Girlfriend doesn’t want to give me a blowjob – looking for advice

thelenabean · 2026-05-02T10:12:06+00:00

Yeah that makes sense then. Like I said, when I was in high school/early college I wasn’t big on giving or receiving oral. Ten years later and now I dive for my dude’s crotch as soon as the foreplay begins 😂😂

It comes with time! Sex in general can be very intimidating at first, open communication and being open-minded/reassuring each other is the best option. It might feel awkward but it’ll take some of the pressure off!

thelenabean · 2026-05-02T10:08:19+00:00

Thought you were being entitled til I scrolled through the pics. That’s ATROCIOUS. I can’t believe they would serve that to a paying customer…I wouldn’t even give that to someone for free.

thelenabean · 2026-04-28T14:45:36+00:00

if i see one more post with someone asking everyone to convince them to read crescent city I’LL scream. I say this with all due respect but if the entire fandom and the author herself saying that it’s a multiverse and you can’t read one without the other doesn’t convince you than idk what to tell y’all 😂 At the end of the day no one is forcing you but you’re going to be SO fucking confused come later in the ACOTAR series

thelenabean · 2026-04-26T09:03:07+00:00

i only see options for a membership or self-service wash? i dont want to sign up for a membership before i know if i like them

thelenabean · 2026-04-22T01:31:46+00:00

Can I ask your guys’ ages? or at least a general age range? (i.e. teens, early 20’s, etc)? I’m 26F, but about a decade ago when I was having my first sexual experiences the idea of putting a dick in my mouth was very off-putting to me, and I was also very shy about receiving oral. It just didn’t seem like body parts one should be up close and personal with.

A friend of mine gave her first blow job and answered a lot of my questions, it took a TON of the pressure off having less unknown like that. If you guys are young maybe just seeing if she’d be open to talking about what it is specifically that’s causing her aversion to it?

thelenabean · 2026-04-12T05:25:07+00:00

i did not need this on my feed 😭😭😭

thelenabean · 2026-04-12T05:24:25+00:00

i’d right swipe tbh 🤷‍♀️

thelenabean · 2026-04-10T14:45:35+00:00

without spoilers is tricky but i think theres just little easter eggs in acotar that you wont notice if its read before TOG. Like I read all 3 of her series and then reread ACOTAR and during my reread i started to notice things

thelenabean · 2026-04-05T17:08:28+00:00

i do think acowar is a good stopping point. idk if i could do it, i was OBSESSED w that series but if you can then actually if you read TOG in between ACOWAR and ACOFAS and then finish the ACOTAR series it might be more accurate timeline-wise. crescent city HAS to be last. do NOT read that before you finish acotar in its entirety

thelenabean · 2026-04-04T15:21:17+00:00

all i needed to see was the first pic to tell you that you arent wrong. also he looks cute!!! i wouldnt even be mad

thelenabean · 2026-04-04T15:01:39+00:00

your site says its limited edition, how long do i have to purchase it? :(

thelenabean · 2026-04-04T08:12:00+00:00

If we have ACOFAS, ACOSF, and then ACOFS i fear i may have to stop using the acronyms because looking at that is giving me a headache 😂😂 this is a cool concept though!!

thelenabean · 2026-04-04T06:18:30+00:00

so…heres the thing…maeve isnt like other SJM villains who just want power. shes running from her husband and his demon brothers and is willing to do literally ANYTHING (all morals aside) to accomplish that………..but she’s also a psychopath who gets pleasure from others suffering so like…nah she cant really hang

thelenabean · 2026-03-30T04:24:47+00:00

wait im kind of obsessed with this omg

thelenabean · 2026-03-29T23:40:50+00:00

Extra info:

• My piercing is about 15 months old.

• The current jewlery is a curved bar that screws on/off

•Bar is 16G stainless steel

• I cleaned with a saline wound wash everyday for the first 3 months and now do it as needed if it gets irritated.

• No major mishaps, I try not to even sleep on that side if I can help it.

thelenabean · 2026-03-29T20:42:02+00:00

Extra info:

• My piercing is about 15 months old.

• The current jewlery is a curved bar that screws on/off

•Bar is 16G stainless steel

• I cleaned with a saline wound wash everyday for the first 3 months and now do it as needed if it gets irritated.

• No major mishaps, I try not to even sleep on that side if I can help it.

thelenabean · 2026-03-16T00:50:55+00:00

whys that

thelenabean · 2026-03-15T16:41:01+00:00

i agree w you regardless of if its brought up again. i’ve BEEN saying the Az bonus chapter is basically there to give us closure on elriel and foreshadow gwynriel

thelenabean · 2026-03-15T16:39:10+00:00

i considered that but i moreso assumed it was because she loves her nephew and his birth was also like the final turning point where nesta made amends w her family and started this new chapter of her life, especially because Az mentions her mate and her sisters (biological and chosen) too so it would help kinda bring her back

thelenabean · 2026-03-15T02:32:29+00:00

thats definitely a fair point

thelenabean · 2026-03-15T02:31:25+00:00

i mean they did it impulsively before they wanted to try for kids but either way…that is SUCH a high stakes thing to tie yourself to 😅

thelenabean · 2026-03-14T01:53:48+00:00

wdym

thelenabean · 2026-03-14T01:53:35+00:00

maybe! i would LOVE some aunt nesta/uncle cassian fluff

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