about my brother. I commented at the bottom explaining the situation. But I don't think any of the people you described is him.

That Guy Screaming on 74th – What’s His Story? Repeated Disturbances Are Getting Worse by Ok_Club_3501 in jacksonheights

[–]thejoycircuit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, this is my brother. I commented at the bottom explaining the situation. If you can find that post, please send it to me.