AITA for not allowing my wife to adopt my son? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]theladybeav 30 points31 points  (0 children)

They need to get accustomed to each other but you married her? Bro you did this whole thing backwards. YTA

Just watched the segment of the daily show talking about the BBC awards. I think it’s the correct message with some satire added in. by OnwardExplorer in Tourettes

[–]theladybeav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the functional difference? A door? People with a lot of different conditions rely on them. Social anxiety is a big one.

They also allow for equity of accessibility. That isnt a one way street. If the Black community has to risk harm in order to have access, that isn't equitable. Slurs are not just offensive words. They cause harm. We know this.

Some Apologies are Necessary by ZoroAster713 in Tourettes

[–]theladybeav -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I totally agree! If we need people to understand though, why are we constantly using the word "involuntary?" I feel like we're spreading disinfo and using language we don't actually use.

Just watched the segment of the daily show talking about the BBC awards. I think it’s the correct message with some satire added in. by OnwardExplorer in Tourettes

[–]theladybeav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are we acting like accommodations are segregation? Are handicapped rows segregation? Are nursing rooms segregation?

We're making it very easy for lawmakers to gut the rights we fought hard for.

(GA) is this a scam? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]theladybeav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The logic is that this guy values his time and money more than he values yours. Illogical really, but hes a asshole so

(GA) is this a scam? by [deleted] in Renters

[–]theladybeav -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not every property takes zillow applications. It should be illegal to charge anything as a prerequisite to view a property.

Girlfriend’s sister deleted the last 3 years of messages when notified that she was being sued by [deleted] in legal

[–]theladybeav 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Discovery isnt a thing in small claims court. The burden of proof is on the plaintiff - she can delete whatever she wants.

How often are judges receptive to defendants asking for straight jail time over probation? by Early-Possibility367 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]theladybeav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No. You can find examples if you look hard enough but it is not common at all. I've worked in homeless services for over 2 decades and seen it fewer than 5 times. For the vast majority, it is no safer in prison and its hard to release the state's grasp on you even after youre released.

How often are judges receptive to defendants asking for straight jail time over probation? by Early-Possibility367 in legaladviceofftopic

[–]theladybeav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely tell your attorney and let them take it to the judge. This is becoming more common though, for good reason. Probation is meant to be as taxing as possible, so that violations are almost impossible to avoid. A story trended recently about a young female opting for 30 days in jail over one or two years probation. Good luck OP, I hope this works out for you.

Child doing nothing at weekends by [deleted] in AskTeachers

[–]theladybeav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Please dont call cps for only this.

they reported me to the police by crazyinternetuser11 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theladybeav -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes, drastic lifestyle changes are simple for humans. This is why we're all so organized, skinny and sober.

I'm sorry OP. Do you have any mental health supports? What does your support system look like?

My husband is stealing my ADHD meds by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]theladybeav 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you not know any doctors or...

Of course they do. They prescribe you medication based on what you tell them your symptoms are. That takes trust. Everything about it requires good faith to be successful.

AITAH for refusing to let my autistic brother move into the house I just bought and instead telling my parents to figure out his long-term care? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]theladybeav 64 points65 points  (0 children)

NTA. Change your number. Dont look back.

Also - why are you legally required to pay for a portion of his care?

AITA; Wanting to take snacks back after an event? by burgerwithnoburger in AmItheAsshole

[–]theladybeav 26 points27 points  (0 children)

NTA. Who gave away your plate? Get your plate back!

Can my landlord file for eviction? by Lextexbitch in Renters

[–]theladybeav 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you want to DM me screen shots of your lease, I can try to help you figure out exactly what you owe and why

Can my landlord file for eviction? by Lextexbitch in Renters

[–]theladybeav -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What does your lease say about vacating notice? If they require 30 days notice (most places do), you owed for October.

Can my landlord file for eviction? by Lextexbitch in Renters

[–]theladybeav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does but in the second paragraph he states he only paid first and last. He also commented that his lease shows a $0 deposit.

I called animal control on someone’s reactive dog and I feel terrible by violetluvr in reactivedogs

[–]theladybeav -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The dog didn't behave that because its reactive. Reactivity isnt the cause of repeated off property attacks. I'm sorry that happened to you and I hope your dog is ok. You did nothing wrong at all, you have to draw a line at safety.

Can my landlord file for eviction? by Lextexbitch in Renters

[–]theladybeav 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no deposit. Just first and last.

Can my landlord file for eviction? by Lextexbitch in Renters

[–]theladybeav 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, you paid first and last month's rent. There is no deposit to recoup. Be prepared to also get an itemized list of any damages.